> 21 years old> high GPA DJ frat boy athlete premed college student> pretty athletic, 5'8 but sharp jawline, good hair and abs> rich parents, expensive apartment, gas guzzling M beemer> only have had a string of hookups, currently in a situationship with a girl from my town 1.5 hrs away whos cute but who hates relationships based on what she has seen with friends (visits my college town once per month to see them) (virgin before i met her)> no major problems with girls, but i have crushes on very specific ones > only interested in being in relationships with girls i have a crush one> am unable to convert these crushes into relationships> why?????all of my friends are finding people to lock it down with people they like. it's not like i have a dearth of status, friends, or wealth? i'm already almost done with my junior year. i have gone my entire life and not been in a single relationship.
You are uglyThere's no fixing ugly, it's in the geneNo amount of overcompensating can fix the geneBut anyway maybe stop having oneitis for shitty mid bitches who are probably not special or outstanding in any way shape or form? Like the retard simp shrimp that you are, pathetic
>>34325429ok but i want a relationship. no good advice given here other than saying i'm ugly, even though i've been able to have a good amount of hookups
>>34325334Fear of commitment and what you want, I don't trust women because they've proven most can't be. However I want to be married and have kids more than I fear divorce rape / getting cheated on and I know I can bounce back from most anything. Also i'm the same height and it's a weird shortish but not short spot where you'll always think about it to a certain extent and it fucks heavily w my confidence unless I'm in top notch shape.My advice, study women including your girl more and determine if she's a future wife based on intuition and common sense. Keep in mind women get more "independent" aka cunty after 24-25 so make a well studied decision. Next get in great shape and maintain it (check out Ben Greenfield) and you won't be so insecure. Finally, make a decision about what you fear more: going through the ringer with women, or ending up alone.Good Luck OP.
>>34325596>stop having oneitis for shitty mid bitches who are probably not special or outstanding in any way shape or formGet over your stupid media brainwashing
>>34325696see this is partly my issue as well. I told her when I first started seeing her that I wasn't looking for anything serious, which is what I felt at that time. she's asian and i'm indian, and i would like to date someone who's my race. the issue is that i go to a pwi and there aren't a huge amount of indians there.all the indians go to the other universities in the state, and i've tried long distance with people that my friends set me up with but it just doesnt end up working because i'm unable to visit often due to studies. The reason I'm so hesitant is that I've been burned so many times. she doesn't seem to care about me talking to other people but at the same time she literally doesn't talk to other dudes (good for me ig but still irks me)also i'm an athlete so my shape is good but i could cut down on the drinking on the weekends lol
wait you had sex with a woman and aren't married? what the fuck are you doing.
>>34325334Mormon girls are desperate to wed asap. Go to lds church. They're basic but high median in most aspects, reliable. And most importantly of all, eager to please and will mold to your liking.Just avoid the disney ones.
>>34325334Marry yourself. You're obviously madly in love with you.
>>34327382awesome advice! will be going to the town hall soon and getting a marriage certificate with my right hand!
