How do normies immediately find out that you're on the spectrum? Do they like do this on a subconscious level? I haven't even done anything and somehow they already know. Guys do this too, so it's not entirely pic related.
We’re immediately perceptive to body language and other non-verbal social cues.It is pretty much subconscious for us, yes.
>>34308005so basically you see a dude and something just screams to you that he's not normal. You don't know what it exactly is. but he's just not normal? Is it like that?
>>34307999Anyone claiming to be a normie on this site isn't a normie that's first of all. Second of all normies can't detect your autism. They sense something is 'off' but they almost never suspect autism, they just assume the person is highly strung, anxious, a nervous person, a shy guy, an awkward person. The only people who can spot autists accurately are other autists, adhds and maybe a schizoid or two. The only time a normie will spot it is if they have a sibling or friend with it and knew what to look for.
>>34307999Consult the chart. You can also switch schizo with autist and include sociopaths with psychopaths.
>>34308097Nah autists ain't on that cycle, as a psychopath spectrum enjoyer I promise you autists ain't on there, I can confirm schizos normies. But autists are like hobbits, they are too busy jerking off to hairy feet in the confines of their cozy hobbit holes in the shire. Psychopathy is legion of sauron, normies are humans like gondor, and schizos are the army of the dead. We cannot touch schizos because they aren't swayed by the fear of dying so we stay away
>>34308012>You don't know what it exactly is.he just said it retard. body language. so much of our communication is nonverbal
>>34308118>>34308097Also,The chart misses a point, you can be a moral psychopath. Morality doesn't require feeling it, you can think it. In this type of livingz cognition replaces emotion the mind emulates a heart it doesn't have, running cold, precise simulations of feelings. Even other people's.This detachment makes manipulation effortless. By modeling others' emotions intellectually, you can master predicting reactions, finding their triggers, and pushing their buttons. You can fake emotions strategically, create long-term setups and traps to elicit desired responses. The difference between a moral psycho or a immoral is usage. A moral psychopath can use this skill to steer people away from suicide, addiction, or self harm not from compassion but as a dopamine-fueled challenge, a display of competence, or alignment with a rationally chosen ethical code the psycho seems as superior.Morality can be pure intellect, a flawless simulation on emotionless hardware.
>>34308097>schizos>immune to propagandalmaoi don't know how this myth started but it's hilarious to me. out of those 3 very poorly defined groups, schizos are probably the most susceptible to it.
>>34308143>body language. so much of our communication is nonverbalSo normies have this idea of body language ingrained into them from birth, but autists have no clue, is what I was asking.
>>34308201Nta but it's not just body language, tone language too. For example someone could say:"Fuck off."The normie laughs and smiles and somehow it's a good thing. The autist is confused and wonders what they did wrong. What's happening is the "Fuck off" was said in a specific tone and affectation that signalled a double meaning. That "Fuck off" actually meant "Don't be silly, I know that you know what I meant." The autist just hears "I don't like you."Yes, normies speak a whole language in an invisible way through tone and pitch.
>>34307999We trigger an uncanny valley esque feeling in them. They can tell we aren’t “normal” because our reactions to stimuli are abnormal and unless you’ve got your masking down pat our socialization skills are off. Basically what >>34308212 said, except it extends beyond tonal cues to body language and expected responses. I have, through a shit ton of experience and trial and error, managed to get my mask working so people don’t sense my offness immediately, but prolonged exposure basically guarantees that they will eventually see me as a weirdo. Either because my mask slipped due to unexpected stimuli or because I’ve grown too comfortable around them. Regardless, you’ve got to get used to it. Masking has its own perils though, I’m almost a different person depending on what group of people I’m with, and when two groups interact I can’t stop flipping between masks or decide on which mask to wear, and it all falls apart and both sides are left with thinking I acted very strangely around them. You also lose track of who you actually are if you wear the mask too often, and it can lead to derealisation. Lastly all these relationships are built upon a version of you that is curated, and so no one ever gets to interact with the “real” you, and so you become super isolated from everyone, even if they think they are a close friend they sometimes feel like an alien species.But at least it’s gotten me pussy/girlfriends so there’s that.
