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Is it normal to still think about a person who died years ago? My first girlfriend died in 2019 but I’ve known her since 2011. We were super close and I miss her a lot. It wasn’t always the best and looking back she was kinda a bad influence but I still think about her from time to time

I ask because do you think I should fully move on and forget about her or am just romanticizing the past?
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Yes it's completely normal to still think about someone who died years after,the important part is not let yourself be consumed by the passing of em to where it starts affecting you heavily especially in you're mental health
treasure the good moments you had with her and while acknowledging the bad keep everything you enjoyed with her in mind even as you move on.
yes i know that sounds easier said than done but go about it day by day as ultimately like every death of a person helping takes time.



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