Are there any tricks to lasting longer during sex that actually work
>>34309400Try thinking of 2 Girls 1 Cup while having sex
>>34309401but that just makes me bust quicker :(
>>34309400Yes, include foreplay and sensuality building up to it before the penetration. During penetration go slow as fuck, don't go too fast. And also repetition of sex until you get rid of performance anxiety. Performance anxiety leads to premature ejaculation too.Shortcut strats for short term results include:>Fap before sex, it delays your next ejaculation>Whisky dick, get a bit buzzed before sex to desensitize your dick>Think of random non sexual thoughts to distract yourself during penetration phase These work but should be avoided as depending on them never solved the route issue
Do a proper warm-up before playing the actual game.Set a routine and practice Kegel exercises consistently for a few weeks.Follow the classic principles of rest, proper nutrition, and regular exercise.Try different positions—don’t always be the one doing all the movement, since being on top requires more endurance, or do so if you're athletic afIf you're young, you may be able to continue even after finishing. Some people can climax three or four times, until it becomes more of a sensation than a full release; I'm speaking from experience.Experiment with different paces, angles, and positions. Build up your partner’s excitement before your own to help improve your stamina and durability.
>>34309477My dick goes limp if I but before sex
Breathe. Holy fuck remember to breathe, and when you feel like busting go back to breathing. Don't think top much about the sex thing, that makes you bust quicker.
>>34309400Just be quick, sex is boring anyways, just get yours.
I wish I knew. Only a few times I was in the zone and could just keep fucking without cumming but I dont know how to trigger it.
>what is sexual alchemyyes there are many. and many require physical and or mental training of at least man, ideally AND women
>>34309401I came.
>>34309400You can last longer just by having a compatible sexual partner that's not a pillow princess.
>>34310362Sex magick. It's all real. It's powerful.
mentally focus on your movement instead of letting your body go on autopilot
>>34309400Just think of the queen
Here me out bro.Just don't stick it in.Work your tongue on her nipples, smack her ass and play with clit. Hell, get a manicure and let your fingers work some magic.But if you can’t control your nut or can't last, don't put it in till she's begging.Bonus tips: Look into numbing cream and special condoms.
>>34309425just fuck through it
It’s OP again, I have a separate question but I don’t feel like making a new thread. In the new future I’m going to fuck a girl who’s so insanely hot and the thought of disappointing her in bed is haunting. Thats why I made this thread in the first place. It’s a miracle that a retarded sperg like me landed this chick and I don’t want to ruin it. Problem is though I don’t want to use a condom when I do it because I can’t reach a full erection with one on. I’ve gotten better at it over the years but I already know that condom + performance anxiety is going to royally fuck me over when the time comes. I really want to fuck her raw. She’s on BC (not sure what kind) so it’s not completely unfounded but obviously the risk of unwanted pregnancy is still there. Anyway if I do decide to go down this route what can I do to minimize the risk as much as possible? Or can I get off scott free just by pulling out? Sex havers help me out
>>34311584Pulling out works but you need to be careful. She MIGHT be on BC. You never truly know. You might get in there and it's feeling too damn good. Keep some tissues next to you and bust into those. Make it a game of catch if you want.If she's down for it finish in her mouth on her chest.Just make sure to make it clear you don't want to bust in her.Besides that, have fun tearing that ass up OP.
>>34309400>Are there any tricks to lasting longer during sex that actually workSSRIs.
>>34309400Suboxone made me last longer. Alcohol maybe. Opiates can do the trick also but too much opiates will make you soft.
>>34309400Think about hairy butthole tentacles made of butt hair.
>>34309400>Are there any tricks to lasting longer during sex that actually workYes. I can last for however long I want, go as fast or as slow as I want, and orgasm whenever I want for as long as I want. I experience the full spectrum of pleasure without ever having to desensitize myself in any way shape or form.The key is you have to actually use your pelvic floor muscles. You react to what your body is doing because your body is reacting to what your mind is doing. Never ever let it be the other way around.Desensitization is the road to failure. Balance and precision is the way to success. Good luck.
>>34311198Holy shit, she was a hot young thing, wasn't she... I have a boner...
