So here's the problem the last few years, I have known girls, which I would eventually consider my best friends, I can be clingy with girls, I know that, and I know how much girls hate guys that emotionally depend on them, i'm the kind of person who would help anyone because it's the right thing to do, and I would receive nothing in return, I have a friend, o which I have an amicable relationship, but she's emotionally absence, she doesn't speaks with me unless I do so first, I like her, romantically, a few years ago, she moved to another state, and not even a year in, like a few couple of months after she moved, she got herself a boyfriend, I was ready to tell her that I like her, but she drop that on me before I could tell her, before she moved, I gave her a large sum of money, because I found out that her brother got kidnap, and she also lost her dad that year, I was there for her, I even gave blood for her dad to help him push through, I didn't do that to gain anything, I did it cause it was the right thing to do, few years have gone by, last year, I decided I would no longer be giving her money on her birthday, or anything, I came to that decision, cause another friend, decided to terminate her friendship with me, and yes that's another crushingly sad story, so I just say happy birthday, she didn't even gave me a happy birthday when it was my day, that was back in august, and she only talk to me again in december, to remind me of a subscription that we pay in group, for money... I deposit her the money, didn't answer, just transfer it, wasn't even all the amount, but I was too mad to talk to her, new year comes, I did what I shouldn't, and said happy new year, she replied with the same, as if nothing happen, she's never there, i'm always the one trying to maintain a friendship that doesn't exist, my question is, should I cut ties with her? and should I be clear and tell her that she's not my friend anymore, because I being getting progressively more depressed.
>>34271784of course retard, next time be clear with a girl what you think from the start. and don't be "friends" with girls that's not normal and gets you in retarded situations like this
Making a cruel LARP like this just shows you as a shit person
There's another side of the coin where It's actually you making the mistake and I hope that this is just the end of it and the in between is over because you woke up with me
>>34272288I don't even know what you're talking about, I was just asking for advice on how to deal with a friend that really isn't there for me, last year, another girl who I was friend with, cut me off, because according to her, she doesn't have time for friends, except she does, is just that I don't appear in her priority list, and that affected me, because I was, yet again, there for her, I cannot go into details, but I was helping her get her private stuff remove, long story short, she ghosted me for years and one day when she finally read my message, she said, I think we need to end our friendship, and now I just want to remove myself from this relationships where i'm always the one trying to maintain a bond that doesn't fucking exist, i'm tired ok? I just want to be cruel, and my supposed friend, who yes, had not being bad to me, but has never tried to give or share any kind of support whatsoever, i'm tired, I wanna hurt her before she does it further to me, i'm about done with this vicious cycle of giving and just getting the middle finger in return.
>>34272306Just a lot of words huh
