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Do women actually like being approached in public? Yes or no?
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>>34276224
Depends. If it's specifically a social situation like a bar or club or whatever then of course but don't approach them when they have a specific task in mind like buying groceries or working out at the gym. Otherwise you'll come off as irritating at best and creepy at worst.
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If your handsome yeah
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>>34276224
In public? No. At a social gathering where interaction is expected like a bar, club or concert? It depends on how you approach and what you want. Most women are agreeable enough to brief chats about innocuous things but the second they feel like you want something from them they're going to be more on guard. Sussing out when to push and pull in a social interaction with a stranger is just a matter of experience.
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>>34276224
Hitting on women outside of where's it's expected and generally accepted (parties, bars, concerts, etc.) is not seen in a good light
Small talk is perfectly fine however, and you should engage in it
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>>34276224
Depends on the culture in your country. In Latin America, women have no problem with it. Just be nice and not an asshole.
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>>34276250
Damn bro we had the exact same train of thought on this
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>>34276224
Well it’s way better than being approached by a stranger in private

But random cold entry, best to make interesting small talk and have some subtle charm first
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>>34276224
If you're attractive and high-status, yes.
Otherwise, no.
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>>34276673
ignore this person immediately you cannot give good advice if you are an incel so shut up
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>>34276747
So you’re saying you’re unattractive
Got it
At least you accept it
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>>34276747
I'm not an incel.
If you think that most women want to be approached by random dudes while just going about their day, you have a screw loose.
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Depends on your looks
No matter how it's framed as a matter of principle and morally wrong, it only is until some rando she thinks is hot approaches her and it suddenly isn't. You'd like being approached by a cute girl, right? It goes both ways. Obviously it can be suspect, no such thing as a free lunch after all. Women are similar, but are also more likely to be in a position of vulnerability than men and need to be more selective of their partners due to greater risks. It's more socially beneficial to frame it as it being an inherently wrong thing to do, as saying "He was hot, confident, and showed interest in me so I went with this stranger" gives off an impression of shallowness they don't want to give.
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>>34276292
they do, specially in crime ridden shitholes
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>>34276224
Depends on how you look, your country's culture, and where you approach her
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>>34276747
He's not wrong though. Cold approaches are more likely to work if you are a rich chad.



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