Should I just go to a prostitute?I am a 31 year old virgin. I have always felt that buying my first time would be the most pathetic thing I could do and be me admitting to myself that it can never happen any other way.I want to believe that I am not inherently unlovable and that I can someday convince a woman to not be physically repulsed by me.But I also really want to have sex.
>>34323175Same boat.Going to Thailand this week just for that. Thinking of getting a high class russian escort.
>>34323175In Japan even if you got a hooker they would call you an "amateur virgin"
>>34323181What the fuck does that even mean? Do Japanese prostitutes have different kinds of holes from non-prostitutes?
>>34323175Why is this every post on the board? Who cares? Why is this something you need advice on? If you want to do it then do it.
>>34323191Because the vast majority of people will look down on you if you ever admitted you lost your first time to a whore and having to keep that secret for the rest of your life could take a big emotional toll on your mental health. I think that’s worth asking for advice on.
>>34323196>Because the vast majority of people will look down on you if you ever admitted you lost your first time to a whorewho cares? I don't even remember my first time
>>34323196Okay but you don’t need advice. You’re aware of the consequences. Make the decision. You just want us to justify it to you.
>>34323202I’m not OP pal, I’m just pointing out that most people like to get other’s advice before making a choice that could fuck up the rest of their life.
>>34323200That’s insanely sad.
>>34323177Why would you got to one country to look for a woman of a different nationality of that country?
>>34323219Ok anon next time don’t respond to a question that isn’t directed to you as if it is.
>>34323232You replied to my post, fuck face
>>34323236I replied to the OP and you inserted yourself into the conversation mate
>>34323175Just do it, it's a non-issue. You'll realize it's not as big a deal as you or anyone else on this site has made it out to be for the last 15 years. Oh but what if someone finds out? They won't, and nobody cares. And if they do care you should slap them down with a dose of reality because it's a big nothing. I did it, twice. Afterwards you'll think, oh was that it? Literally less meaningful event than getting a flat tyre. It won't change your life, it won't change your outlook, you'll forget about it in 12 months time. Just make sure you pay for an hour so you can play 2 rounds.
>>34323231Because it's more common to find that kind of woman in that country, some countries have laws against prostitution.Dubai is one of those places filled with ukrainian hotties, it's getting bombed right now and prostitution is illegal so you take risks. Europe is full of colombians and venezuelans rather than slav girls. Russia is a hostile country, you can't just go there. Girls escaping shitholes wouldn't go to other shitholes for a better life, I don't know if Thailand is a good place for finding slav girls for that matter, maybe germany.
>>34323291Brothels in Germany have mainly Romanian girls these days.
>>34323200do you go through life like a video game? you don't give a fuck about anything lmao
>>34323175I'm sorry, anon, but if you're a virgin at 31, you are never going to lose your virginity any way other than by hiring a hooker. I'm not saying you *should* hire one - that's up to you! - but you are definitely never going to have sex any other way.