>cute cashier working at local store>always happy when I see her>the other day she told me I smelled good>instantly put me in a really good mood for the rest of the dayWas she being flirty or just being nice? I have a huge crush on her honestly but I have no idea how to approach girls romantically and don't want to embarrass myself if I got the wrong idea.
>>34326238Women have much lower barriers for initiating "intimate" interaction than men do. It's a 99% chance she was being friendly.Also this is only in my experience, but the longer you maintain a casual friendly relationship with a woman the lower your chances are of actually starting something with her. All the girlfriends I've ever had were girls that either immediately hit it off with me or had access to view some of my best moments and could fall for me. I've never been able to pull a girl I have a crush on, and to be honest I think most guys can't. Yearning is a beta simp thing anyway, as a man you should be looking to conquer any new fertile ground you find.
>>34326238Stop and chat with her next time.
>>34326238Start going there multiple times a day (at different times) to map out her work schedule.
>>34326238>don't want to embarrass myself if I got the wrong idea.Keep being an incel and fantasizing about a life together then.
>>34326238She is at workShe is being niceDo not freak her out and make her less nice to everyone else
>>34326474Aka “start acting like a stalker”
>>34326835Idk where OP lives but where im from cashiers would never give random compliments except to old ladies.
>>34326827You're right, I gotta grow balls at some point. I'm just not good at this at all.>>34326430I asked her how her day was and we chatted for a bit. Gonna ask for her name next time.>>34327236Yea my friend told me that's not a normal compliment from a cashier but I wanted unbiased opinions
>>34326238Just ask her if she wants to go for a cup of coffee sometime
>>34327302>I wanted unbiased opinionsanon, 4chan is not unbiased. it's full of bitter socially retarded fuckst.bitter, socially retarded fuck
>>34326238Have those light chats again. And try not having the crush. That's gay and might sabotage you.
>>34327236So guys took it the wrong way and they stopped saying anything nice to them, got it With women almost every time a compliment about something is just what it is, not something deeper.
>>34327517I'll try but im definitely into her. Maybe it is gay to yearn.>>34328290I need a girl's opinion on this
>>34326353you have to admit, "you smell good" is highly suspicious for being more than just an employee being nice because its her job. I mean that's bordering on weird itself.
>>34326238man i have this same kind of experience with the nice girl who works behind the counter at the post office. she usually has resting bitch face but whenever i come into the post office she immediately lights up and smiles. she even knows and greets me by name! i dont even have to say why i am there, she will automatically go into the back and find whatever parcel i was hoping topick up. shes so thoughtful and nice and beautiful.... sigh
>>34326238>Was she being flirty or just being nice?Just being nice.
>>34328472That is a woman’s opinion on it
>>34329492I'll just keep acting normal then
>>34326238>don't want to embarrass myselfget over it and flirt back, faggotif it goes well try to get a simple date or some contact info and then a dateoverthinking and doing nothing will get you nothingmoreover you should make an effort to meet more women you like if you're too focused on her without knowing if she even likes you back
