So I'm 30 and I often think about having sex with 13-17 year old girls and then I masturbate while thinking about it. I don't know if that's normal, but it's become so frequent for me in the past few years that I think it might be pathological or there's something wrong with me. Would you say I'm suffering from mental illness? I used to not fantasize about it as much a few years ago, maybe like 10% of my fantasies were like this but now half of them are like this.
>>34270963I asked on reddit and they told me to get therapy but idk if I should
>>34270963Did you ever date a teen in your life? I missed out on teen love and both being innocent and now my brain is stuck in highschool forever.
>>34270963Get help man , that's not healthy behavior and its not worth destroying your entire life over either. Don't get mislead by the age of consent argument either , any form of online communication can and will be prosecuted. Get help dude , again , its not worth it
>>34272652It’s only used against white males btw
>>34272661you see the news - it is rampant pretty much every week people get arrested and sentenced to 10+ years behind bars for that shit. Again get help and dont fall for it , it may seem innocuous but its not. Female teachers who outright conduct abuse get probation and slaps on the wrist and they hardly go federal. I find the disparately absolutely shocking.
It's biologically normal and to a certain degree rational because these girls don't carry baggage and aren't used goods like women are, but outside of the sex they would get on your nerves extremely quickly due to their immaturity. You think they want deep philosophical conversations or intellectual exchanges? No, they wanna talk about the latest gossip.
The real purpose of procreation is to raise kids, not merely to create them. If there was no biological impulse to raise kids, moids would not have an innate drive to bond with their kids. Some moids are fundamentally broken or were ruined by culture into thinking it's fine to be detached from their own offspring for some reason.Raising kids with an underage foid is not only retarded but a gigantic extra effort: on top of having to deal with a foid constantly (these are like overgrown kids even at 30 years old), you have to be a dad to an unreliable retard whose idea of "life" is whatever is happening that week in the school's gossip circles or some stupid shit on tiktok, and whom is almost guaranteed to be ill-prepared for the sacrifices involved in proper childcare.On top of all this, you have to also be a dad to the real kid, as in, the baby you so desperately wanted to create with this foid. Any real parent will tell you that properly raising a kid is a sacrifice and its own virtue, it takes dedication, effort, love, and virtue.There's no shame in realizing you are incapable of this, and it's nigger sub-human barbarian behavior to not be self-aware of this inability and to procreate regardless, given that even chimps and other apes take proper care of their own offspring.Some moids will argue "ok, but, actually I don't want to have kids with the foid when she's too young" as a coping mechanism, and they will posit that, instead, they want to bond with the underage foid so that she's "well-raised" by the time she is appropriately mature likely to be able to raise a child adequately. The pedomoid will argue tooth and nail about how he isn't insecure and how this is purely to save the underage foid from "being corrupted by society", despite the fact that the vast and overwhelming majority of moids with outward pedophilic desires and tendencies tend to be absolute scum that even other moids think twice about genuinely associating with. cont'd
>>34272667Even the virtuous pedomoids (oxymoron, but I'll argue it for the sake of making the argument) will argue that, in fact, they are "helping create a virtuous perfect wife" for themselves by "snatching her before she's corrupted by society", when in reality, this just means they are afraid of the possibility of their foid having the audacity to talk back to them or to be capable of engaging in critical thought, as the pedomoid's masculinity is too fragile to allow for even the slight possibility that a foid would dare to even think about going against the moid's desires.An inability to accept criticism or pushback signals the inherent childishness and fragility of the pedomoid, and begs the question: should we really reward such an underdeveloped specimen with a vulnerable and very easily manipulated target for them to control and indoctrinate for a lifetime?
>>34270963>Why would you be attracted to a hag when you can have perfection like Lillie? Those biological thoughts are rational but made taboo by older, bitter women who can't compete.
>>34272652please explain why you shouldn't want a brand new car instead of an old, used one? (same car model btw)
>>34270963Depends...Is it just pure fantasy and you have no intention or interest in actually acting on behind a private fap fantasy?Or would you actually try and fuck a teen if the chance presented itself?
OP just know that fucking a teen will not be the experience you think it will. Your porn fantasy does not reflect what it'd be like in real life.
>>34272673It is not worth it dude , you have nothing in common with them and will get you in trouble. even if they are above the age of consent , it is still not worth it. Talk to girls 18+ and youll never have to look over your back in paranoia
>>34272699>even if they are above the age of consentif they are above the age of consent I don't see any problem????
>>34272702Just talk to girls who are +18 , if you take a picture of your girlfriend who is >AOC but <18 you can still go to federal prison for 5 years minimum. Even though she is of the age of consent in your state. Again it is not worth it
>>3427270718 is good but after 18 they have baggage and it's a problem.
>>34272714I repeat don't do it. If you catch a charge you will be ostracized from all society like a leper- let alone the damage that incurs to the girl aswell. Depending on her age , that might be irrecoverable damage that ultimately you are responsible for. Thats why these cases are prosecuted so intensely
>>34272721don't worry anon I won't.
>>34272662There’s literally blacks and browns that rape 9 year olds and get scolded for it
>>34272725like even phone communications - things that you think will never be brought to light usually will
>>34272726That's not totally true - especially in the united states. Those guys go to prison for 30 plus years for that kind of thing pretty routinely.
tans, wrinkles, tattoos, body count, and even the entitled attitude old hags have is a turnoff. Pale white smooth clean skin and innocence is what I’m looking for, I’m also innocent and never dated anyone. I’m a virgin too.
>>34272731How come nons are rarely charged with rapes but whites are charged for wrong think. Hell even whites are famous for CP even though most rapes come from nons. It’s anti white male propaganda. Disgusting.
