Been a week on Tinder, have about 50 likes rn. Out of those likes, 30 are matches, the rest are fatties and trannies. Out of those 30, 15 are interested in conversation, the rest never responded to anything. Out of those 15, I managed to date 3 right now. First date went nowhere, we just had a few drinks, some laughs and she went home. No vibe. Second date went surprisingly well, we had fun, kissed she even touched my dick but sex never happened. I drove her home and kissed the fuck out of her. Texted her a few days later and she never responded.Tomorrow I'm having the 3rd date. I have a big feeling it will go to shit as well. Is something wrong with me or is the dating market done?
>>342686173 dates out of 30 matches is a PHENOMENAL success rate for a man on Tinder. 30 matches in one week is, likewise, very good compared to the average. Your experience is already better than the average male on those apps.That said, you are on Tinder. Most women on Tinder do not know what they want, and mainly use the app for validation. By the time you've liked her and complimented her a few times, your usefulness to her has worn out.
How old are you and are you still in school?If you are, date around at school.If not, you need to go where women are. Join meetups centered around female activities like arts, cooking or whatever is in your area. During breaks talk to anyone and set up dates.Just make sure you don't sound insecure.
>>34268617Dating world is kinda cooked ngl. Women crave novelty and can't commit to shit until they realize they can't support themselves like a man and their looks are fading. I don't trust them for the most part but figure 27-30 is the ideal range for a committed partner. Try to find one that doesn't think getting ran through is empowerment.
>>34268617Where do you live where you, as a man, have gotten 30 matches in a week on Tinder in the year of our lord 2026?
>>34268617I was on tinder twice, in 2013 and 2023 for a few months and two thirds of the women were the same. It’s a dumping ground for leftovers. The genuine ones are gone fast. You will not find wife material on tinder
>>34268617same experience as i hadtons of matches, tons of dates, but nothing truly going anywhereit's simply becauseto a girl behavior is more important than lookslooks get you in the doorbut to keep a girl you need behavior over long periods of timeso if you truly want success on dating appsyou need to one, don't go on dates with girls you haven't done a video call withtwo, don't escalate during dates with people you haven't been hanging out with for over 5 hours (kissing, sex)so, basically instead of talking mindlessly with girls on text then inviting them out, chat very little and invite them to video call with you / phone callthere, you will improve your game and increase your chances of successthen, you structure dates to be like this:1 - a simple activity with zero pressure like a drink, coffee, or walkmakes it so you waste less time during the datebut, if it goes well during that time you can escalate to dinner, / another activity / full day together (have a second / third location planned ahead if it goes well)or simply end on a high note if it's going well
>>34268617>I'm digging through the dumpster>but all I'm finding is trash!Dating apps are shit, anon. At best they're hook-up libraries where women can choose the "top 1%" to fuck, but the chances of any kind of real or lasting connection are low. I'm not even a bitter incel, that's just how they work. Ditch the apps and make in-person meets work for you.
Not the OP but, man, asking here seems useless.I have a similar issue, though no sex in a while, and I'm not sure if I'm being too pushy or not enough. I also suck at talking, at giving clues that I like the girls, and have trouble with sex talk in public places. I wonder of I'm too insecure or just fucking stupid.Like, this girl asked me if I just wanted to talk when she obviously wanted to fuck... Idk if I'm too prudish and socially retarded for my age or what
>>34269798>I'm not sure if I'm being too pushy or not enough.Btw, would it be too retarded to ask the girls themselves?
>>34269798Are you trying to hook up or trying to find a relationship? "I don't know" or "what happens, happens" are the worst answers, because it shows you're not sure of what you want, and so you're acting without intention. Worst way to get what you want is to chase it, or accept less than what you're after.
>>34269855>Are you trying to hook up or trying to find a relationship? Hook up, but honestly I don't really know how to make it clear and I keep forgetting how to behave during the dates. Plus I don't want to come up as a dirty asshole... But I'm too insecure to hug them and stuff. I just tell the girls they are pretty. That worked a couple of times... And I stuck with that, but I guess that works with less mature women maybe?>"I don't know" or "what happens, happens" are the worst answersIdk man, I'm fucking retarded. I forget what I'm doing during the date, like, the point of it.Also, "what happens, happens" is literally part of my bio LMAO. I wish I had a wingman or someone to teach me
>>34269890>but I guess that works with less mature women maybe?*that ONLY works with less mature women
>>34268617I feel like a lot for women on Tinder are either bots or fishing for attention so it's normal for them not to reply