>>34309400here you go:1-buy condoms with anesthetic gel. they're easy to find. in every condom shelf there are regular condoms, sensitive ones and a third type called either long lasting gel, or anesthetic or longer performance or something. when you put them on don't go in immediatly. do some foreplay and take your time for 2-3 minutes. it will make the gel take effect.2-be on the bottom and take the girl on top of you. this way you don't have to move much and you can last longer. definitely do this in the first round. because second or third round you can already last longer so you can do other positions then. at least in my case works.3- it seems here >>34311584 you've some performance anxiety. honestly sometimes you'll just bust instantly but if you have the confidence to just laugh it out and be chill about it, it will be okay. it's about the way you react to your own body. dont go in raw defiinitely not worth the risk. you don't wanna get any kind of std. these hoes are fucking nasty especially ones that are on bc4- working out regularly honestly makes sex much easier and better
>>34309400>that actually workBy which I take it you've tried nothing, you've never had sex and you are theory crafting some imaginary scenario.
>>34313705I'll add : practice alone before hand. While masturbating, figure out when you are close to orgasm. Mentally push the orgasm back while continuing or diminishing stimulation.And everyone's first time is shit. In fact, everyone's first few times are shit. Don't worry about it. Be upfront about it with your partner. Laugh about it with your partner.
>>34309400Yeah, a big part of the "arousal experience" comes from odors. Try to obstruct your nose before fucking.
>>34313753Keep a nigga from nutting by fucking up his nose. Now, I've seen some real fucked up shit in my lifetime. But you, motherfucker, have really taken the cake with this one.
>>34309400what for?
>>34313824Um, I dunno, enjoying sex for longer than 30 seconds perhaps? Not experiencing the law of diminishing returns with dumbass cope like "round two" and shit?
>>34312370Eww
>>34309400Thicker Condoms.Numbing gels.Breath as deeply as possible. Holding your breath is going to make you bust faster, which is why people to auto-erotic asphyxiation or choking.Positions that won't directly stimulate your glans (for me doggy style does this and I try to avoid it).Or just focusing on making her climax long before you do anything that involves penetration.
>>34315856What if I can just cum without any stimulation?
>>34309400take a cialis or viagra and just fuck fuck fuck and then the next time you'll be able to do that without it because anxiety will be gone
>>34313096I’ve been doing exercises that target the pelvic floor muscles all week, like hip thrusts, hollow body holds, lunges, squats, and more. What do people mean when they say use your pelvic floor? Are you just supposed to tense up your asshole like you’re holding in shit?
just do math equations in your headcome up with stuff like 11x11 or something and try to solve it
>>34313584Yes. She was also a competent driver and mechanic.
>>34321063That's hot. My view of the queen has totally changed now.
>>34319366Oh shit I didn't even realize somebody replied to this.>I’ve been doing exercises that target the pelvic floor muscles all week, like hip thrusts, hollow body holds, lunges, squats, and more. The pelvic floor is a vast and complex set of muscles that does different things for different purposes. Unless you have a specific diagnosed condition of your pelvic floor, these exercises are completely useless. For the purposes of orgasm control that is.>What do people mean when they say use your pelvic floor? During sex, during the orgasm, you use your pelvic floor muscles, so you can control it.>Are you just supposed to tense up your asshole like you’re holding in shit?No that would be the wrong area of the pelvic floor. These are the muscles that you use to stop the flow of urine when you're peeing.The ones that contract when you are ejaculating.Before the ejaculation there is the orgasm. You have to recognize when the orgasm is beginning to happen, then you hold the orgasm in place while it is happening. As long as you hold the orgasm in place, the ejaculation will not happen.Think of it like stopping a speeding car to a stand still at a red light on an intersection. It doesn't matter how fast the car is going, 10 miles an hour, 60 miles an hour, 200 miles an hour, as long as you give the car enough distance to slam on the brakes in order for you to stop at the white line, you won't cross it and crash into another car.Precision. Balance. Strength.You have to satisfy the orgasm before it turns into an ejaculation. This is something you have to do many multiple times a minute. The more excited you are the more you have to do it because your body will be generating a lot of tiny little orgasms relative to your level of excitement. And they keep piling up into one giant monster with the goal of making you ejaculate. So the better you are at it, the faster you will be able to go, the more pleasure you will be able to experience.
>>34309400Weed numbs my shit a lot so i last longer but makes the orgasms 100x more intense. You do need the cardio for it though.
couple beers
>>34309400This might be a dumb question but couldn't you last longer in bed via putting your dick in her and not moving it while you gently rub her clit with your hand? Obviously I'm extremely inexperienced (hence why I'm in this thread) but wouldn't that work?What I mean is, you have sex, but then take a break and just stimulate the clitoral whilst your penis is deep inside her but unmoving (obviously this requires great self control)My apologies for being a brainlet but would this theoretically work for lasting longer?
>>34309400Stop jerking off