Hi anons. I don’t really hang around here and I’m not fluent in imageboard vocabulary, but I’d appreciate some honest advice.I’m a 27yr old math teacher living in a shithole with my parents and with a low salary and a pretty unremarkable life.. my gf is 23. She already has big ambitions and serious plans for our future together. She studies in EU and is constantly grinding academically.. i know I want to grow with her, but I always feel this pressure. I feel like I’m not keeping up She wants me to move to her country and I simply don’t have the resources to do that.Now about sex.She has a pretty face with soft and symmetrical features but her body just doesn’t do it for me. We’ve been together for 3 years. At first I got turned on just from her touch, I didn’t really focus on her body. I loved everything about it.But when the phase ended and we started arguing more I began noticing her physical flaws more. I tried to get used to it but it’s still hard.I’m used to normie porn standards. I can only finish when she gives me head or when we have sex in the dark and I imagine porn in my head bruh. She has large sagging breasts (i prefer small ones) and no ass at all, flat. Wide ribcage, sagging chest, no ass.. it just doesn’t turn me on.What do I do?I genuinely love her as a person. I don’t think I could build something like this with someone else, and honestly I don’t even want to start over. I’ve thought about this a lot and I really want a to be with her. She’s caring, loving, kind, understanding. All of that stuff.I just struggle to get hard for her body.I secretly cheated. I made a tinder acc and eventually hooked up with the first girl who agreed. turned out half the city had already slept with her and got a bit scared for my health lmao.That was stupidI didn’t care for about a month. Then guilt hit me hard. What did I do? I had this calm life with my gf who always looked after meWhat do I do?
Man, okay first you need to know your true feelings, "do I really wanna be with her?" Think about it cus man I get hard just when a woman is smart I don't care about anybody it won't last foreverThen tell her the cheating part, why? Cuz if you just continue the relationship then that's just shitty from you so you gotta tell her, just give her the real reason and accept that the response won't be fun just be real atleast you won't look down on yourself. Then you tell her if your sorry i still wanna be with you or I cant be with youJust get it doneLike I said it won't be easy and you will be the villain in her life so accept that, its so much better than her finding out from someone elseThis was the normal act, if you want to be a retard tell her we can't be together block her then ghost
>>34273508that sucks anon...be careful, though. I ran away from my ex gf and months later I regretted it a lot. not (only) because I wanted to go back with her, but because I felt like a retard for not talking things with her, for not considering her in my life project, for being a retard and a miser.
>>34273508>She has large sagging breasts (i prefer small ones) and no ass at all, flat. Wide ribcage, sagging chest, no ass.. it just doesn’t turn me on.>I genuinely love her as a personIs criticizing someone intimately for strangers on the Internet something you consider genuinely loving a person?
>>34273508If you are attracted to the person inside the packaging, you come to find the packaging attractive. If the packaging is a block, the attraction to the person inside can't be much
