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Lately I’ve been seeing all my friends and other people I know getting married and even starting families and I can’t seem to find a girlfriend. I’m deathly afraid I’m going to be alone forever and that my future will consist of me living in a one bedroom apartment all by myself until I eventually an hero. It’s greatly affecting my life to the point where I quit my job and dropped out of school cause I don’t see the point in working towards a future I’ll be alone and miserable in.

What do bros
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>>34270249
Dying alone bothers you because you don't love or even like yourself at all. You're never alone anon. You're in the earth realm. You actually won't be alone UNTIL you die.
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>>34270262
How do you know if I don’t like myself or not
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>>34270263
NTA but someone who likes themselves would not have made this thread. And more seriously, someone who likes themselves would not throw their life away by quitting their job and dropping out of school because they don't have a girlfriend, which is a completely separate problem and becoming a NEET solves nothing and won't get you any closer to this goal of yours. It will take you even further away from it if anything.
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>>34270249
then how about this, go get a homeless bitch and tell her she can live with you if she stays true. Ya'll sit here and cry like there's not homeless mfs out there who'd love to be with your weird asses just for a bed to sleep in, and would think the world of you for it!!! But you wouldn't do that huh? She might have too many yucky germs or a disease or something. But you wanna get on here crying. Some of you people are fucking pathetic. Df. Be gay then. Do anything but sit there and cry like a btch dude.
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I want to snuggle in our reading nook overlooking the ocean
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You're repelling all the women who can't find a reason to use you, that is why. Keep looking for that special woman who sees your human side above and beyond all else. Trust me there are a lot of beautiful women in this world who treat their beauty like a tool rather than complimentary to what they are, avoid them.
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Literally, women need to read books like Mary Shelly's Frankenstein more often.
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If the world can't conjure up one woman as a companion, then there's no sense grieving when you die. You finally get to leave this cruel joke of a world without attachments.
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>>34270249
>I’m deathly afraid I’m going to be alone forever and that my future will consist of me living in a one bedroom apartment all by myself until I eventually an hero.
Same. That’s one reason I’m afraid to move out of my parents’ place. More alone.
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>>34272097
Dude I got a fucking wakeup call today. Status makes you an animal. Living without it makes you human.
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>>34270262
>>34270277
This is such a hackneyed and bullshit trope
>YOU JUST GOTTA LOVE YOURSELF BRO
This is what hypersocialized, well-adjusted FAGGOTS think. Ever ask yourselves, what if I didn't have any friends, loving family, or romantic relationships that gave me the affirmation I needed for "self love?" Oh wait, that's an oxymoron, because you aren't actually self aware. Your self love is an illusion from shallow and superficial relationships in your life.
The physician cannot, in fact, heal himself.
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Bump
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>>34270249
>I'm so afraid of being miserable that I obsess over my misery 24/7, and even fantasize a miserable future for myself
What ever happened to men being the logic-driven stronger sex, and women being the emotional, hormone-driven weaker sex? Zoomers sure love blurring the lines between genders.
>>34270282
Oh come on. Homeless women are extremely distrustful of men who aren't just as fucked up as they are. They're more likely to trust you if you say "hey there, how about 20 for sucky sucky" from your car window than if you sidle up on the sidewalk asking "can we just cuddle and be friends in my bed?" with a creepy little smile.
>>34272171
It took me many years before I could look in the mirror and like what I saw. Mainly I had to live a rougher life and face challenges alone, which was unpleasant, but it was the result that mattered. The confidence and strength you feel inwardly begins to show outwardly in the setting of your facial muscles. If you have always quailed in the face of challenge, your facial muscles will be slack and droopy, and you will suffer from self-loathing because an average man with a slack droopy face looks fucking ugly.

Coincidentally, or not, my sense of satisfaction and self-esteem has risen as the number of people in my life has declined.
>>34272150
Humans are animals, nothing more. It's time we stopped pretending we were so goddamn special just because we can express a wider range of ideas.
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>>34270249
“We're all of us sentenced to solitary confinement inside our own skins, for life” is a famous quote by playwright Tennessee Williams
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>>34270249
https://youtu.be/lqZehFAwoTM?t=32

It's over as soon as you turn 18 and leave the school system without a well established social circle. You go to work, but you won't make any friends, just coworkers. You join a sports club, same deal. It's over, because everyone already has their social circles locked in since childhood. You'll be nothing more than a coworker, destined to be alone for life. Social life and relationships are like trains you have to catch at the quay, a race against time that takes place during adolescence. And by extension, logically of course, no social life and no women.
But normies don't understand this because they are clueless normies who think you can walk into a bar full of strangers and magically form a social life like in The Sims. Only women can start from scratch and create a social life and get a boyfriend from scratch because of their status as women.

Whether you're 30 or not it doesn't change anything, maybe for the normies, but for you and me Chud, a year is like any other, the sands of time flowing towards nothingness, nothing more.. nothing less.
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Same here desu. It sucks. It's like I'm just living extra time.
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>>34270249
Meh women are overrated



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