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I'm 20 and I still feel attracted to teenage girls (13-17). I thought it was normal but apparently it's not. I read that most men grow out of liking teenage girls, but I feel like I'll still be this way when I'm 30. Is it true most men just grow out of liking girls that age?
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>>34279161
>Is it true most men grow out of liking teenage girls?
I'm 27, and I know I didn't.
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Think, you have the choice between a used up woman with baggage, or the perfect, youthful, innocent, pure, unused, untarnished and high spirited Lillie. Which one do you go for?

A used car with mileage? Or the brand new one? (same brand)
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>>34279161
No clue, I never had any attraction to any teenage girls. For as long as I can remember my first erection, I've only been attracted to females aged 30 - 55. I am a MILF man by trade, till the day I die.
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>>34279161
I never liked teenage girls, as soon as I started having sexual desires I knew what I wanted and I want big ladies with big boobies and butts.
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>>34279293
Ive only ever felt really attracted to women from 19-30
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>>34279161
Absolutely not. Biology dictates attraction to sexually developed females.
HOWEVER.
Cultural and social influences DO matter. Teenage girls ARE vulnerable to manipulation etc and should be protected. Beyond that, they're fucking insufferable to actually be around.
So while finding them hot might never really disappear, it is usually offset by the desire not to hurt them, not to be socially ousted or culturally punished, and an inability to tolerate their retarded shit.
You're also supposed to pretend you don't find them attractive, that's kind of important. Just accept they're not for you and treat them like the social suicide they are.
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>>34279161
you are 20, so I think its normal to stil be attracted to teens. 13 is a bit young though.
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>>34279313
>Teenage girls are vulnerable to manipulation
Haha you actually believe that? There's a reason I stayed away from teen girls and stuck with the MILFs. Teenage girls are absolute professional manipulators it's not even funny. I have watched grown men in their 40s reduced to tears and suicide attempts over a 18 year old girl they were trying to fuck with. Teen girls wield manipulation the same way a madman wields a knife.
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>>34279290
this point has never been proven wrong
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>>34279313
>they're fucking insufferable to actually be around.
explain
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>>34279161
Here's a list of reasons why teenage girls are fucking trash tier:

>Heavy makeup to hide acne. They are ugly as sin 9/10 times without makeup due to puberty hormones still turning their faces into a surface resembling Pluto

>They are loud and cannot shut up. If they aren't talking non-stop, they giggle. And they giggle at anything and everything. Cute at first, after a week it's nauseatingly annoying

>The phone is their third hand. They are never off their fucking phones, ever. If you are watching a movie together? They're not in the moment with you, they're on the phone. Watching majestic lions at a zoo or safari? They're on the phone. About to attend a funeral for a deceased? They're on the phone.

>Same personality, dime a dozen. They all have Stanley cups, they all like the same slop music artists, they all speak the same soundbytes, they all wear whatever is the trend, they don't actually have individuality of their own yet, they're as vapid and shallow as puddles. They have the same opinions as Billie Eilish or Whoever it is that's the [current idol]

>Entitled to hell. They've only been adult for a year at 18. In some cultures, two if it's 16. Still teens, so that means they are still programmed to have a doting father wipe their ass. They have princess complex. All their problems are now your problems. And all their demands are now your obligation. They want netflix they want Chipotle they want the new mascara they saw on tiktok, and you best believe you have to pay for it. Or else you are a bad man and bad boyfriend, and their gaggle of hens, their female friends? They tell her "throw the WHOLE man away, girl~" when you don't play along.

Lastly

>"Would you still love me if I was a worm???" Everything is a shit test.

Teen girls are for morons
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>>34279347
>>The phone is their third hand. They are never off their fucking phones, ever. If you are watching a movie together? They're not in the moment with you, they're on the phone. Watching majestic lions at a zoo or safari? They're on the phone. About to attend a funeral for a deceased? They're on the phone.
>>Same personality, dime a dozen. They all have Stanley cups, they all like the same slop music artists, they all speak the same soundbytes, they all wear whatever is the trend, they don't actually have individuality of their own yet, they're as vapid and shallow as puddles. They have the same opinions as Billie Eilish or Whoever it is that's the [current idol]
>>Entitled to hell. They've only been adult for a year at 18. In some cultures, two if it's 16. Still teens, so that means they are still programmed to have a doting father wipe their ass. They have princess complex. All their problems are now your problems. And all their demands are now your obligation. They want netflix they want Chipotle they want the new mascara they saw on tiktok, and you best believe you have to pay for it. Or else you are a bad man and bad boyfriend, and their gaggle of hens, their female friends? They tell her "throw the WHOLE man away, girl~" when you don't play along.
But anon this also applies to women over 18...........I see a lot of it. Many such cases.
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>>34279351
>But anon this also applies to women over 18...........I see a lot of it. Many such cases.
Yes, so never ever date Americans, British, Canadians, or Western Euros. All of their women are perpetual teenagers in adult bodies. Date a girl from a culture where mature womanhood is still expected of females. Avoid SEA monkeys, Indians and nogs. Try central - east European.
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>>34279347
>Heavy makeup to hide acne. They are ugly as sin 9/10 times without makeup due to puberty hormones still turning their faces into a surface resembling Pluto
not true for all cases, some don't and some are very cute. You can't lie to someone like me anon.
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>>34279368
I'm not lying I am generalising, and I generalise for realism. Realistically your average 4channer won't be bagging the teen girl with the natural good looks, that's not in the cards. Not because your average 4chan NEET cannot do it, he could, but let's face it, they never try.