>>34308355You wanna know the kicker, autist anon? The real kick in the alien autistic balls? When the autist takes that mask off and I mean the entire mask, even the mask under the mask and they are brave enough to regress back to the start, back to factory settings if autism with zero filter. Do you know how we normies react when we witness the face of the alien beneath? We fucking love it, we witness not the face of a freak or alien. But that if an angel. A grumpy and irritable and anxious as fuck angel, but an angel, a human who has somehow, managed to preserve this mental pearl of pure innocence from being in their shell their entire life. It's a sight so exquisite, even psychopaths admire it like one would admire a work of art hung at a gallery. Even they wouldn't want to ruin or disrupt that. I've heard psychopaths speak of it, calling them "Cherubs". If or when the autist masks off, totally and entirely, things happen and they happen fast. The autist gets married for one thing, snatched up quickly the same way as someone sees a diamond laying on the street, rushing to claim it for themselves before anyone notices
>>34308063I'm the first reply and wanted to argue with this, but I do indeed have a brother with autism.
>>34308012Pretty much. Most people couldn’t explain it, but they can just feel it.
>>34307999...
>>34307999>man with no rizz acts awkward in normal conversation>"WTF HOW DID THEY KNOW I HAVE NO SOCIAL SKILLS?"Are you retarded?
>>34308446Thank you for the kind words, but that is not my experience. People don’t really want to deal with an acerbic oldfag who won’t stop dropping n bombs and calling people faggots all the time, even if done so lovingly. Sure, they like my history deep dives, knowledge dumps, and zany associations, but the aversion to sunlight, loud noises, and lack of social graces that is my unfiltered self has only left me bereft of company in the past. I’ve gone mask off before, and the only people who enjoy it are stoner edgelords, and they don’t make for good company when one is trying to keep one’s sobriety after a crippling weed addiction. :/
>>34307999gait/balance is different in autistic (is why Naruto run is a meme)lack of mirroringconstantly folded arms/hunched/defensive body language and protective posture instead of sitting at angles lack of showing emotion on the facelack of holding eye contactlack of affect/voice modulation>>34308012>something just screams to you that he's not normal. You don't know what it exactly is.no you faggot retard it's all very obvious shit you can record on video and describe empirically
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>>34308446when I unmask entirely, I ramble endlessly about video games and cartoons, and say incredibly racist things.
>>34307999to the women who can "sense autism" how come you cant "sense" an abuse guy or a fucking deadbeat??
>>34310786they can, and they like them.They all entertain this fantasy that they can bait the guy into being brutal to everyone around them, but the brutality will never turn back on them personally.Classic "I can tame him" shit.
>>34307999Heres the thing: The women who always end up getting beaten and abused subconsciously like or need it. Most often some childhood trauma that they try to repeat. Personality disorders like BPD, internalized self hatred, take your pick. Either way, you want nothing to do with those women either, trust me.
>>34310395My jigaboo.
>>34310833Almost correct, but also they like being abused on a instinctual level. Which is why they find it so difficult to let go of their abusive boyfriends. Rationally, they know they shouldn't be with a guy who punches/yells at them and they might even dump them/try to get away at times, but the problem is that it also makes them super wet because their lizard brain screams to them >THIS IS A REAL MAN, REAL MEN ARE VIOLENT, TAKE HIS SEED, PLEASE
>>34308149Schizos are less likely to believe "mainstream" propaganda, but you can feed them any alternative facts you'd like and they'll believe it without question.
>>34307999USB 1.1 and 2.0 have identical connectors. When you have 2.0 thumbdrive and connect it into 2.0 slot then it'll work at 2.0 speed. That's a normie conversation. But when one device is 2.0 and the other is 1.1, then the 2.0 one will immediately know that this shit is going to be slow as fuck because the other one fails to respond to 2.0 messages, while 1.1 device remains none the wiser and will never know that it's pissing off everyone by being slow.Hope this explains things. You basically fail to respond to normie conversation protocols.
>>34315974True for certain women. They can't have normal relationships.
>>34307999I feel like we autists are too sincere for normalfags
>>34317545>I feel like we autists are too sincere for normalfagsYou are correct. What ultimately gets the autist into trouble is their pathological honesty. Autists are honest, too honest. They're honest about everything, the good the bad and the ugly and have no conversational filter. Normies are taught to have a filter and to withhold certain expressions or modify them a certain way to fit a specific time sensitive social context. And the reason we do that is because we innately regulate our emotions as well as the emotions of others through speech and gesture. The issue is we do not consider that there are those who do not require this to regulate emotions, that there are those who would rather have the pure raw unfiltered honesty because it is predictable and more soothing. So the autist will always feel alienated because no one bothers to operate on their mode of communication, sometimes unwitting normies even punish or shame the autist for their mode of communication. And I think it's a great failure on the normies part, because after all the autist has to live a life trying to fit into our way of linguistic expression. Yet no one bothers to try to fit into theirs in return.
