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nyanko
do I tell sum1???? 02/21/26(Sat)00:57:33 No.34277336

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do I tell sum1???? nyanko 02/21/26(Sat)00:57:33 No.34277336

ok lil bit of a tw I guess so I don't get bashed for not putting one
anywayz I had a huge crush on this guy who was a little older then me a few months back and he and I recently had a little moment which including him 'touching' me
but he never asked if he could do any of this we were sitting watching TV and he just started kinda doing it and now I'm literally disgusted with him and I haven't hung out with any of my irl friends in fear they'll bring him up or smth and I'm losing a lot of friends for not talking to anyone :/ but I don't wanna tell them what happened because it feels kind of like my fault for not saying anything
idk what to do

Anonymous
02/21/26(Sat)01:45:14 No.34277410

Anonymous 02/21/26(Sat)01:45:14 No.34277410

you have to be 18 years old to post on 4chan

Anonymous
02/21/26(Sat)03:45:32 No.34277549

Anonymous 02/21/26(Sat)03:45:32 No.34277549

>>34277336
Number One: It is not, not at all, in no way, absolutely not, zero, nada, NOT your fault. Get that entirely out of your head.

O K. Got it? It is not your fault. Now let's consider what to do about it. The simple answer is just not see him anymore. You can't trust him and can't enjoy his company. We don't keep friends we don't like.

Meanwhile, you don't have to tell anyone about any of this. It's nobody's business. Just carry on with your friends as normal. The part of your live that doesn't involve him - and that is 99% of it - can go on happily.

Anonymous
02/21/26(Sat)04:10:43 No.34277580

Anonymous 02/21/26(Sat)04:10:43 No.34277580

>>34277336
Omg post this in the discord vent channel or something.
but you should tell your friends and leave the older guy, keep contacting your friends. it might be because the time you are spending with the guy

Anonymous
02/21/26(Sat)04:45:19 No.34277642

Anonymous 02/21/26(Sat)04:45:19 No.34277642

>>34277336
No, it's not your fault. It's his fault, 100%. It was his responsibility to check if you were okay with it; he didn't - just went ahead and did it, because he didn't care what you wanted. That's *all* on him.

It is right that you should feel disgusted by his behaviour and not want to see him any more.

You should probably make an effort to start spending time with your friends again. Having friends is good. It'll make you feel better.

It's entirely up to you whether you tell them about this or not. If it were me, I would tell them; and I'm sure they won't think it was your fault, because it wasn't. But if you would prefer not to talk about it and just put it out of your mind and be normal again, that's okay too. You are in control now: you can tell people if you want, or not tell people if you want. It's entirely up to you.

Anonymous
02/21/26(Sat)09:29:23 No.34278132

Anonymous 02/21/26(Sat)09:29:23 No.34278132

>>34277336
>tw
>on 4chan
OP is an underaged SJW faggot

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