I'm 21 (almost 22) year old man, and I feel it's over. I missed my chance at having a decent gf. I think there were those chances maybe even a year ago, but I feel I'm at a point of no return. I'm finishing uni in two years, but all my acquaintances are taken, and their acquaintances are taken as well. Only thing left is creeping on stranger women, or online dating, and I doubt either will bring results. >What is the best way to stop thinking about it? How to stop caring? I know it is possible since wizchan exists.
Maybe keep pursuing or take a short break and continue pursuing again. Or give up entirely.For myself, I don't consider age 21 as end of things, but real starting of adulthood. Having relationships and intimacy were officially meant for adults. People get more matured emotionally with time and more wounded they are? The more better and wise they are. They learn the value of love and hold onto it tightly unlike teens who just mostly go through the motions and replace with anyone better once they lose sparkles.
>>3427494223 (almost 24) M here, also in uni. Personally, viewing relatioships as just a social convention helps. But at times where i did indeed refuse to let go of the feeling of inadequacy due to not having had a relationship before, saying that i'm indeed not normal, somehow helped. However be careful with thatas for stopping caring entirely - i'm out of advice for that. I personally would hate to be left alone with eventually no one to support me, at the mercy of my government, which is one of the reasons why there's a part of me that wants kids. And as we know, having kids requires a woman to be with. All i can say is you're not alone in this, if you will find it of any helpbut did you ever try online dating?
>>34274942>wizchanwhy?there is a lot more to life than this, even if it hurts
>>34274942met my husband when i was 23, he was 25, were colleagues, were 29-31 now and very happy, expecting a baby.
>>34275162i'm this guy >>34275061 and you lifted my mood up :)
>>34274942The less you care the higher the chance of actually getting one.
>>34275162Can i impregnate you instead? My seed is stronger. The husband can be the cuck.
>>34274942>a decent gflet's open up that can of worms real quick, what do you mean by "decent" ?
>>34275176>>34275187the duality of man. i love 4chanone of these responses really warmed my heart.
>>34275416I said the impregnation thing. Glad to have warmed your heart.