>>34317518They are like this because of how humans have evolved. The biggest and most violent caveman got all the women, by force. Then the strongest warrior clan got all the women, by force, and so on. The ones that didn't accept this died out, either by suicide or through pure grief. It's not their fault they are like this, but every woman gets wet from being put in their place and from witnessing men being violent, doesn't matter if it's towards them or others. This is true even in our very hyperliberal societies, where these tendencies are supressed as much as possible and only allowed to be expressed in the conjugal bedroom as sexual "roleplay"
>>34317895I think women should take it upon themselves to be better than cavemen. Where's the accountability here?
>>34307999Yes, normies intuitively pick up and understand non-verbal and visual social cues that autists miss / don't understand -- you know -- one of the defining traits of autism.
>>34317931>I think women should take it upon themselvesWomen have no concept of responsibility (nor should they because they are stupid)
Posting a retarded image like OP's is the first clue. You simply believe things that are retarded and wrong and loudly proclaim those beliefs.
>>34317931None of us are better than caveman. Supressing such natural urges is what turned all of us into the anxious neurotics we are, parodies of real human beings. The end result is our gay sexless society where we pretend men and women are the same and that we're all just gray featureless goo fit to work in a sterile cubicle under artificial light, taking prescription medicine to cope.
Unfortunate you've never actually experienced a real man. Just a husk, an imitation, copycat of one.
>>34307999Women love being beaten and abused.I tried the whole be good and supportive shit with my gf and she took it way too far and became useless. She had the balls to go on her phone during dates, yap at me about not wanting to attend prior engagements we both agreed on and straight up wasted my money.I stopped that shit and turned into an ass and our lives improved. Savings are better, shit is easier now.Women are fucking useless.
>>>34307999to neurotypicals, autism is very easy to identify. speaking figuratively, it's as if you're wearing a sign that says "I am autistic." it is very obvious. Autistic people, in my experience, have a much harder time identifying the difference unless theyve been through treatment that helps them mask and navigate.
Not OP but how is this my problem? I don't want to join your normie clique or make new friends. (Talking about work) I'm just here to get money. Every job I get realizes that I'm weird as fuck pretty quickly and tries to get me to leave. Why should I have to change jobs just because nobody likes me? I really couldn't care less.
>>34318119if men were no better than cavemen they would literally be dragging women back to their caves and being done with it.
>>34318344I can tell the difference. Autistic people have the spark. Neurotypicals always seem vaguely retarded, and completely unable to process simple ideas. They're also fucking rude. They just flat out decide they don't like you and start ignoring you, instead of giving you the decency of a response.
>>34319553>They're also fucking rude. They just flat out decide they don't like you and start ignoring you, instead of giving you the decency of a response.that's autistic people that do that though
After reading all the replies I literally don't want to socialize with anyone anymore. Everyone just makes up a mask and never really shows what they really are. There's no honesty in people or anyone really fuck all this.Imagine we come onto this world and instead of making real tribes we decide to play tricks with each other. I'd rather kms
>>34308446You sound like a woman because you both seemingly want to completely sabotage someone and I've known a psycho bitch who "valued" me but not for the reasons of me being a gem but her toy that she could do whatever she wanted to. I was one of the two people she willingly talked to. Left her without a word, ignoring her ever since and ended up not allowing anyone in again because my instinct of "everyone wants to hurt me in some way" has been proven right once again.
>>34319621it's really not. Neurotypicals are like "I gave you a vague eye gesture. get away from me, dude.."
>>34320293Stop being 5 years old and get over it. Everyone is like you, they're self centered, flawed and trying fo fix themselves.Their attempt to solve the problem is just different than yours. Some people's attempts are obscene and results in them being put down for the greater good like the Iranian supreme leader. May he rest in piss and bacon.
