Is using condoms in a relationship normal? She keeps telling me to use one every time we sex but I keep comparing myself to her exes. What if they didn't have to use it? Why me? It feels so unfair. I just can't stop imagining other guys doing it with her and not using any condoms at all. It feels like I'm being cucked if I submit.
>>34327238Probably because she doesn't want you to impregnate her.
>>34327251Or maybe she has an STD she doesn't want OP knowing about. ouch.
>>34327251Does that mean I'm not the type that she wants >>34327253Could be.
Like she suddenly told me this after countless times of not using any condoms. It's so strange
>>34327257>Not the type that she wantsIf she's serious, she's gauging if a future together is viable and wants to wait til the resources are secured.>Could beBut if an STD is a genuinely plausible worry, just forget about her. If she was at least honest about it, it might've been worthwhile. Or if you're feeling the sunk cost fallcy you could work on trust and communication skills. You do seem young and green.
>>34327238Many married couples use condoms. She doesn't want to get pregnant and can't use the pill. Absolutely nothing sinister to it
>>34327269So you're saying I should worry about catching an std from her because she cheated, and now she's trying to change the topic to preventing being pregnant. I'm so scared now The truth is I don't trust her that much. I want to leave so badly but if I do so, Ill lose access to the sex, which I shamefully crave all the time
>>34327277Slow down, it might not be the case. But anon if she's got you this psyched out and anxious, leave. The sex isn't even certain, there are a variety of reasons it could stop. Dead bedrooms have many causes.Start with an open and calm discussion. Don't jump to speculations, begin with 'hey, are you worried about something? why the condoms?'if she gets defensive, be patient but prod gently. If she gets aggro, you have your answer.Honest wife with minor std >>> jerking off until next gf >>>>>>>>>>> lying bugged whore who emotionally abuses you (sex not guaranteed)
>>34327238>wants get pregnant a no virgin woman
>>34327238Maybe she's had abortions before and doesn't want another one
>>34327238>So I got a girlfriend and we had sex>I immediately decided to ruminate on other men's cocks and whether or not they had rubber on them Gay
>>34327238>Is using condoms in a relationship normal?only if you're having sex
>>34327277>I'm so scared nowzoomer detected, Just for one fuckin time in your life stop being scared of your own fucking shadow.
>>34327238Yes. It prevents unwanted pregnancies.
>>34327238>Is using condoms in a relationship normal?Yes. Birth control is normal during sexual intercourse
>>34327277>The truth is I don't trust her that much. I want to leave so badly but if I do so, Ill lose access to the sexWhat do you give a shit about her exes then? You're not making any sense.
>>34327267Did she go off birth control or something?
>>34327277Yes, accept your life as a sex-controlled cuck.
>>34327238You want a child or what dude??
>>34330268he is gay indeed
>>34327238>Is using condoms in a relationship normal?Speaking from experience it's normal in subpar relationships where the woman has you whipped. Pullout method works much better than advertised, I've never gotten a girl pregnant with it yet. If she can't/won't take hormonal birth control for some reason then there are non-hormonal implants like copper IUDs she can use. Point is, that there are plenty of options in this day and age that would let you raw dog, if she isn't letting you it's because she doesn't want YOU to hit it. Ultimately the point of a relationship is to get married and have children, so if you don't want to use rubbers and she doesn't want to use BC then chop chop. I M O if a girl is obsessive about using condoms then it's like >>34327251 says, it's a sign she doesn't really want to have your baby. A girl who was really into you wouldn't mind getting knocked up by you whether or not you have your future figured out. Finally don't listen to faggots like >>34330268>>34332668You are absolutely right to feel cheated out of something she gave freely to other guys, IF she did. But it sounds like you're just speculating on it so IDK.Here's the secret they don't want you to know about relationships BTW: if you're not happy, you can just leave.
