I always compare myself to the others.I started drawing a few months ago and i feel desperate each i see someone who's way better than me.It hits especially hard when the other artist is younger than me.Im a lazy bum who wastes all his time on forums,porn and mangas.I also have this inferiority complex at school, people learn and get things way easier and faster than me.I should work a lot to fill up the gap of talent with them but i don't do shit because im depressed of my lack of brains.Even outside i compare my looks to the others and i see all the tall attractive male with very cute chicks.Please help me :(
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Best I can give is just foucs on yourself better from the struggles you have and used those comparisons as less "man I wish I was as good as em" and more "what can I learn/take away from this" sorta mindset with in school get in say a self study or asking a teacher for help in s subject one on one of you want,and for looks just better yourself physical and be more approachable or say being funny/helpful/(genuinely) nice.etc with confidence among least cutting the porn out for a bit either lessen the viewing or completely same with gaming and manga if it takes up your time.tldr: ya mind can be your worst enemy so do ways too shut it up
