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Reconnecting with ex and now i(...) 02/16/26(Mon)02:28:00 No.34265102

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Reconnecting with ex and now i have a crush again...Help :) Anonymous 02/16/26(Mon)02:28:00 No.34265102

I need real advice please! Im F(21) and a year ago we broke up due to dumb situation. Hes a major nerd, collects figures and im also into it. He reached out on my Bday and we started talking again! He works ALOT and its very hard to talk to him during the whole week.

i was kinda defensive the first time we talked and now im opening up to him again. Now i have a crush. Tried talking to him about hobbies and nerdy stuff and he takes SO LONG TO ANSWER! I feel desperate and i tried talking to him about it cause he is fun to talk to. And he just said he was busy even tho i know he has been awake for hours doing nothin at home. he is very sweet and even if we have our differences we still balence each other out! I love anime and we have a LOT in common even in horny stuff...that usually uncommon in peoples preference.

Should i stop trying so hard? Should i give up on him? Should i try harder? Should i ignore his messages and continue with life?

Please i need real advice not just "there are no woman on 4chan". Also he might see this since he does use 4chan a bit so...hopefully he doesnt find out its me LOL

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Zach !ozOtJW9BFA
02/16/26(Mon)02:34:00 No.34265117

Zach !ozOtJW9BFA 02/16/26(Mon)02:34:00 No.34265117

Just talk to him and see what happens.

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Anonymous
02/16/26(Mon)03:03:27 No.34265181

Anonymous 02/16/26(Mon)03:03:27 No.34265181

>try harder
Speed run the relationship past the crush/honeymoon stage.
t. married my ex

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Anonymous
02/16/26(Mon)05:44:52 No.34265508

Anonymous 02/16/26(Mon)05:44:52 No.34265508

You'll have to be honest with me about who you are

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