I feel like I'm being used most of the time and that the environments I attend just tolerate me. Sure I am a bit weird but I don't go out of my way to be mean towards people. I help others out of my pure kindness and I don't expect anything in return.People can be just so fucking weird to the point I was questioning if I wasn't crazy. Things like taking pictures of someone they don't like and making an entire private groupchat out of it to slander that person (people above 20 years old btw), showing me pictures of how their "friend" parked shitty so they could tell me "he's our friend but we don't really like him". Is this what everything has become? Where's basic human decency. I have such trust issues that I cannot really take anyone as trustworthy anymore. I have a small circle of friends consisting of 3 people and I don't take it as they hate me if they are clearly busy, but now I even began questioning if they wouldn't be doing the same to me in some way. I have never posted pictures of anyone else, especially if said person would be my friend. I just don't get it, is everyone like that? Sorry for the weird rant I don't really know how else I could format this.
>>34271122No, that behavior is not normal. Those are the kinds of people and environments you just cut ties with. Friendship isn't a relationship between two people, it's an attitude or state of mind. People who act in the way you described aren't mentally capable of being friends with you or anyone else, because they fundamentally don't know what friendship is or what it means to be a friend.Or to put it in other terms, friendship is what happens when two good people cross paths. Those aren't good people, thus they aren't your friends and can't be friends with anyone until they grow up.
>>34271135I've been kept out of the groupchats because I'd be "weird" aka I would not find their behavior funny nor would I sacrifice my identity (and by that I mean that I wouldn't change myself for the sake of others just so I could fit in). Considering the shit they are capable of, it made me believe that I could be one of those people. I just feel like those guys really would not exist at all without their weird tribe.Worse yet, it's my university group. Right now I keep conversations to a minimum because 90% of the time it's just someone fucking needing something. It really pisses me off how ungrateful and childish people are. One girl I basically helped out pass 3 exams (out of my pure kindness) called me a moron for not sending her the leaks she asked for during daytime, she didn't remind me with something like "hey could you send those leaks I asked you for?", straight up went for the insult and I told her that it's not my problem and that she could piss off. Today, once again, she needs something and comes to me like a dog and asks if I can help her out on the exam today. Pathetic. Is there hope for those people at all? Really disgusting how people don't respect me because I seem to be showing basic maturity.
>>34271141If immature people had eyes to see the value of maturity, then they wouldn't be immature in the first place. It's a lot easier to have patience and rise above other people's bad behavior when you temper your expectations and understand that it's in the nature of a fool to act foolishly. And if it helps, they're suffering for it every single day of their lives. Look at the way they live and the kinds of people they spend time with. None of that could possibly be satisfying, secure, fulfilling or positive in any way. Once they've had their fill of misanthropic misery, they'll wake up and start takings steps to mature themselves. But until then, just be a positive example from a distance. It's the most and the least you can do for them.
>>34271151thanks anon
