Some people at work had been trying to set me up, asking me what I think etc about a girl at work. I feel like I made it pretty clear I wasn't romantically interested. The girl is nice and we talk and she's objectively not ugly, but I don't feel any attraction towards her whatsoever.Apparently that wasn't clear. She asked me on an outing, not an outright date by obviously implied and I had already said I had no plans so I just kind of said sure. I'm a typical 4chan guy, antisocial, awkward, little to no experience with women etc etc. So how do I play this?Do I cancel the outing or go out and just tell her that I'm not interested? She goes out a lot and with other people from work so this isn't technically weird, but because other people (women) have been trying to set us up I know what this is. This is all made even more awkward by the fact that we physically work very very close to each other.So how do tell her I'm not interested in being more than friends without being/sounding like a complete asshole and making people hate me at work?
>>34294243I mean you could just go out with her and hang out. Just don't initiate anything obviously and treat it like hanging out with a friend. You might be able to just make a new friend if she's someone you actually like spending time with. But don't flat out say anything to her about not being interested. Just don't initiate and stone wall any romantic stuff. Treat her like a friend. She'll get the hint. If it directly comes up, then you can just say you only want to be friends. But don't just come out and say that without any provocation.
don’t date people from work unless you don’t plan on staying there long