So average girl it is. And average teen girl is a fucking headache.
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>>34279377
Wouldn't being attracted to their appearance make you completely ignore or not notice how much of a headache they are?
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>>34279377
>>34279368
Also that's not even getting into the basic fact:

>Average teen girl will be most likely to abort your child if you impregnated her.
"Muh college", "muh degree", "muh partying days", "I'm only 18 I can't be a mother!". You impregnate her and you wanna marry and have the husband wife good life with her? Not happening, not in this culture anyway. Your child is going into a medical waste bin while she vents to her insta buddies about how brave she was for turning her womb into a graveyard. Mature maternal women don't do that, on the opposite, they want a family and they want to have a whole bouquet of children with the man. Teen girls would never do that shit in a million years. They're too busy thinking of the next alcohol fueled Saturday.
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>>34279385
>Wouldn't being attracted to their appearance make you completely ignore or not notice how much of a headache they are?
Yes, for 6 - 18 months. Then the honeymoon phase wears off and the good looks become normalized and you take it for granted and you see how shitty they are and how annoying they are. And you will know there and then no amount of pretty is worth that much hassle than what you get with teen slop.

It also means your relationship is on life support if all you cared about was the looks. Because teen girl is gonna grow old. So if you've invested shit like money I to her, marriage, kids, the ship is sinking and you're fucked.
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>>34279388
You make good arguments, however what do you have to say about the fact that the average woman is used up and has baggage? That's not a fun selection pool..
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>>34279398
>You make good arguments, however what do you have to say about the fact that the average woman is used up and has baggage? That's not a fun selection pool..

What I gotta say to that is the type of girl that has been used up and has baggage started their used up journey somewhere. They start it at their teens. And funnily enough, they dated an older guy as a teen and it didn't work out and she is now used up. Because the older guy realised there's no wife material in her and he fucked off.

If you wanna stop the cycle, don't be the older guy who uses a teen up only to realise she is a fucking brat. Your options are continue hunting for the older woman who isn't used up, aka sperg chicks or femcels or Mrs Autist. Or pick a different culture and location. Cuz they don't exist in the west. Go central or east
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>>34279377
>Realistically your average 4channer won't be bagging the teen girl with the natural good looks, that's not in the cards
The thread is about being attracted to people, what you can "bag" is irrelevant.
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>>34279411
>And funnily enough, they dated an older guy as a teen and it didn't work out and she is now used up
As if guys their own age can't use them up
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>>34279420
It is relevant because what you should be bagging is what you're attracted to. I don't know if anyone who deliberately bags shit they don't want. If they exist, woe be upon them my biggest because that's silly as fuck
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>>34279425
>As if guys their own age can't use them up
Yeah they could, but that's a rarity now. The days of 18 year old chads fucking the 18 year old girls brains out at Chad's spring break party is over. The numbers show younger men are having less sex at rates never seen before. And I'm not surprised by it, I saw it coming back when I was also 18 (I'm mid thirties now).

Your average 18 year old young buck doesn't care about getting his dick wet, he has porn, he has videogames, he has his Playstation and Xbox Voice Chat to just talk shit with the lads. He's settled and happy enough and doesn't want to bother with wooing and flirting and courting a teen girl. Especially because teen girls in the west are chattering cackling entitled brats now who don't want to learn how to be full fledged women. The teen girls of today don't even think babies are cute, they 'ick' at offspring and maternal instinct. It's a fucking joke.
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>>34279427
It's not really relevant to OP's question about whether he'll grow out of it. No one grows out of being attracted to a group just because they can't "bag" the ones they're attracted to.
I can't bag supermodels, movie stars, or goth e-girls, but I'm still attracted to them.
On top of that it applies to any other group... if you're talking about what the "average 4channer" can bag (although I think that's an overly-broad stereotype to apply here) then they're not going to have their pick of anything.
Really feels like you're just coming up with reasons not to be attracted to teenagers because you're not "supposed" to be attracted to them.
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>>34279313
>Teenage girls ARE vulnerable to manipulation
They do the vast majority of the manipulating once they learn they can.
>and should be protected... it is usually offset by the desire not to hurt them
Any sane male remembers the vaginal manipulation, multiple rejections, and easy lives girls their age were living while they rotted. And that should offset any single fuck given about protecting them.



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