We have only dated for one month. She is the sweetest, kind, most loving person who I have ever met in my entire life. My humble question to all of you is this, how do I not fuck it up?
>>34270073lots of ways to fuck it up, bud.tell us where you had issues in the past, where you are insecure.
>>34270073Number 1 thing is don't be too clingy or too full on if that makes sense with you being in love with her. Play it COOLIf anything wait for her to mention her feelings or saying she loves you first before you do .If you do it, it will give her the ick and kill whatever vibe you have going now
You wont. She might.Men tread on eggshells where women set up the weirdest penalties.
>>34270073Don't worry. She will find a way to ruin the relationship. She will eventually meet a more exciting and mysterious guy than you. Unless you fuck her real good and act like a animal at times. Women don't like soft pussy boys
>>34270073Be a good version of yourself. Stay friendly, especially to her mother, as soon as you meet her.When she does things for you, like wearing a short skirt and string as the girl of the pic you posted, don‘t hesitate to tell her that you like it.
>>34270073Knowing nothing about you, and almost nothing about her, there's not a lot of advice I can give. But I suppose "communicate" is always good advice: talk to her, tell her how you feel, sometimes gently encourage her to say how she thinks are going and if everything's all right. Be someone she can talk to about anything; develop your active-listening skills, and don't be judgemental. Do a "love languages" quiz together to help you understand each others' priorities.Unfortunately the worst possible thing you can do is panic about losing her. No one wants to be around someone who is desperate! So, try and relax. If the two of you are compatible, you don't need to pretend to be someone else. If the two of you belong together, she'll like you as you already are. If she doesn't like you the way you already are, the two of you don't belong together. Be kind and generous whenever you feel like it, but don't be constantly simping. Just be who you are and see what happens. Don't overthink it.
COMMUNICATEDo not let shit fester and build up, a 1/10 problem can snowball into an 8/10 one when you let shit accumulate
>>34270073I’m OP of another thread that’s going on right now and remember when my bf said things like this too. He ended up ruining it. Whatever you do, if you really love her, just try not to ruin it.
>>34270073It's already over, because you see her as the character she's putting up and not for the person that she is.Understand that she isn't the sweetest, kind, most loving person you have ever met, she is just acting that way right now and that she will change once her priorities shift.If you aren't ready for that change, it's already over, don't require her to put on this act forever. She will need to fart in front of you one day, allow it not to be innocent. When you put little pressure on her, she'll be more comfortable in her own skin around you and the likelihood that she'll stay with you for longer will increase. You'll be a genuine match.
Be attentive to her and purely communicate with one and another tending to her needs making her know you care about her,cliche i know but still clear first step
>>34270073Just b yourself, put her first (in terms of protecting her) and lift weights to keep her interested in your physically!
>>34270140>>34271277Real
>>34270073>We have only dated for one month. She is the sweetest, kind, most loving person who I have ever met in my entire life.You are in love with your own idea of her, not with her. I hope you can get over it and learn to love her instead of becoming a wifeguy or losing your shit when you realize she's not who you imagined her to be.
>>34270133>Number 1 thing is don't be too clingy or too full on if that makes sense with you being in love with her. Play it COOL>If you do it, it will give her the ick and kill whatever vibe you have going nowThis is so entirely dependent on the person though. In my case, my gf was super clingy and full-on at the start, saying she loved me within the first month. I had to tell her I wasn't ready to say it back until I actually felt it.>>34271277>>34273361>It's already over, because you see her as the character she's putting up and not for the person that she is.>You are in love with your own idea of her, not with her.This is what early dating's like for everyone. No need to doom it. No harm in having this idealised version of them in your head during those precious first weeks. But yeah, the most important thing coming up is the fart test. Once you're both comfortable farting around each other's when you level up to a proper relationship.
