I have got seriously mixed feelings about my latest visit to an eescort. This was the 5th time I've seen her.Didn't go so well this time. Started off well, kissing was passionate, nice cuddling, she encouraged me to spank her, but for some reason I was struggling for hardness when I tried penetrating her. She was understanding and I eventually came while she gave me a blowjob/handjob but I'm a bit pissed off I couldn't stay hard during penetration. We just cuddled and talked for the last 30 minutes or so.idk why this happened. Last two times have been fine, I went on top and finished inside her (condom on obviously). She says I overthink things which is true.At the end I asked her about meeting again in 2 weeks and she said yes instantly and kissed me but something about her demeanour made me worried. She seemed a bit colder than normal at the end.I've texted her saying thanks and that I really enjoy getting to know her. But I am worried.Is my problem that I'm too emotionally/intellectually attracted to her? Why couldn't I get hard this time?
>>34239934>kissing an escort
>>34239934Do you take drugs, alcohol, or something else that could altered your blood circulation ?
>>34239934>She seemed a bit colder than normal at the end.Its because she was developing feelings for you, but since you couldnt get hard in her pussy it made her feel bad, and she snapped back to reality that you arent the guy for her.
>>34239992no>>34239995please don't say that
>>34240050>please don't say thatIts over. See another escort for a while to make her jealous, it'll work probably
she's read the text message I sent her 25 minutes ago asking about our next meeting but hasn't replied yetI am mentally preparing myself for her ghosting me
>>34240137Dude, she's an escort. It's not hard for her to "like" you. To get on an escorts "like" list just be a regular that comes clean, never haggle on pricing, doesn't hurt her physically and you are golden.She's used to smelly negros trying to bareback her and short her on the payment.You are overthinking this.
>>34240379Well I do all that. I did spank her a bit today but she told me to.Yet it's now been 2.5 hours and she has left me on read.
>>34239934 >idk why this happened. It's nervousness, even a tiny bit (you won't even notice that you're nervous) makes your penis numb and makes it hard to cum. The time pressure experienced with a prostitute doesn't help. btw anyone visiting escorts should be aware that you can literally get throat cancer from ingesting saliva or vaginal fluids: >https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/HPV-positive_oropharyngeal_cancer There is a vaccine against the most common carcinogenic strains of HPV
>>34240460It's Superbowl Sunday, a notoriously busy day for escorts. She's fucking busy making money by getting gangbanged at some party. She is an escort, she already has you as a regular, what do you expect? She is used to getting paid for her attention. Send her a gift card or something - she'll respond.You think you are her first regular that fell for her? Escorts love and hate guys like you: they love the nice thing you have but hate when you try to turn her into a girlfriend... there ultimate goal is to have like 20 good regulars then she doesn't have to meet smelly negros.You would need to see her ALOT more for her to want to make a relationship.Let me ask you this - Do you eat her pussy?
>>34240690I'm not American.She's logged into AdultWork recently.I'm seriously worried she's ghosting me.
>>34240566>btw anyone visiting escorts should be aware that you can literally get throat cancer from ingesting saliva or vaginal fluids:This makes me so incredibly happy.
>>34240753A john falling for his escort is a tale as old as time.
>>34240753You should text her "please respond"
>>34239934>>34240137Are you the same guy that posted some time ago about some escort not replying?
>>34240759Did your man cheat on you with an escort? Lmao
>>34240566With the high body count that most women have these days this risk is pretty much everywhere not unique to escorts really
>>34240929Well I was but now she's not responding to me which has seriously reduced my confidence.I am seriously panicking that she thinks I'm too emotional. Am I being stupid? We've met 5 times now but I know what women are like. >>34240942I plan to text her again today specifying a time for our next meeting if she doesn't reply within 5 hours or so.
>>34240690>Let me ask you this - Do you eat her pussy?Forgot to say yeah I do
>>34239934You’re probably overthinking. Sometimes it can just happen. On another note you seem to be catching feelings for a prostitute which is unlikely to end well if I had to guess. You could try talking to her about it and make sure she knows it’s not like a part of the services.
>>34242356>On another note you seem to be catching feelings for a prostitute which is unlikely to end well if I had to guess. You could try talking to her about it and make sure she knows it’s not like a part of the services.I thought I was but now I don't think I am.
