> be me> small online trio> slowly realize the other two are way closer to each other> try to game> she says she’s busy> later see she was playing with him> brush it off but it sticks in my head> they meet up IRL> go on a cute retro game store date in NYC and have sex> I’m at home asking if anyone wants to run a set> conversations start feeling like I’m intruding> like I’m the optional third slot in a 2-player lobby> I don’t think they’re evil> but I definitely feel like background noise> get tired of the weird energy> unadd both of themexpected to feel dramaticexpected at least a “yo what happened?”> hours go by> nothingno re-addno messageno “did I do something wrong?”and that part honestly hurts more than the restbecause if I mattered even a little, wouldn’t they notice?wouldn’t they check?instead it’s just silencewhich makes me feel like I was never really part of itbut at the same time…I feel relievedno more overthinkingno more wondering who’s playing with whono more trying to squeeze into a dynamic that doesn’t fit.so anons, was I justified in cutting it off because the vibe was draining?or did I let insecurity win and self-sabotage two friendships?be honest.
>>34270849I'd say both. Being a third wheel sucks but maybe you were insecure to remove them. The friendship could've worked, but they're a couple so you would have to chill out with initiating games
>>34270862But if they're getting into a relationship you're not gonna be the important person in their lives at the time, I'd say wait for them to settle in with each other and readadd them if you still want them as friends. Im sure they care about you but not nearly as much as each other, that's the life of a third wheel
>>34270849>sheThat's the problem. Those 2 are fucking and you're not a part of it. A trio makes sense when it's all male.
>>34270883It's just gonna be painful for you though if you're hurting for deep friendships. Cause everyone needs that, but I don't think you'd find it there.
>>34270889Yeah at this point it's probably not a trio, but you being friends with a couple
>>34270901DING DING DING
>>34270889Yeah. Lesson learned. No more close friendships with women.
>>34270938do you have any feelings towards the girl?
>>34270889Unless they are gay curious and then, if you are dating a cheater... they gon cheat
>>34270941No. I only ever saw her as a close friend but she abandoned me too many times to be that anymore. I bought her a game to commemorate a year of friendship. that's it.>>34270945One of them is a femboy actually kek.
>>34270849>small online triowho cares, have a real life instead
>>34270968advice noted.
