I got married a few days ago, still reveling in the glow. We've been together for almost a decade before we tied the knot, loved eachother through our highest and lowest points, and we built our life together from scratch. What are some things I can do to be an even better husband than I was a boyfriend/fiance?
>>34326936Nothing will ever make her happy.
>>34326936I doubt any of that happened. Do you really want advice from a bunch of incels who would cum to the memory of a whiff they had of a girls pussy?Speaking as someone who cums to a very old memory of a girls pussy smell
Nona here, you can replace the trash bag whenever you take out the trash. Also, I to very difficult to give advice without knowing you two personally. The only universal advice I can give is to always respect her, lead her, and never stop having sex.
>>34326936The single biggest mistake anyone makes is assuming the courtship is over and you can relax now that you've got her. You have to keep wooing her forever.
>>34326936are you a Christian? if not your marriage is doomed
Make sure your wife can reliably and truly relax without having to correct anything afterwards. Be able to step in for her when she needs it. Which honestly won't be that often, women thrive in their nests.https://english.emmaclit.com/2022/09/01/where-does-it-go/
>>34326936listen, communicate, don't be a pussy
>>34327310I question how anyone can make this last. Surely, she gets bored of your old tricks and you have to keep coming up with new ones. Don't you run out eventually?
>>34327500Consistent (but not routine) dates. Having actual fun together and indulging in silly romantic acts every now and then, without being ironic. Doesn't take "new material" to be refreshing
>>34327327Lol. Christians are weaklings. Christian men are especially easy to take advantage of.>>34326936Hopefully it stays the same as it was. If it doesn't, yes might be fucked.
>>34326936>What are some things I can do to be an even better husband than I was a boyfriend/fiance?First off congratulations man, I enjoy seeing other married anons on here. Well done for taking the vow and I wish you all the best.As for being a better husband and stuff, don't worry too much about that. I used to worry about that stuff a lot and it only added internal stress, made what should be a place of comfort and fun and relaxation feel like something dull and a chore. There's a time and a place to take shit seriously in a marriage, and a time to cut loose and relax and enjoy each other. The trick is to know when those moments are. And you will get the hang of it as you go along. Take the marriage seriously yeah but don't worry if you make a few fuck ups. The key is to make sure you and wife always always always find resolution to the argument or issue when it happens. That way you survive anything together. So my advice is:Never go to bed in angerAlways find a solution after an argument or problemMake sure you still date her. That means don't cohabitate for months on end, try and aim for a date somewhere at least once a week or fortnight.Admit your feelings when you have them, if you feel stress admit it. If it's fear, admit it. If it's love, admit it. Become leader, head-of-the-house hold. Good leaders serve their follower(s). Shit ones dictate them. Begin practicing being a shot caller, particularly for big life problems, there will be times when wife is scared and indecisive. That's your role to take the reigns and push forward. The more you do this the deeper the love grows as wife feels safer and safer and cared for. Oh and lastly: Never sleep on the sofa. If wife ever gets mad and demands you go on the couch: put the foot down, say no and tell her you sleep with her at all times. If she protests and goes to the sofa herself, go in there and playfully carry her back to bed. Thank me later for what happens next OP.
>>34327522you're a fag. post net worth and relationship status or stfu
>>34327500Quiet your soul, and in the meditative stillness ask yourself: What do you want to do to her butt and boobies?
>>34327500It just means to remain an interesting person, surprise her with something cool occasionally and to keep things fresh in bed and without.No clue why it needs to be worded in the faggiest way possible though. What the fuck is "courtship" lmaoI only know "courting" as a very specific short of msintrel show from the High Middle ages, where the bard makes a play of ritualistically pretending to simp for a queen or princess
>>34327541What happens next? Are you speaking from experience?
Have the same goal. Align yourself and her towards a common project unique to your family. Like agreeing that we both want our kid to grow up healthy and charismatic. >>34327522>Christian men are especially easy to take advantage ofCorrect. They'll bend over backwards and cry while traumadumping. Years of singing about how they're sinful and need something external to feel like a good person hollows them. Are their women similar?>>34327634Barking because you can't bite
>>34327740>What happens next?You have a good night of make-up sex is what happens lol.>>34327749>They'll bend over backwards and cry while traumadumping.Not all Christians are as sheep, brother. Some of us are wolves, some of us serpents, some as bold as lions.
>>34327749don't see proof of net worth or relationship status yet>muh atheist superiority complexno one cares. if you're not married and capable of supporting a family your opinion is worth less than zero.
>>34327541great postone small correction thoughthere are times when I just want to sleep on the couch, and she wants me to come to bed. I will sleep on the mother fucking cough whenever I want, and you never give in on that. I spend my whole life grinding to buy a nice couch and TV, and you bet I'm going to fall asleep to a Babylon 5 marathon once in a while.
>>34327541This is exactly what I was looking for, thank you.We already have many years and many learnable moments under our belt so a lot of this applies, it's reaffirming to see we're already starting off on the right track thank you.>>34327310To be honest I can't see myself ever getting lazy with wooing her, the glimmer in her eye is the high I can't stop chasing.>>34327327I'm an atheist with a Christian background, but do want our kids to know the comfort of religion.>>34327749We've always been really well aligned with our goals, and where we differ we collaborate until we find a solution we both accept. Honestly that's a large part of how I knew she was the one.>>34328565Real shit, our couch is unreasonably comfy and we both fall victim to it after a long day.
>be an even better husbandshe should be my priority and i should be her priority, undivided (smartphone) attention, always always always. even before our children. she is my gift and i hers. i would like my gf/wife to let me caress, massage and worship and adore her body and vice versa at least once a month if not weekly. (im not talking about sex. sex everytime i or she feels like it)but that means that she should be attractive/her body should be attractive/fit. if that leads to sex, fine. but i really mean one or 2 or 3 hour fully body relaxing massages in a relaxing setting. where there is very soft music in the background, dimly lit room, lots of comfy towels, a nice aroma in the air and overall a nice atmosphere. where she lies down, blindfolded maybe, and i toy with her senses a little. i massage her body and try to ease all her pains and tensions and whisper how much i love her and how much she is loved and how much we deserve each other all the while.then i will show and explain her how to give a proper massage, so she can massage me too. triggerpoints, tensionpoints, chakra poitns ect ect ectpeople underestimate the power of human touch. instead, they just touch their shitty ass blackest of the night nightmarerectangles (smartphones) allday long
>>34330948>shitty ass blackest of the night nightmarerectanglesdude, its just a phone. jesus christ. hyperbole isn't going to make anyone's life better.
>>34328565>I spend my whole life grinding to buy a nice couch and TV, and you bet I'm going to fall asleep to a Babylon 5 marathon once in a while.Your marriage will crumble and dissolve because you binge watched Babylon 5 and not Deep Space 9
>>34330955no. you have no idea of what you speak of.it is the shiny black rock scrying crystal. the ancients used to communicate with spirits.the same they are worshipping in mecca. dirty ass pro fane bum. dont talk to meignoble "people" like you are our all downfall
>>34331082Please take your meds, you're scaring the huzz
>>34326936you should let her get gangbanged by a bunch of niggers because its what she really wants