>>34241285Yes. She eventually did.I am worried I have blown it now though. This is what I said to her in my last text:>"thank you for this morning, it's lovely getting to know you and I had a great time. You're right, I do overthink things haha. Would you be happy to meet on Sunday 22nd?"She read that at 5pm yesterday. We have met 5 times. Realistically how likely is it that she is going to ghost me now? I worry that she thinks I am being too emotional.
>>34242484She’s fucking Chad for free and debating whether seeing your clingy ass is worth the money.
>>34242484So basically you are going through the same thing that you were going through last time huh
Well she responded bros. She said we can meet on Sunday 22nd February and used a smiley face emoji so maybe things aren't so bad.>>34242926Yes. I think I have an anxious attachment style. I always fear that she's going to ghost me.
>>34242980How much do you pay her each time?
>>34243040It's £200 per hour or £270 for 1.5 hours, the last few times I've gone for the 1.5 hours
>>34242980Anon, for your sake, don't get too attached to her. You pay her to be nice to you, don't forget that. If you feel you have too much emotions for that girl, take a new one.
>>34243217You are right anon. Problem is she's exactly my type and every time I see her I get to know more about her. I even found out she likes games like LA Noire last time which really surprised me. I lost my virginity to her which doesn't help. She's also only a year younger than me. We have similar interests like reading which we talk about.But I sometimes feel like she's a bit formal with me. I think she's a bit of an arrogant woman and at the end of our last meeting she seemed a bit cold.I wish she'd be my girlfriend though.
>>34243342You're already too deep with her. Find a new girl and keep it casual this time.
>>34243361There aren't that many escorts in my city who are good. She ticks a lot of boxes for me.
>>34240753>I'm seriously worried she's ghosting me.As long as you're paying, she's replying.But it's strictly commerce. She's providing a service that you pay for. Don't read more into it than that.
>>34243473I'm just a bit worried that she's gone sour on me.She was quite affectionate in her messages the last few weeks, now she seems formal again.
First off, sorry you're falling in love with a literal whore. That must be confusing. Bro like the other anons are saying you gotta protect your heart man. Odds are you're just another joe to her. And furthermore ask yourself why you would want to date a sex worker? Even if she magically changed careers how are you ever gonna stomach the fact the woman you love was a literal cumdumpster? That's gonna be the mother of your children? I am an OG incel and I understand being clingy towards affection but dude the chances of you being burned at the end of this are extremely high. Heart break is way way worse than being lonely. Nothing wrong with banging whores to get some notches on your belt, but it's time to leave the nest and pursue your first practice gf. Lower your standards as far as you can(not so low as a sex worker though come the fuck on) and just get some experience with a non sex worker. Use the confidence and skills you've learned from the prostitute and monkey branch. I believe in you son.
>>34243624>First off, sorry you're falling in love with a literal whore. That must be confusing.I thought I was but her coldness is putting me off.>And furthermore ask yourself why you would want to date a sex worker? Even if she magically changed careers how are you ever gonna stomach the fact the woman you love was a literal cumdumpster?She's intelligent and kind. Or at least I think so. I reached 29 as a virgin so it's not like I have a lot of choice for women. But she's a very individual woman and a bit arrogant I think. I think she has sensed my emotions and has pulled back.I might try banging another escort
>>34243077bro come to Reeperbahn in Germany 10/10 hotties for 60 euro
>>34243934Yeah I wish we had brothels here man.Complete seller's market in the UK. Escorts seem to put their prices up each year.
I'm trying to break my emotional attachment to her. But how can I do this while remaining attracted to her enough to have sex?
>>34244316Bump
>>34244316You don't. You're WAY too invested in this whore. She should be just a hole for you, you shouldn't even see her as human, just a cum dump. Yes, she is pretty and nice to you, but you're forgetting she is paid to be. She probably wouldn't even look in your direction if she had enough money. Stop the bleeding, move on and find another girl. I assure you she is not the only one in town that can satisfy you.
Will you faggots stop humoring this failed man. He makes this exact post multiple times and you retards tell him the same thing over and over again and he pretends you’re right but never actually listens.
>>34246506I fear you're right.I have already arranged to see her again on Sunday 22nd. My plan is to avoid masturbating and maybe even take Viagra so I know I can get hard during penetration. But after that, I might have to break things off with her.
