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How do you prevent your wife from getting bored of you after you get married? It's extremely common for women to lose interest in sex a few years after getting married, even if the relationship is good and stable and the man is handsome/in shape.
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>>34295997
No idea. Marriage seems like it has some nightmarish elements anyway.
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>>34295997
rape her. I’m not kidding. She wants you to rape her.
Foids get turned on when you exert power and control over them. They like to be a bit scared of someone who they trust. Don’t take no for an answer. Don’t even ask yes or no, just tell her what she’s going to do. Spank her. Grab her and grope her. Pick her up and throw her. Hold her down. Grip her wrists. I’m realizing that grab grip and grope probably all have the same etymology.
Best to do it when she’s ovulating.
It doesn’t have to be like this every time, but if you do it every now and then, she’ll see you as an unpredictable sexual being and she’ll continue to be intrigued by you.
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>>34296063
>grab grip and grope probably all have the same etymology
and also grapple and grasp! amazing
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>>34295997
>How do you prevent your wife from getting bored of you after you get married?
First, don't stick your dick in crazy. Second, don't marry an asshole.

More to the point : don't be boring, pay attention to her, make sure she is paying attention to you, do things with her, even simple things like groceries, chores, etc. Make sure you are involved with her life and she's involved with yours.

I realized the other day that I'd been with my wife for over 20 years and we'd missed it. We've been married for 16.5 years. But we still love each other. We still have sex. We do things together on the weekend. We talk to each other every day. We have a running gag where one of us says "hey, I love you, want to marry me?" to which the other answers "to late. I'm already married."
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>>34296063
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im not married, but as a girl who has (for the first time ever in a relationship) lost interest in fucking her bf
>dont cheat on her, may seem obvious but this includes watching porn for some women so be careful with that, even if she forgives you it will kick her self esteem into a curb
>make sure she feels comfortable with herself and knows you find her attractive, many men stop trying to make their partners feel like theyre desired when they fall into routine
>talk things through with her and ALWAYS pay attention to the way shes feeling during sex as well
>never take her for granted, even if she is, know that you cant just behave however you want and everything will stay the same
>be open to exploring new stuff with her, suggest things, try out whatever kinks shes into, whatever
>common sense things like other said (omit the rape incel, unless your bitch is into cnc)

the whole getting bored thing happens to both genders, but men usually compensate with either cheating or watching porn, so they can still kinda fuck their wife while keeping themselves entertained with other hoes
literally any girl can go from wanting to suck you off three times a day to feeling uncomfortable if you try to make out with her, speaking from experience, so make sure you keep trying to make her feel wanted, otherwise it may be too late at some point
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>>34296083
>We have a running gag where one of us says "hey, I love you, want to marry me?" to which the other answers "to late. I'm already married."
Y'all are gay and cringe... How do I get a relationship like this?
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>>34296128
>any girl can go from wanting to suck you off three times a day to feeling uncomfortable if you try to make out with her, speaking from experience
>speaking from experience
did your bf get more rapey about this stuff or...? What happened?
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>>34296166
nope, im actually into that kind of stuff, personally

during the whole first year of relationship we didnt fuck as much as i wouldve liked to (like, everyday)
i tried to communicate, which led to him saying i was trying to guilt trip him into sex or some shit, when i was simply trying to let him know how that was making me feel
he also made me feel guilty about trying to initiate in general, saying i had to understand not everyone has the same libido and what not, and i kind of came to terms with it even if it wasnt my preference cause i genuinely came to believe it was my bad

tldr, turns out "the guy with no libido" was jerking off to a fuck ton of bitches behind my back (which i told him even before dating i was not okay with, so its not like i was forcing him to change anything), including ai generated dogshit, anime chatbots, leaked onlyfans, his ex, chicks we both knew irl and my fucking friends, who he also knew irl
for context, gotta note were both pretty attractive and are hit on constantly, and hes an alt guy but pretty much a normie

so yeah, no, dont make your bitch feel undesired
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>>34296202
what the fuck, i'm so sorry to hear that
and you guys are still together?
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>>34296239
lmao, dw man, i try to see it as something funny atp

and yup, were still together, in fact we were living together at the time and still are

i didnt leave cause when i found out about this, we had just moved across the country to his home city, which i spent all my savings on + (as embarrassed to admit this as i am) i still loved him
he promised hed change and all that bs, and despite him not jerking off anymore to other hoes(as far as i know, im not sure i actually believe he hasnt done it since), the real effort to try and make it up to me lasted for a month or two at best
i kinda just stopped complaining about stuff, stopped trying to talk about what bothers me and such
sure, now its perfectly comfortable for him, gf doesnt argue, he gets to go out whenever he wants and hang out with whoever he wants, party... you name it
but he also feels bad about us being more distant than ever,since im now pretty much an alcoholic hikikomori neet whod rather lurk 4chan like when i was 15 rather than, idk, watch a film with him

i still love him a lot, its just not the same and he fucked up so much itll probably never be, but oh well
take care of your gfs :3
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>>34296128
>unless your bitch is into cnc
Which is probably about 80% of women
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>>34296156
TIL that a man loving a woman is gay!
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>>34296266
You do realize there's a huge difference between rape fantasies and reality.
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>>34296288
Honestly the line between the two is blurry sometimes. A lot of women would get the ick if their husband was like "may I please have permission to fake rape you?" and they actually want him to just do it.
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>>34296262
damn
either way, best of luck in life to you!
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>>34296063



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