Title. He was also looking at his friend’s girlfriends. These are all people I’ve met personally.Help. What am I in for? Should I stay or leave?
>>34270322>Help. What am I in for? Should I stay or leave?Depends. What do you goon to?
>>34270322Leave, obviously. He's showing his disloyalty. He'll either eventually cheat, or be too lazy to cheat and continue to sext and goon to randos and friends, which is just as bad.
>>34270322Leave. If the guy is plotting to be disloyal then leave. If he’s hooking to other people and yiu don’t like that then leave. Every woman I’ve ever spoken to with this issue has said it never gets better.
>>34270322Leave. I’m a man myself and consider that tantamount to cheating.
>>34270618Can you provide more detail on those women’s experiences?
>>34270655Can you please explain why?
>>34270322Leave, it never gets better and it fucks with your head. Porn free relationships are the way forward, they're worlds apart.
>>34271065Can you please explain why? Also, isn’t it hard to escape porn in this day and age?
>>34271060I'll tell you as someone that has been through this, it just builds resentment, they're unlikely to stop no matter how it makes you feel and it just ends up bleeding into the rest of the relationship. Trust fades away as does love and you both just end up hating each other, sex dries up and everything just goes to utter shit. Do yourself a favour, do not waste time, he will never change, I've never known a woman that could make that set up work long run. I wish I'd left mine sooner and I really hope you heed my warning and the others in this thread. There are decent men out there who will not behave this way, if you're not comfortable with this you need to leave because you're in for a whole lot of heartbreak if you don't just cut it off.
>>34271068I've had two porn free long term relationships, both men agreed no porn (I jad to give up too) and in both relationships the sex life has been insane good. When the only way you get off is with each other you learn each other in such a deep way. It may not be common and you have to be willing to put out all the time but it's a world apart from relationships with porn.
>>34271080Acceptable if the woman is willing to put out often enough
>>34271080>I've had two porn free long term relationshipsSomeone who has failed in multiple relationships probably shouldn't be giving advice
>>34271148To provide some context, I’m not the best looking and have let myself go. I’m overweight but can still get partners without much issue. This is the second partner who’s had issue maintaining an erection with me so maybe I’m the issue.
>>34271164Adding to this, I’ve been told I have a cute face, but never a nice body. So I understand I fall short physically for the most part.
>>34271148You have to be willing to put out all the time, it's okay if you have a high sex drive.>>34271150Some relationships start good and go down hill, I'd rather have a few failed relationships than have stayed in a bad one for life.
>>34271074Update: He said he’d never do it again and will give me everything I need to guarantee that. Is this likely from your experience?
Bump.
