From slim and curvy and always looking her best to extremely overweight and messy buns that haven't been washed in like 3 weeks I feel like I've pretty much lost all attraction to my wife. Like in the beginning she did like to eat a lot and had some lazy days but she had an overall balanced lifestyle. Then gradually though she began to eat more and exercise less, stay inside instead of going on walks with me, fart and burp loudly all the time even when trying to cuddle and have sex, always shit with the door open, and the list goes on. At first I thought depression could be the issue but she's apparently very happy this way and even brags about it. Even making posts on social media saying shit like "being married is when you can truly give up and let yourself go and be happy." I tried paying for her therapy but she refused to go. I tried cooking her healthier meals but all she wanted to eat was fried chicken and ice cream. We're both in our mid to late 30s so not that old and I'm in much better shape than her and people always say I look great for my age. I always put effort into my appearance, you won't ever catch with in uncombed hair or in shit like cargo shorts. I exercise and eat healthy constantly. And then there she is always in dirty pajamas and eating nothing but junk. And I have brought all this stuff up to her but she just brushes it off saying that "this is her true self she's been waiting to reveal all her life and if I don't like it then I don't deserve her and that all her closest friends are just like her."Meanwhile there's this nice younger woman at work (late 20s) who looks very similar to my wife when she was pretty and didn't let herself go, she's slim and curvy, her hair is always on point, always smells fantastic, looks amazing in her suits and skirts, is affectionate, good at making conversation, etc...and then I have to come home to my fat wife who now weighs more than me despite being way shorter,
>>34319946 rarely showers or washes her hair, never listens to what I say, always shits with the door open and calls me over to look at how big her shits are, etc. And it's like I can't take it anymore...I love my wife but I absolutely hate the person she's become and would never become her husband if this was who she was before being married. I'm so tempted to go for this younger woman. She's kind and pretty and always takes what I say seriously rather than turning everything into a joke.I don't know what to do because I love my wife but hate the person she's become, I don't wanna erase all the good memories I've had with her before she became this way as we've been through a lot together but she's so insufferable now, and I'm finding myself loving this younger woman more than my wife but I don't want to become a cheater. Just...help me. Please. I'm desperate.
So dump her. Dont cheat. Just end it.
>>34319946Cheat on her. Find something better then dump her.
You can fix her
As long as you don’t have kids, dump her.
>>34320041with electric shocks.
I know this is probably what you don't wanna hear but you're gonna have to dump her like others in this thread are saying. You tried voicing your thoughts to her and she ignored you meaning she ultimately doesn't give a shit about you or what you think. I'd say shoot your shot with this hot younger women you mentioned but look for subtle signs to see if you can see this woman becoming like your wife in the future and trust your gut instinct.
>>34319950Go for the younger woman. See if you hit it off. Your wife doesn't respect your marriage, so neither should you.
>>34319946>I tried paying for her therapy but she refused to go.You tried to help her and she refused, i don't think there's much that you can do. Try to be more persistent during the next couple weeks and if she continues to do her thing then... I think it's time to look for a new partner.
>>34319946>Meanwhile there's this nice younger woman at work (late 20s) who looks very similar to my wife when she was pretty and didn't let herself go, she's slim and curvy, her hair is always on point, always smells fantastic, looksYou already know what you have to do. Divorce the wife and try with the young one. Being single is better than being with that fat cunt.
>>34319946YIKESthere's a difference between farting in front of each other type of comfortableand between we're married so i'm not even gonna try to be attractive anymore and just gonna let myself go completely type of comfortableunfortunately your wife fell into the second one so i think you already know what you should do
>>34319946holy shit this perfectly describes my dad and my mom. it was actually the reason for their divorce. these days my dad looks great for his age meanwhile my mom looks like she could be my grandma and has pretty much endless health issues. i don't think she'll survive much longer
>>34319946>my fat wife who now weighs more than me despite being way shorter,Goddamn how much does she weigh exactly? For a woman to weigh more than a man who's way taller than her she must be really really REALLY fat.>From slim and curvyHow the hell did she go from THAT to weighing more than you? And how the hell didn't you notice before? Did you not notice her gradually getting fatter before reaching this point? I don't know bro this shit ain't addin' up. Like are you really that oblivious? Like how in the actual fuck did you not notice? Even gaining as little as 10 pounds can be noticeable and you didn't notice till she became fatter than you?I don't know man either you're exaggerating how much she gained or this is a completely fake story.
>>34320409>Like are you really that oblivious? >I don't know man either you're exaggerating how much she gained or this is a completely fake story.i would bet that this is a fake story but then again i have met people in real life who are really this stupid. people who although they can function in normal daily life seem to be borderline mentally retarded to the point that there could be a literal gun robbery and they wouldn't even notice and say that everything's fine and normalso overall even if i do think it's a fake story i wouldn't be too surprised if it turned out to be real either
Yeah bro just dump her. Trust me, it's not worth it. You're only in your 30s do you really wanna live the whole rest of your life with someone you clearly find unattractive?
>>34319946>fart and burp loudly all the time even when trying to cuddle and have sex, always shit with the door open, and the list goes on.Fuckkkk. That's hot. Divorce her and send her my way OP.
>>34319946Go to your Imam and say "divorce divorce divorce"Allah will take care of the rest.
>>34321913Easier, you don't even have to go to the imam. Just say divorce three times to her face and she is no longer your wife kek.
This is why you don't get married - women get too comfortable, they know that you are locked into a relationship with them for life.Gotta keep women on their toes. She should always be thinking - oh shit, he might leave me for a younger, fitter girl.
>>34319946This shit is exactly why I only stick to one night stands. Young and hot forever since you only see them once. They don't have time to get old and fat. Win win.
>>34321991yeah. marriage is honestly overrated. kids even more so. imagine raising a child for 20 something years only for them to end up a psychopath or a lazy bum. even worse if you've raised several kids and they all turn out this way
