I am a guy but I have always felt like I seriously lack experience in terms of romance and dating compared to women my age. I am 31 and I feel completely behind in everything dealing with dating and romance. I strongly prefer to date women my own age or very close to it(within 2-3 years of my own age). Women my age seem incredibly experienced though. Like having had multiple boyfriends, long term relationships, sexual relationships, short term relationships, all sorts of shit. I am not even looking for a woman with NO experience like me. I just wish the gap in my experiences and the experience of most women wasn't so large. The culmination of my experience in these fields is basically having one kiss. And the woman had to kiss me. I wasn't even the one who initiated it. So what can I do to try and resolve this? I don't feel I could ever catch up. I don't finding a woman who is fond of men with hardly any experience is even a real thing. I don't really think women covet a man who hasn't done anything sexual. What are my options?
Well you could come to the darkest corner of online inceldom and get bullshitted by people who get nervous infront of their own family, that would be a brilliant idea.
idk op im in the same boat. i got kissed, never initiated. maybe start going to church unironicly and get a (semi)virgin woman there. but you are then bonded for life and they expect you to do all that stuff that is in their book, so you cant really bullshit it at all.maybe try a psychologist? they are mostly free in europe
>>34276158It’s best to find a woman that has a mental impairment as well That way expectations and everything else can be on equal terms
>compare to women
>>34276158At your age teen-style dating games and rituals don't really apply. You are most likely to find women either online (not really satisfactory) or via the friendzone. Chances are that you already know the next woman you will be romantically involved with, as friend, co-worker, neighbor, club member, friend-of-friend, etc. That actually works to your benefit in your particular situation, since you can get to know each other on a non-sexual level first and know whether you will be comfortable exposing your experience level.Look around you for a woman you know who you find particularly amenable. The line between hanging out as friends and dating is a thin one
>>34277453What would even a psychologist do for OP?
>>34276158You're a man. Unlike women you dont have to date women your age. Date someone younger and less experienced. Women PREFER men to be older than them despite what internet groupthink would make you think.
>>34276158Fuck a few high priced escorts (GFE exp) as a way to up your game and get some experience yourself. It does wonders.
