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>meet shitty narcissistic/borderline psychotic girl at uni
>she seems true to me, we can talk for real
>she has a boyfriend and a high bodycount which by default makes her a complete red flag
>fucking bitch slaps me once after I dared her to once she said "if you don't shut up I'll slap you" in a friendly banter
>cut off talking from her, avoiding conflict because I know it will lead to absolutely NOTHING if I have a moralfag talk with her, she will not apologize
>she missed me after a month of not talking and she's clinging onto me again
>loves to be put in her fucking place, when I call her a pet she digs it
I don't give a fuck if she flirts or I should fuck her. I want this bitch gone and I'd rather have things die out. I am aware she was spreading some shit on me such as "he tried to fuck me" which was a lie. I have no clue what to do any ideas?
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>>34310488
Coomer here. The sex is too good. It's worth it.
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>>34310488
>>she has a boyfriend
Stopped reading right here. Why are you wasting your time with this broad? Why you wasted my time by making this thread?
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>>34310499
this broad latches onto me and I have no interest in her, literally just a uni friend and nothing else
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>>34310488
Do you have so little problems and so little sex in your life that you want to turbo-boost both at the same time?
Jesus Christ just get out before shit spirals out of hand.
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>>34310503
This guy is right. Don't fuck up with crazy, you could end with your name on a sexual predator list.
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>>34310488
>Meet a pathological liar who deceives her boyfriend on the daily
>"She seems true to me"
Do you listen to yourself? Or read yourself? You should do that more OP.

>High body count
>Cheats
>Slaps you
>Keeps clinging after a month
>Already trying to make false allegations against you

>I want this bitch gone
Then start acting like it, fool. You say one thing but your actions say another. You want things to 'seem true' right? Be true to yourself then. The fuck. You say you want her gone but you tell a story where your actions say different. You tease her dare her to hit you, talk 'true' with her, you also participated in the flirting, you reciprocated, you also assisted in breaking the month long silence by allowing it and conversing with her.

>It will lead to NOTHING if I have a moralfag talk with her

I like how you call them moralfags as if they're inferior to you, yet apparently you'd run to one like a boy running to daddy to protect you. Apparently moralfags got bigger balls than you do. You're getting pushed around by a fucking female, man.

Where is your testicles? Tell her to fuck off, tell her to her face you do not like her, you are not attracted to her, you don't find her pretty, you don't find her compelling, you find her to be repugnant, and that you never want to speak to her again. Slam the fucking door on her. There's no point caring how she will react she is already taking your ass to the cleaners anyway she's already dragging your name. If she wants to paint your name black, so fucking be it. Show her what that truly looks like, bare your fucking fangs and put your foot down, hard. And for fuck sake do not call her your 'pet'. Call her for what she is, a social parasite.
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>>34310800
>>34310488
Also dude take heed of your choice of OP image lady Dimitriscu right? Psycho vampire bitch from Hell? Gooner bait evil bad bitch? It tells you that you have a liking for psycho cunts. So pick a side: Get rid of the emotional vampire bitch or don't. If you're smart, you'll stop letting your dick dictate your fate for this part of the journey. If you're an idiot, by all means, invite her into your life to destroy it. Just don't act surprised when she does
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>>34310800
>>34310816
What I meant by her "being true" was not her loyalty or whatever the fuck but that she would say what she had on her mind which was unusual for me as it's nearly impossible for a normoid to act this way, she wasn't one. I know that she has crocodile tears and is basically a devil reincarnate but her "trueness" is what made me kept talking to her, we both are weird outcasts and that's what made me feel like we could be """"true"""" to each other, again there are no feelings from my side at least because I know that she only brings bad things.

>you don't find her compelling, you find her to be repugnant, and that you never want to speak to her again. Slam the fucking door on her.
In my world that would be a perfect solution to all this but I approach this strategically or as might you see "lame", because I do give a fuck what she would say about me, I've been thinking about not talking to her again but I have to end this once and for all. We've already had a phase where we didn't talk to each other after the first incident but I fucking reached out to her (yes I'm retarded).

