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Swore at my neighbour repeatedly because my dad abandoned me.

Now he's pissed off because he's taken it personally because he's retarded.

Trying to ignore it but he clearly wants to "get even" which idk, to him is probably some ridiculous fairytale about how I have abused him repeatedly for months or something.

Yet I have repeatedly in the past given him free shit, written notes to him to explain my situation, nah he doesn't fucking care because he is some foreigner retard who can barely speak english.

What do? Why is he such a cunt?
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>>34268456
The real question is why are you such a cunt? At least your neighbour isn't on 4chan whinging.
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>>34268461
Read the fucking post you fucking retard
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>>34268456
It really only takes one bad experience anon
What can you do? Depends on if you want to be a better person or not
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>>34268519
>It really only takes one bad experience anon

If you're a narcissistic cunt yeah.
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>>34268519
>>34268461
>First sentence state my dad abandoned me
>hurr why does he have problems?

can you read?
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I can see why you have problems with people lol
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>>34268491
NTA but I read the post, you are someone who takes your anger out on others with no regrets, even disdain for those who take exception to it. So yeah you are a cunt.
You can accept that's how you come off to multiple others or continue to wait for advice that confirms your personal bias.
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>>34268545
Everyone has problems, not everyone takes it out on others, and even some of those who do actually regret it and try to make up for it.
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>>34268568
Yeah it's not like my own father didn't want me or anything.
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>>34268545
Is it your neighbour's fault that your father abandoned you?
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>>34268740
Yeah and that's terrible but that's not a ticket to take it out on others with no remorse. You seem really immature.
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>>34268456
You sound like a miserable brat, grow up faggot.
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I just shot my neighbour in the face because my dad abandoned me. I wish my neighbour was more understanding, it's actually my dad's fault that I shot him and not my own.
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>>34268743
>>34268749
>>34268788
>Stop being upset

Ok i'm all better now, wow that solved everything.
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>>34268792
>Nobody in human history has ever shot another person in the face because they were deeply wronged by society, it never happens.
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>>34268836
No one said get over it. They said stop taking it out on people. You are either unwilling or unable to practice self control, and worse you're not expressing remorse after losing control.
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>>34268949
I am extremely on edge, and to mention my father, he made a joke to my face about how in my current apartment they hope I don't "smash the place up".

How do you think that makes me feel? To have people who don't know me be that careless with words?
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>>34268456
>Swore at my neighbour
>Why is he such a cunt?
>>34268491
>Read the fucking post you fucking retard

Anon you need to calm down and find peace. This isn't to insult you its just you seem incredibly angry at everyone and its probably not helping the situation with your neighbor
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>>34268971
No one is doubting that you have reason to be upset. They're criticizing how you handled it and continue to handle it.
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>>34268839
Unless you have tourettes, there's nothing about your past or biology that forces you to swear at this guy.
OP, we all carry our crosses in life. There's a good chance your neighbor has been through some nasty shit too. But I doubt you'd take it well if he started swearing at you unprompted.
An important part of being adults is learning to take accountability for our behaviour, even if we're victims in some way. A lot of people go their entire lives not learning this and they suffer forever for it. I can 100% guarantee you that your life will improve if you accept and more often exercise personal accountability.
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>>34268456
OP, you sound like you're unaware that you control your own actions when you're upset.
This is for one of two reasons, either you have never tried to control yourself or you're unable.
There's a gene that results in more intense emotional responses, and most criminals have this gene.
OP, whether you're unfamiliar with regulating your emotions or unable to, I would recommend seeking guidance as soon as possible before you get into trouble with the law or worse.
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>>34268983
How can you criticize something that you haven't been through?

It would be like saying somebody who had their arm severed off was lying about how much it hurt.
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>>34268995
>There's a good chance your neighbor has been through some nasty shit too.

So if he hasn't it's ok for me to attack him?
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>>34269092
My genes made me smarter than you, how do you like that?
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>>34269396
OP I'm not trying to insult you, I'm trying to help you.
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>>34269386
They, again, are not criticizing what you've been through, they're criticizing how you reacted to it. These are two separate things, and again, if you see no option but to react like this from your circumstances, I urge you to seek help from a professional like a therapist to help you regulate your emotions.
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>>34268456
So let's get this straight.

You're an asshole and he is bothered because you're an asshole, and that makes HIM the asshole?
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>>34268456
You sound like an antisocial retard. Doesn't Britain fine you idiots for antisocial behavior?
Start by correcting your behavior or else you will just fuck up again.
Then learn what culture he is from and use AI to figure out masculinity and friendship in that culture.
He probably plays according to a different set of rules.
Then play by those rules a little to come his way and make nice.
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>>34268456
>Swore at my neighbour repeatedly because my dad abandoned me.

How are the two things connected? Your dad leaving you does not give you a free pass to be an asshole you know?
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>>34268839
People doing it doesn't makenit right or ok.
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>dad abandons me
>go to neighbour
>FUCKCUNTNIGGERTWAT

i share a planet with this grand theft auto NPC behaviour?
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>>34268456
There's no good excuse for acting like a piece of shit. It just means your a piece of shit, there's no diagnosis that excuses being a piece of shit.
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>>34270280
>Your dad leaving you does not give you a free pass to be an asshole you know?

If a bum knocked on your door and asked you to clear out so he could use your house, would you say yes?

No, you'd tell him to fuck off.

So why do you think I should bend over and let people take everything from me when you would't?
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>>34273049
Did your neighbor do something to you that you just haven't mentioned?
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>>34273056
He just doesn't care.

Why should he?

But then I am unable to buy a house somewhere else, if I had to move it would be a major inconvenience, and again, I don't have the money to move.

And here I am, miserable, stressed, angry at my father.

How is it fair?
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>>34268836
(You) Never answered his question...
>>34268743
>Is it your neighbour's fault that your father abandoned you?
Now was it???
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>>34268792
This is a promise.
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>>34273088
>(You) Never answered his question...

Yes it is my neighbours fault.

It's also your fault, and everybody else on the planet's fault.

Because you humans told me it is okay.
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I do not feel bad in the slightest. Wipe your shit off this earth. You are poison
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>>34269396
>My genes made me smarter than you, how do you like that?
Too bad that won't bring your daddy back huh, little bitch
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>>34273096
>pedos raping kids across the world
>but no, you're mad me for being abandoned by my father

retard, you are the one who should look inside
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>>34273102
>>34273105

You "men" do nothing but sit around on your arses with your thumb up your ass
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Lol, just call them weak men and watch their entire brains shut down.
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>>34273108
>You "men" do nothing but sit around on your arses with your thumb up your ass
I don't bitch at my neighbors and my dad still lives with me..
https://youtu.be/3d1PoSz6xYw?si=PV_jZIr75RFn6n4v
This is my dad and I while (you) cry.
>>34273093
>Yes it is my neighbours fault.
>It's also your fault, and everybody else on the planet's fault.
>Because you humans told me it is okay
1) I'm not human
2) if you're blaming everyone for( you)'re problems it's literally your fault
3) when it's your fault (You) get what you fucking deserve.
>T.dad/care-er
Also invalidating strangers isn't gonna make (you) feel better especially if we don't care about a neets opinion.
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>>34273306
>1) I'm not human

uh huh
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>>34273315
Yeah and what? goy!
Fucking gentiles don't deserve drivers licenses and Internet access.
>(You) Deserve to work in a hellscape
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>>34273318
Yeah you can imagine if you were my neighbour i'd scream and shout at you.



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