Every single thing I've read and seen regarding escorts and the people visiting them have been depressing as hell. Guys that lose their virginity to them either feel depressed when the high ends and they realize it was all transactional or they drop regular women in general and become one of those creeps who regularly gets them and makes these women their interim girlfriend. I've been through escort sites and a lot of them aren't even pretty. Onlyfans and camwhore sites have completely ruined attractive escort finding, even South American countries are struggling.
>>34239934if I concentrate in what she's thinking or if she's judging me I also take forever to cum or I lose my erection even, I have to concentrate on how it feels and how she looks and think some nasty thoughts to cumthis helps me with escorts and one night stands, with gfs I've had a harder time cumming unless I completely detach from the love I feel for her and I imagine it's a casual fling or stuffI find this a problem I'll have to tackle eventually because my two exes were kinda sad I could hardly creampie them
>>34248469>even South American countries are strugglingI don't know what south american country you're talking about but mine is just okbut you gotta know the right peopleyou can get pageant winners even but you gotta know people that can get them to you.I've been more into girl next door girls that do this on the side and look like everyday girls lately, it's way more realistic and if you find someone you know on your way to your apartment you can always tell them it's a girl you've met at a party or a night out.model tier girls are kinda hard to pull out, they always look like sugar babies or trophy wives at the minimum.
>>34248469>Onlyfans and camwhore sites have completely ruined attractive escort finding, even South American countries are struggling.I remember going on Chaturbate and seeing a handful of the most beautiful women I've ever seen. All from colombia. Not just beautiful, but they rode the hell out of those dildos and danced like they were professionals. Then I look at a few Colombian escort sites and it was all nasty.
>>34248614>if I concentrate in what she's thinking or if she's judging me I also take forever to cum or I lose my erection even, I have to concentrate on how it feels and how she looks and think some nasty thoughts to cumThat sounds like good advice anon.It's annoying because the last two times we met, I fucked her in missionary and came. I don't know what happened really. Only thing I can think of is that I relapsed on NoFap in the two weeks between our meetings and masturbated a few times with a firm grip. I've got to try avoiding masturbating until our next meeting on the 22nd.
How can I focus on just fucking her and enjoying the pleasure when I next see her?I've tried to treat her with respect but should I just enjoy the power dynamic and see her as a toy?
Just don't visit the same prozzie more than 3 times
>>34250157I'm gonna try banging a different one this weekend.
>>34239934A lot of people create emotional bonds with the people they sleep with, it's natural. Understand your position and then hers, she probably has a lot of clients, she probably gets mixed signals from many men, she has to be careful with her clients because men are unpredictable and do dangerous things once attached or possessive. Men can be sadistic too. In your case, I think she is comfortable that you treat her nicely, but realistically she doesn't see a future in this, do you? Enjoy your time with her, if you feel this is messing with your head, end it. What does it matter if you could or couldn't have more? You can love someone even if you are not committed. See it as something positive for both of you, she gets money doing it with someone gentle, you get the joys of feeling warmth in her presence. It's a service exchange, maybe you feel things you weren't aware of before. Love can be in all kinds of places. Don't overthink it.
Are you fit? Daily cardio makes your dick work much better. Don't have sex unless you've done your cardio for the day; the improved circulation will make you hard as a rock
>>34250167>In your case, I think she is comfortable that you treat her nicely, but realistically she doesn't see a future in this, do you?IDK. She is my type. I wish I could see her every day to practice sex.>>34250200Yeah I'm in decent shape, not fat. I did some light skipping on Sunday morning but I was a bit tired.I just find it worrying that I couldn't stay hard during intercourse. I struggle to maintain erections in general but during our last meeting in January, I was able to fuck her in missionary and finish.
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The more I think about her the more she pisses me off.She think she's intelligent but she's shallow and I can guarantee what sort of woman she was in school.
pop a sildenafil an hour or so before meeting her, it will help with your nerves.
>>34250697Brother, it's been four days.Let it go.
>>34250970Yeah I was thinking of trying viagra.>>34250980And do what?
>>34251117buy it online, plenty of online pharmacies sell sildenafil and tadalafil. no prescription required. take 50mg of sildenafil. it will help you stay hard. but you should also be shagging other prostitutes, not just the one escort.
>>34251155>but you should also be shagging other prostitutes, not just the one escort.You're probably right, problem is there aren't many that I'm attracted to
>>34251160thats horseshit and you know it. London is full of fit escorts. Manchester. all the cities have dozens of decent pros.
