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How did going through meeting someone, dating them, loving them enough to get married, having a family life and then losing it all change you as a person?
How did you cope after the fact or move on?
Did you ever date again or try to? How did your prior experience change your perspective on and reaction to things the opposite sex does?
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Cheaper to keep her.
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>>34321334
>How did going through meeting someone, dating them, loving them enough to get married, having a family life and then losing it all change you as a person?

I can't trust anyone anymore 100%. In fact it is hard for me to even want to socialize anymore. I enjoy my peace now. I dwell on that pain and it is not easy to forget what happened

>How did you cope after the fact or move on?
I still have the scars. I tried to focus on myself and do the things I enjoy. You can try to let go but you'll be reminded daily of the pain you suffered. It's very hard to overcome the person you trusted most backstabbing you. No matter how hard you tried to appease them and were a good person, their mental illness ruined the relationship

>Did you ever date again or try to? How did your prior experience change your perspective on and reaction to things the opposite sex does?

I've tried to date, I know what I'm looking for now. I don't tolerate bullshit. Not afraid to let girls go quickly. I think I'm just gonna stay single at this point. Just easier to hit it and quit it. If the right person comes into my life and is available, I'll consider it, but I'm not going to go out of my way anymore. I'm a Chad and have everything a woman would want so I get to be picky



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