I'm drawn to women only because of their attractiveness. I have nothing to offer them. I wish to be what they need but I am not, I'm just an underachieving loser trying to set a path in life despite losing all interest in the long run.So far nobody tells me how to become what they need. All advice I get is to do trial and error. This leaves me more lost and more frustrated. I don't know where to start.
>>34324203Eh, same. Turned 35 this year and have given up hope of ever breaking out of my reclusive behavior and meeting somebody. Just an inferior specimen who's been filtered out.
>>34324203You can be a nice guy, a good listener, a sensitive lover, a reliable support, a fun guy or any combination
>>34324203https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6mmV5yrIsio
>>34324213We're not the same. I'm still trying. I have 2 days of depression ever 2 weeks, mostly after trying to be good at one thing I failed before and failing again.Really the problem always seems to be that there's never help. Maybe nobody wants to look above their standing so nobody left anything written about how to do things that to others come naturally.What do women even want? I can't become tall, I can't become younger. I can be tolerant but I don't know the way to become passionate about things I don't care about anymore. Getting money will take a long time and I will lose the chance to be social at a young age. Being social will not give me funding and it really isn't taught anywhere. I can't tackle this conundrum alone.
>>34324230Of course. What if humor doesn't come natural to you?
>>34324220Modern women dont need that.
>>34324231Don't kid yourself, you're on the same path as that anon above lmaoIf you haven't got it by the time you finish school then you won't have it, end of story.
attraction to women is a primitive instinct, not all men are destined to pursue this. happiness can be found elsewhere
>>34324203>how to become what they needTHEY NEED MONEY/thread
>>34324203>All advice I get isBE A MANhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7nqcgUDoV_M
>>34325051My brother has money and chicks would rather fuck a guy who has not suffered.
>>34325108>chicks would rather when did a woman's opinion enter the discussion?
>>34324203What they need is the same as what a customer needs from a salesman. You lead her through an experience that suspends disbelief. Then at the end is sex. Congratulations, you have proven yourself to be reproductively viable and will be treated like a stud and not a genetic failure.
>>34325230So being dishonest is a key? Got it
>>34324203>I'm drawn to women only because of their attractiveness. I have nothing to offer them. I wish to be what they need but I am notMake up your mind
>>34324203You need to be what they need to attract them, not become what they need once you have them. That mentality is setting you up to fail. Growing together in a relationship is incredibly rewarding, but you need to grow as a person to find someone to have a relationship with before all that.
>>34326947What do they need and how do I become it, that's what I was asking in OP.>funnyHow do I become funny. Anyone?
>>34324203>I'm drawn to women only because of their attractiveness.This is called "being shallow." You have nothing to offer beyond some comforting arms and a penis. You better have a nice penis and be good at using it.
>>34329070Ok. Then let a fatty fall in love with me, have her deal with my psychological bullshit. I will give her shit all day because her own self esteem won't let her see better.Being shallow is great. At least It allows me to fall in love genuinely and aim to work myself for someone. I wouldn't want anyone to get one sided infatuation from someone like me.
>>34329103Actually, this reminds me a few ugly girls did show interest in me, I didn't want them because they looked ugly. Imagine if I had dated them. How miserable they would have been. I hope they're doing better now. I wish I could hug again one of those.
>>34329023Every woman is different so there's no exact play-by-play for you to follow. Generally speaking being kind, compassionate, honest, and working hard to make an honest living is a fantastic start.As far as learning to be funny, IDK how to help you there. It came to me naturally but I also grew up around funny people or watching funny media so I kind of absorbed that comedic timing.
>>34329216>Generally speaking being kind, compassionate, honest, and working hard to make an honest living is a fantastic start.did all that, didn't help
>>34324203>>34324213>>34324231No woman will ever love you anons, 90% of women out there do not love their man, they don't know how to love anyway; they only tolerate him as long as he provides.Learn to be stoic and get by without their fake and subpar love therefore about 90% of women should be invisible to you. Rise up above your biological programming.Take care of your health anons and find distractions to help pass the time, that's all most people do anyway, the difference is they do it with somebody so time spent together flows differently. It's merely an illusion though
>>34325110Four bucks for sauce. wtf.>>34324203Be yourself .
>>34324240>modern womenWomen are the same as they've always been. You have a low IQ.
>>34329280Based on the way you interact with people here I have a strong suspicion it was performative, not genuine. You can't just be a good man for show, it's gotta be the real deal.
>>34330054You can't be a good man at all, nothing is perfect, yes at one point you have to perform. What is even being a good man about? Listening when they don't talk? Being interested when your mind is full of other pursuits? Being kind when there's no situation to show it? Receive injustice and let it all slide?
>>34324213How do you get serotonin?
>>34324203just bee urselfwomen love it when men are attracted to themhave you tried communicating that you are attracted to them?
It's not directly taught enough, but the only valuable skill you can have as a human being is from learning social skillsLiterally everything else is secondaryYou can be the strongest, smartest person in the world, but if you can't communicate for yourself you are just a rotting corpse compared to an complete cripple who can just speak wellThat is why you know the names of more actors than you do family members
>>34324203You should be concerned more with what other people can do for you, than what you can do for themIf you're unpleasant to be around, even the people you're closest to will feed you bullshit to sabotage you because it's funny and worth more to them than helping you