>>34320295>I've known a psycho bitch who "valued" me but not for the reasons of me being a gem but her toy that she could do whatever she wanted to.Then you should have picked the right psycho, autist-anon. You're right it is very easy to take and autist and toy with them, do whatever you like with the right manipulation, all of that shit. The wrong kinda psycho will exploit that and deliberately sabotage you. The right type of psycho doesn't. What they do is teach you how to see the unseen, how to navigate social shit by yourself for yourself, learning how to out manipulate manipulators and how to spot lies and how to twist truths to keep you camouflaged and how to go to psychological war when it's time. And good psychos love doing this for autists not out of any goodness of their hearts, but simply because it's fun to take a puppy and assist them into becoming a full blooded lion. Especially if it means adding one more rank against the normies
>>34320974you do realize I can't just "see" what someone is until I get to know them better right. Another funny woman trick where they try to blame everything onto you. Fuck off
>>34307999I read a stat that like 60% of communication is nonverbal and some percent of that is unconscious and automatic. I assume what happens is that normies learn the connections cumulatively and autistic people don’t so the difference becomes subconsciously obvious to them but you don’t have the necessary data to detect it in yourself unless they can articulate it.
>>34307999>I haven't even done anythingThis is a lie.
>>34320992>you do realize I can't just "see" what someone is until I get to know them better right. Yes and that can be changed. You can get to a point where you can "see" what they are and who they are within minutes. If you're really sharp sometimes without speaking just watching. >>34321058The goal is the make the subconscious conscious. Once you do that you realize something very important: Everyone has the exact same subconscious. What we call "people", they're just conscious minds. Each person is different only because their conscious minds took different turns, different paths, afflicted by different events or maladies or benefitting from differing circumstances and boons. But the subconscious mind is the same as it is for you as it is for me as it is for an autist as it is for a schizo as it is for a psycho etc. It's more or less the same single 'person' that operates everyone alive today. And once you become aware of that you can begin to predict everyone, as well as identify them at a glance.
>>34320293>Everyone just makes up a maskAre you 16 that you've never heard "Everyone has 3 faces: The first one you show to the world, the second you show to your family, and the last you never show to anyone "
>>34307999The don't "find out", but rather agree with each other about it. The truth doesn't matter if the majority wants to agree on a lie reinforced by the media. Youtube trends tell them what's normal and what's weird at a given time, and they put "experts" on screen to make it believable. Same thing was done with boomers with TV before the internet, or with books before the TV.
>>34317895This is just evo psych bullshit>but every woman gets wet from being put in their place and from witnessing men being violentWhy are you equivicating between someone who enjoys being part of a masculine-feminine dynamic and someone who actively likes getting beaten?>doesn't matter if it's towards them or othersOfcourse it does. One is the norm throughout history and the other is mental illness.When all you have for your analysis is a hyper fictionalized version of how ancient humans conducted themselves and just baseless assertions your better off just believing whatever for no reason
>>34308737>sitting at anglesCould you give an example?Also. Do you consider figure 4 a defensive posture?
>>34307999The expression on your face is usually the first clue. And if you don't have tiz face, it's your dwarf like frame, and if you don't have that, it's the entire way you say any sentence.
>>34320293You have three faces.The first face is the one that you show to the world.The second face is the one that you show to your close friends and family.The third face, you never show anyone. It is the truest reflection of who you are.
>>34321154Leftoids & troons like you only hate evo psych because it reveals unconfortable truths about human behavior.
>>34307999By the time you figure it out(it meaning social cues)--and you will figure it out--you will crave solitude. I know how to be likeable to normies but why would I want that? Most of what they have to offer is vapid and when it isn't and you manage to strike a chord deep enough for them to become sincere, they will become obsessively attached to you. The thirst just isn't worth the juice. Trust me. It's like winning at chess against people that only know how to play checkers. It's best to pursue a life of solitary creativity and mystery. Trust me. I have wasted so much time.
>>34320435you realize that to a neurotypical thats just as clear as saying out loud "i am uncomfortable by you and would like you to leave me alone" dont you? do you think hispanics are assholes cause theyre saying shit you dont understand too?
>>34307999I'm on the spectrum and don't give a shit if they judge. fuck those bigoted ableist roasties they can kiss my arse.
>>34322538You can be one face to all of them.
>>34308685This. OP is basically just asking>how could they tell I'm incredibly awkward when all I did is act incredibly awkwardfollowed up by a lot of coping from the usual suspects about how it's really "le normies" who are the problem.
>>34327108this nigga made a thread asking how to make friends less than a week ago.
>>34308097That chart is missing immoral emotional (urban youths)
>>34326682Dude they aren't judging they have no fucking idea how to interact with you or understand you.
