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Everything used to be fine, I was at the top of my class in Uni, had plenty of friends, and my gym visits were starting to pay off... then for some fucking reason I lost all of my confidence and everything started going to shit. I lost everything and only had one person in my life who still cared for me, my best friend. But after she suspected that I was falling in love with her (and I was) she stopped talking to me and now openly admits to hating my guts. My academic success was the only thing I had going for me, due to me not having any talents whatsoever. My motivation is so fucked, and everything keeps getting worse.
What do I do? How do I crawl out of this pit that appeared out of nowhere?
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>>34273312
Could be depression since you lost your motivation, like did you lose something in your life a few years ago or something? I lost my cat and it made me depressed after a year because my brain process trauma at some point.
Take small steps in improving your life, taking a walk is better then none, request support from family to be there for you, or just with any stranger about weather and stuffs.
Have a goal thast reachable and can be completed easily like washing clothes and stuffs to make you busy, this is to fix that dophamine so atleast when you complete it, its feels satisfying.
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Since when?



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