I deserve all this and I need to find a perfect solution.
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>>34312155
also, me reaching out to her was after first incident, after second I stopped talking to her and she reached out to me. for clarification
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>>34312155
>I know that she has crocodile tears and is basically a devil reincarnate but her "trueness" is what made me kept talking to her, we both are weird outcasts and that's what made me feel like we could be """"true"""" to each other, again there are no feelings from my side at least because I know that she only brings bad things.

I know, that's how she got her claws into you. They always bond over trauma with their marks, they always share the blues and make you feel connected and that you're so special and that maybe there's some karmic soul mate shit going on. They always, always love to prey on what you mentioned
>Outcasts

They know that you are one. They know that you are desperate to find someone like yourself. They know that they appear as an outcast too. But what they never reveal is they are not outcasts. They're cast-outs.

The outcast is the autist, the sperg, the snazzy adhd kid, the depressed kid the anxious kid the ocd kid. The little train that couldn't and got left behind.

The cast-out is the borderline, the narcissist, the antisocial, the psycho. The freight train that ruins everything and got socially exiled for it. And they notice your oblivious ass thinks only in naive desperate daydreams and they know you can't see them coming and the play on it.

>In my world that would be a perfect solution to all this but I approach this strategically or as might you see "lame", because I do give a fuck what she would say about me
That's what made you easy to fuck with. You will notice the more you refuse to push back, the more worse it gets. She is confident in messing with you because she knows she gets away with it.

The perfect solution is to verbally dress her down, tell her to fuck off and that she is crazy and that she needs to stay the fuck away from you. Do this publicly even. That way if she ever keeps harassing you, everyone knows what she is. If you try this 'strategically' you just give her a cover of ignorance to hide in
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>>34312185
Down from the first advice you've given me, even the shaming part I really appreciate this because you're saying what actually matters.

I just don't really know how to properly approach this, should I just come up to her and tell her "I don't want anything to do with you anymore". I hate causing scenes, I could maybe have someone next to me and tell her that she's crazy as well. I have no fucking clue how to play this out right. Not that it should matter because it's going to be over soon anyway.

Somehow I've been in near physical confrontations with people 10-30 years older than me and I didn't have fear as big as this one.
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>>34312197
>Down from the first advice you've given me, even the shaming part I really appreciate this because you're saying what actually matters.
That's the spirit. And I only shame the dynamic that's happening. As for you as an actual person, there's no fault in you. The reason you refrain from pushing back is because you're the type of guy who actually cares not to hurt other people if it can be helped. The shameful dynamic is this cunt is the opposite. She deliberates in hurting people, because it makes her feel something. That's the difference between you. You know the saying: "Opposites attract" right? Well the old wisdom is true, that's how it works. And there's times in a young man's life where he is going to confront the wrong type of opposite. He won't find the complimentary opposite other half, he finds total opposition, and enemy. And she is the enemy.

>Somehow I've been in near physical confrontations with people 10-30 years older than me and I didn't have fear as big as this one.
It's because she's a woman. Confronting men is physically brutal but emotionally it's easy. You can heal from a broken jaw or a fractured wrist, teeth knocked out? Dentist patches you up. Men are brutal sons of bitches when we butt heads, but we at least know well enough to leave each others hearts the fuck alone.

Crazy women don't. In fact crazy women target that immediately and though they can't hurt you physically that easily, they can do what they feel is the next best thing: Break your fucking spirit. And women know how to do this like experts, especially the toxic cunt psycho women, they learned how to do it since kids. It's like grabbing a cold drink for them.

It's probably why you didn't feel so compelled to push back or flee from her. You didn't see immediate danger, physically. But you're in mental danger, big time.

How you approach is don't approach, period. The only time if you must approach is to say "Fuck off."



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