I'm a 40y.o. man. I had my first gf at 35, can count with my hands the times I had sex before I met her, and I never had the opportunity to "go wild". Or maybe I had it, but I was too autistic, poor, and was (and still kinda am) too much of an insecure coward to deal with all things women, and never asked friends for help... But things have improved a lot for me in the last decade.As a way of "solving" the need of going through that stage, I'm planning of renting a small, cheap apartment in an area with the most universities per square meter. Why? Tons of women, of course, so I can force myself to learn and act.The thing is, I'm 40, my hair is becoming whiter as time passes, and I'm not really sure if getting involved with women in their 20s is a good idea for a guy like me. Not because I don't like the idea of having sex with younger women, but because of the social/moral implications. On the other hand, I'm tall and good looking. I still get looks from all kinds of women, even in that age range, and I've been approached with obvious intentions, in public transport, &c..Should I do this? Any advice is welcome.Pic unrelated. I can only dream women were this hot in my country...
>>34273700BTW, yes, I'm autistic. I also am reclusive and socially retarded. So this is not only about "going wild", it's about getting all the knowledge about women and people in general that I never got. Yes, I want to experience the BPDs and the absolute whores, as well as the decent and pure.I watched Californication a while ago and it blew my mind. Yeah, I get it, it's a TV show and not reality, but I wonder if I can get to be like Hank for a while.
>>34273700>Should I do this?No. You've simply left it too late, I'm afraid. Women of college age will find you creepy at the age of 40. That ship has sailed.
>>34274316OP here.lke I said, I still get looks and get approached, but yeah, most women that age look at me like I don't exist, and if I stare, then yeah, they look at me like I'm a creep... should I just kms at this point?anyway, it's not like I'll chase them. I would rent there and use dating apps. maybe I should shoot for women in their late 20s/early 30s? for whatever reason, academic types seem to have a thing for me on dating apps.
>>34273700I own a home and I'm very successful with my career. It It's easy with girls for me girls IRL because I am attractive, smart, witty, and successful.
It is very common for me for girls who are 18-ish to approach me and flirt. It's actually happened more and more as I've been aging in my 30s. Girls love the daddy type and are drawn to me
>>34274658OP here.> 18-ishanon, those are children>flirtspeaking of which.. I'm totally useless at flirting, I think. any advice on this?
>>34274748That means 18 and older. They are not children. 18 is adult. As far as game, take a scenario and insert your captivation and magnetism into it through how you are perceived. I have a couple go-tos and they're basically guaranteed every time for girls to approach me or signal approach
>>34273700You should probably not base your life on this or you should go to poorer countries. It was ALWAYS just about relative social status and luck.
>>34274803anon, I've been lucky but I refused to take those opportunities, and I live in a "poorer country" while making more than 90% of the population.>You should probably not base your life on thisdid you not read my post? I want to live my fucking life once. like, I need a year of this, then I'll fuck off and do something else.I've wasted a lot of time already, some more time wasted maybe enjoying my life wouldn't do more harm than the decades I've wasted.
>>34274316Teenage age girls loves old daddy men. You are absolute delusional if you think they do not prefer older guys. Are you a leftist tranny by any chance? Maybe a low iq nigger fag?
>>34274817Yeah but your life is waiting on it before it can begin and you might not get that year. Good luck though.
>>34274944>your life is waiting on it before it can begin and you might not get that yearI've worked, not just "waited", on a lot of things. currently, hopefully, in the final phase. this one would be one of those things. I can finally relax and do whatever the fuck I want after living in poverty, surrounded by miserable people, for a long fucking time...>Good luck though.thanks anon. good luck to you too.
>>34273700Pursuing women just isn't worth it, especially with autism. Just hire prostitutes. Hire only high class verified women with good reviews and enough pictures to tell if you're attracted to them.This is how I went through a similar "wild" phase later in life, however my wife gave me permission first. She was the one who brought it up, I wouldn't ask your wife.
>>34273700It comes down to this: Do you have money? A 40-year-old man trying to pull college girls is a "Creeper." A 40-year-old man trying to fuck college girls who has money to burn is a "Sugar Daddy" - It's that simple. Years ago while shopping for a birthday gift for my wife at a high-end store, I saw a 20-year-old redhead looking at a Coach handbag. No way she could afford it with the way she was dressed. I told her it looked nice and that she should have it. So, I bought it for her. She was very happy. I gave her my card and told her to text me when she had free time to hang out and maybe I'd take her shopping. I got to fuck her for the next 2 years. She even brought a couple of friends for me to fuck a couple of times. But it cost me close to $40,000.
>>34274959>Pursuing women just isn't worth it, especially with autismfuck, you have a fucking point there. I'm not a diagnosed autist, but I would bet people around me think I am autistic, or maybe just kinda "weird".and, yes, women have always been a mystery to me. like, why can't they be honest and open? why does being honest to them results in them crying or whatever? let's not even talk about mind games and stuff. but I have to be honest: I do the same shit, because I don't know how to react to other people's shit.>>34275022>It comes down to this: Do you have money? A 40-year-old man trying to pull college girls is a "Creeper." A 40-year-old man trying to fuck college girls who has money to burn is a "Sugar Daddy" - It's that simple.>it cost me close to $40,000.I guess that's the reality today... but I feel like you are one of those guys who people would call a findom, aka, financial cuck. I wouldn't spend that much money on women. like, 10% at most, and only if the girl is pretty and hot. and I'd feel like shit, because obviously the relationship would be fake, so I would feel empty.but I guess I could try. maybe I should try that...
>>34273700OP here.btw, regaring the apartment: should I rent something cheap, or something a bit more expensive? should I pretend to be what I am not, so that I can "fake it till I make it"?
