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How to cope with incoming deat(...) 02/19/26(Thu)00:40:38 No.34272093

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How to cope with incoming death of Dad. Anonymous 02/19/26(Thu)00:40:38 No.34272093 Archived

Dad got pancreatic cancer last year and today was told by his doctor he has one step before hospice. I know the pain is inevitable , but I need any sort of help like a book or something that is going to help me cope and bear through it.

Anonymous
02/19/26(Thu)00:55:37 No.34272120

Anonymous 02/19/26(Thu)00:55:37 No.34272120

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>>34272093
>pancreatic cancer
chlorine dioxide protocols

Anonymous
02/19/26(Thu)01:27:59 No.34272188

Anonymous 02/19/26(Thu)01:27:59 No.34272188

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>>34272093
>but I need any sort of help like a book or something that is going to help me cope and bear through it.
unironically lean upon God and His word which had been archived in the Bible. Give to Him your pains, regrets and worries. Pray that God will have mercy upon your father when it is his time to face the Heavenly gates. Then live your life in praise for God and that whatever happens from here forward is meant to be- just for you. That is how I "cope" with painful life experiences. I felt overwhelming relief and peace always, understanding that whatever circumstance that have befallen myself, is nothing in the grand scale of things.

Anonymous
02/19/26(Thu)01:49:18 No.34272220

Anonymous 02/19/26(Thu)01:49:18 No.34272220

Random question:
>how old is he
>did he drink
>did he smoke
>did he get any covid vaccines and if so how many

I dunno why but in the last 5 years pancreatic cancer has become way more popular so i am juat asking.

And for your questions: just spend time with him. Do activities he likes and make memories.

Anonymous
02/19/26(Thu)02:04:44 No.34272249

Anonymous 02/19/26(Thu)02:04:44 No.34272249

>cope
Don't. Feel something. Cry at your father's funeral and you'll be better off afterwards.

Anonymous
02/19/26(Thu)04:14:09 No.34272405

Anonymous 02/19/26(Thu)04:14:09 No.34272405

>>34272093
google "books on grief"

Spend as much time with him as you can. Reminisce with him about good memories of your childhood. Ask him questions about his life before you knew him.

Anonymous
02/19/26(Thu)06:25:42 No.34272528

Anonymous 02/19/26(Thu)06:25:42 No.34272528

>>34272093
I'd read the tibetan book of the dead if I was you, it might help

Anonymous
02/19/26(Thu)11:34:53 No.34272801

Anonymous 02/19/26(Thu)11:34:53 No.34272801

>>34272093
Jesus man. It is going to suck and there is nothing I can say that will make it better. Just make sure you tell what you want to tell him. It could just be that you love him. Some people don't get that chance. I am sorry OP

Anonymous
02/19/26(Thu)12:15:53 No.34272862

Anonymous 02/19/26(Thu)12:15:53 No.34272862

>>34272093
The Discourses of Epictetus. Seneca's letters are good, too.

Anonymous
02/19/26(Thu)15:15:07 No.34273069

Anonymous 02/19/26(Thu)15:15:07 No.34273069

All I can say is just be there with your dad and tell him you love him pray for him even that God heals him or least peace,im sincerely sorry for what ya dad's going through.