>>34270963https://www.gatewayocd.com/pedophilia-ocd-symptoms-and-treatment/
>>34272652>Get helpThis anon is full of shit. Never under any circumstances should you let slip your predilections to any roastie. They will gladly use your confession to destroy your life.>>34272670>nagging is a virtue in a womanNo it's not. It's a symptom of untreated mental malignancy that insists on spreading its unhappiness and dissatisfaction to the minds of others. And lastly, we see right through your premise that young girls must be excluded from the company of mature men, and only be exposed to the company of mature women. This ensures that all the nastiness and man-hatred of the Gen X or millennial roastie gets impressed upon her young mind. After such exposure, she can never be content sitting on a porch swing with a man she likes and dreaming about a future with him. Nope. She has to dress like a whore, post thirst traps for the attention, go to parties with her girlfriends, go out shopping and develop an addiction to fancy things, become a haughty rude boss-bitch, and otherwise be molded in the ruinous image of the old hags who monopolize her upbringing.
>>34272821>>Get helpWhen i say get help i mean fight the vice through healthy habits and dont fall victim to it. Professional help is almost signing up for a prison term
>>34270963>>34270963I bet there are more female pedophiles in the world than male ones OP. Read literally ANY "women's literature" book and you will see women are actually the ones fantasizing about fucking young boys. Picrel I found in my mom's library. It is the worst most disgusting female pedo fantasy novel I have ever read. It's about a white girl who gets kidnapped by Indians and learns to live with the savages but it is really just an excuse for the author to write about inappropriate sexual relationships in a "primitive society in tune with nature" I even know a female middle/high school teacher that's obsessed with books about pedophile fantasies. My point is that, you shouldn't worry so much about "mental fantasies" Good luck, OP
This is quite literally the fastest way to ruin your life
>>34270963Pretty much everyone, at one time or another, fantasises about having sex with someone who wouldn't have sex with them in real life. That, as far as it goes, isn't a problem. It's only a problem if you actually try to make it happen; so long as it's only in your head, it's fine.However, your fantasies are clearly escalating:>used to not fantasize about it as much a few years ago, maybe like 10% of my fantasies were like this but now half of them are like this.That's a concern. If it continues to escalate, you might eventually lose track of the fact that you can't make this real; and if you do, and you try to make something happen, you're going to end up in prison. So you need to find something else to think about, and quickly.
>>34272931>and if you do, and you try to make something happen, you're going to end up in prisonit's not fucking fair bros
>>34272931to be honest im not even sure how these people even sleep at night if youve made contact with <18 year olds online. It is just a waiting game before you door gets kicked in. Again , Dont fucking do it
>>34270963That's definitely not normal,I'd say have yourself go see a therapist/psychologist in that before you act out in anything dangerous too anyone
>>34272967You know what’s interesting, I’ve never flirted with anyone under 18 online, never sexted, never dated or had sex in my life but am shamed and called a pedophile because I think 18 year olds are attractive.
>>34270963Yeah you're fucked in the head. This is a big sign of porn addiction so try quitting that and you'll likely recover. Absolutely DO NOT go to therapy. It's a honeytrap and they will lock you up if you tell them that. + therapists are scammers who only make you think you're getting better but in reality you are becoming dependent on them and you'll constantly come back and give them money. That don't help, all they do is nod along and agree with everything you say. ChatJeetPT already does this for you.
>>34272981It just ive heard of an insane amount of 20 year olds thrown in federal prison because they had a >AOC girlfriend. Girls who look like 25+ year old adults. 16-17 is dangerous and just simply not worth it - the laws can and will throw you in person for decades for that. Even though its considered legal for direct contact in most states ? It just makes no sense to me and honestly needs to be revisited. They should only target the producers of that kind of stuff , not the people complying to their age of consent.
>>34273010Like hypothetically , in a state where the AOC is 16 a 25 year old can date her and they have the most intimate relationship imaginable. However , if they take they relationship with each other online then the 25 year old can potentially face decades in federal prison even though theyd be saying/doing the same things in person ? The disconnect is honestly insane. That is exactly why its not worth it at all. Dont even look at anyone <18
>>34273028I don’t want to online date, I want to real date. To see her smile for myself, look her in the eyes and feel the moment. Hold hands, go for walks and enjoy nature.
>>34272981Me too, I’m 40Met a whole load of braggarts that imply or call me a virgin, or worsePeople are superficial, conceited and hypocritical. Evil, in fact
>>34273089I see teen white girls all the time in public with older black men and it makes me sad that they shame white men but happily choose a different race. (That’s known to rape and murder white girls more).
>>34272673If someone needs to explain to you why its not okay to have sex with 13 year old girls you need to be tossed into a mass grave.
>>3427298118 year old and teen porn are the most popular categories for a reason anon. Who is shaming you and why are you interacting with these people?
>>34273153kys trannyfaggot>>34273116browns get away with literal rape and murder, but the tide has changedthe pedophilia hysteria has not, howeverto be honest, we need to revoke women’s rights if we want civilization to continue, i.e. ascending in intelligence
>>34273161Everyone is, I can’t use dating sites anymore because people say I’m a pedophile, but I also don’t know how to cold approach when there’s rarely any white women alone in public :(
You are literally a normal man having normal thoughts, don't be psyoped by the feminist gynocracy we live in that you're somehow in the wrong
>>34270963shoulda been ultra rich and living in the early 2000s USAreal talk though try to masturbate to JOI milf porn. I don't know if it works but i think it might be immersive enough for you to start liking older women more than teens>hurr durr you just follow orders from le pixel womanyeah and it's fucking intense
>>34273254It’s not just how they look, it’s how they behave. Why would a dateless virgin like me ever want to choose a whore with a body count that will compare everything I do to her past partners when I could choose one that has no dating experience like me and doesn’t expect to travel the world every year, at my expense.