A girl asked me for a spare hair tie during practice and I lent out a scrunchie I was wearing on my wrist and that was 2 days ago. We had practice again today but she didn't give the scrunchie back. Do I ask her for it or what am I exactly supposed to do here? Chatgpt said I should ask her for it
>>34318178how much do you care about the scrunchie? if it's your favorite one or like you don't have very many then just ask for it back when you ask for a back they'll probably not have it on them, so dont be too pushy or demanding and try to be patient.
If she's like me the scrunchie is at the bottom of her bag at home. I'd let her keep it. I can ask her for a small favor later.
>>34318331I think I paid 10 bucks for a pack of 12>>34318363I guess I should let that scrunchy go
>>34318420yeah just let it be. more harm than its worth to worry about it.
>>34318178>Chatgpt said-Nigga really
>>34318420>I think I paid 10 bucks for a pack of 12so its nothing, then?but i really like that you contemplate this really small detail, op. i too remember people for their mistakes, lies and anything inbetween. i too never forget and never forgive. so i respect you. but like others said, its probably not worth it to demand it back.>>34318656i think it is some fundamental principle here. its about the fact, the principle. not how much its worth or something. but the fact that it was a loan, out of ops good will and that she has not returned it to her.depends where you at, in europe for example, legally there is nothing you can do. it is hers now.
>>34324606>but the fact that it was a loan, out of ops good will and that she has not returned it to her.was it a loan? depends on interpretation and pount of view. if the girl really thought it was a loan she would find more urgency to return it. the principle at hand is not "i lent it, it should be returned" but rather "perhaps its best not to hold onto things which are not dear"
>>34318420>I think I paid 10 bucks for a pack of 12then unless you're so poor you're literally foraging in bins for food, I'd let it slide
Omg you fucking incel you people can't do anything. Did you really have to ask chatgpt for a yes or no answer? You are a disgrace, do us a favor and go kill yourself right now. You are so dumb oh my fucking god. Your first reaction was chatgpt THEN other people? I'd say ask your friends but you probably don't have any. Fucking imbecile go die. Yes. Go fucking ask her omg.
>>34326579>was it a loan?uh yes? op said so, she said>A girl asked me for a spare hair tie during practice and I lent out a scrunchie>I lent outi see such small things as a character test and she failed by not returning the even if small and minuscule thing
1st world problems..baka
>>34327772perhaps i spelled it wrong but i did say it depends on point of view. perhaps she sees it as a small token, and thus unnecessary to return. the amount of anons who say OP should just get over it is non trivial.
>>34318178A light prompt would be good, at least to let her know that you think of it. She might be scheming and planning to abuse your passiveness. beware.
>>34327910I don't think people who have money worry about missing hair ties
would you rather, her keep it?
>>34318178Either. 1. Use it as a test. If she is unreliable in little things she will be unreliable in big things. So you spent a little to save a lot of future headache.2. Use it as a favor. Ask her for something in the future.
