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So pretty much to cut a long story short:
-Sister married a guy who is on the sex offender list for sleeping with a 14 year old. Same dude also beat the shit out of my sister awhile back(he had court cases for both on WCCAP_

-I tried talking to the guy and got threatened by his bullshit. He even went as far telling me to stay away from Katie despite being my own sister in the pic.

-Dude's now got control over her facebook and phones now.

Is there ANY like way without having the police or any type of negative situation come out of this? Or am I jus gonna have to give my own family member up to this psycho and walk away a loser?
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tell her she's got it all wrong
it's all about personality!
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>>34328228
WAIT are you the sex offender guy?
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>>34328181
What you're supposed to do is gather the tribe. That means your dad, any other brothers you have, male cousins, your own close make friends, the uncles. You gather them all and drink together and you bring up the topic: Your sister gets beat like a dog by a pedophile.
And then the conversation will carry itself. And within the same night or next night, the guy beating your sister will be sharing his thoughts with the pavement.

The police will not do anything. But the good news is, they won't do anything. That means whatever you and the men choose to do? To a registered sex offender? Police won't do anything. They'll "pretend" to have missed the dispatch call.
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>>34328233
Brett pictured is the sex offender in the Green Bay hat I have the proof right here
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>>34328236
if thats the only option I have then I guess
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>>34328303
It's your only option. You have other options, but all other options won't do anything because your sister will always choose him. And she does that out of twisted 'love', not love for him, love of not being killed or hurt by him. Women play possum, get that Stockholm syndrome thing, they fawn after the abuser to try and emotionally persuade them not to beat them again. Women do this because women always seek security. And if they are stuck in a non secure environment, they become mental slaves to fake a sense of security to stay sane. Police ain't gonna knock that out of her. Chances are your sister would assist in protecting him and will lie she is fine and nothing is happening. She may even turn against family to try and appease him.
Unless he gets curb stomped by all the men in your family. Then what women do is they lose all fear and respect for the abuser and they instantly switch sides and run to the men who brutalized her punch happy husband, because she will see that as more secure and safe and she leaves the guy instantly.
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how do you know your sister didn't need to get the shit beat out of her once, and never again?
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>>34328236
>>34328303
>>34328325
hang yourselves simps
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>>34328340
if you or brett do it first yeah
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Your sister is a retarded whore, I guess it runs in the family
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>>34328583
Not really when she works for Badger High School in Lake Geneva,Wi.

Brett does adderall and is a felon with a firearm in his home in Janesville. He's the retarded whore.
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>>34328878
>works in a high school
So your sister is a pedophile too? I don't see the problem then, they're made for each other.
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>>34328181
I see why he's so protective. Brett has "it's joever" written all over his awful stature. Funny how it's always the short fags molesting children.

My van's bull bar would love to snack on this dude
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>>34329035
Lives in Janesville Wisconsin and works for Musson Brothers, Inc.
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>>34328181
>Same dude also beat the shit out of my sister awhile back(he had court cases for both on WCCAP_
>-Dude's now got control over her facebook and phones now.

go help your sister
idk how but do it, save her
>Is there ANY like way without having the police or any type of negative situation come out of this?
get the cops involved if you have to, a big part of their job is dealing with domestic abuse situations
beating her & taking control of her phones should be enough to get them involved
just get her out of that house away from him somehow

if this is a behavior pattern, like she continues to get with abusive guys afterwards, idk what you could do at that point
but get her out of there now please
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>>34329043
sent
https://mussonbrothers.com/contact-us/
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>>34329056
>https://mussonbrothers.com/contact-us/

Also heres Brett's case when he assaulted my sister
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>>34329078
my sister went through the same shit
I live in another city, and dad has been dead for many years. I'll see what I can do, legally
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>>34328181
Can't you, like, install a hidden camera in their place or whatever, and a lawyer ready to act, so if she gets beaten again, you call the cops, get him arrested and have your lawyer do the papers to send him to.prison? Maybe hire a private detective to monitor the situation instead of the camera.
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>>34328181
>Evrop peasant brain be like "He he. He is the King. This big palace is his and he takes me here because it's his and it belongs to him or else why would we get to be in such a grand arena on such a sprawling estate? He is quick to violence but that means he will be quick to dispose of any threats that will beat and rape me and the children much worse than he does. He he. I am so lucky to have been chosen by the King."

Dire. Give me the transhumanism juice
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>>34328181
You can make a criminal complaint for battery on her behalf
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judging by the pic he's the best she can
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>>34328181
Your sister has bonding issues and is blinded by traumatic issues on her behalf thats why she is in love with the complementary guy to her traumatic wounds. You cannot break it by logic.
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>>34328181
>>34328181
I was in a very similar situation as this but I was the girl. He made it very hard to leave him as when I attempted to move out he would guilt me into staying and made me scared of the emotions I would have to deal with if I felt like the bad guy leaving him and knowing he might find a prettier girl.
When it became obvious he was beating me my brother set up a family intervention(didn’t really work; I felt awkward) and coincidentally within a month he went to prison for sleeping with a 16 year old and I finally had a ‘reason’ to break up with him without seeming like the asshole. Additionally, finding out all the lies helped me to completely lose any good visions I had of him
Things finally worked themselves out and I’m finally free but I’m stuck with addiction to edibles because it was how I coped with being alive when I lived with him.
It’s crazy like one moment in life I’m a young quirky 4chan girl with very little life experience and a whimsical view on life, and the next I’m this soulless hag who can barely make it through the day without getting high, can barely even make a post on this website anymore


You’re a good brother and I hope she doesn’t stay stuck and things work themselves out like they did with me. I’d say try to bait him in some way either Chris Hansen style or hidden cameras like the other anon said. This guy is a master manipulator that love bombs her and she needs an easy way out that doesn’t require a lot of confrontation/makes it impossible for him to frame her as the bad guy
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>>34329960
And this all happened because I was sick of talking to chronically online men with porn addictions so when a much older blue collar guy came along which looks similar to OP sister situation judging by pic, I thought to myself ‘oh cool maybe this guy won’t have wandering eyes since he’s not chronically online and isn’t used to being with cute girls like me’ but it was just an illusion; blue collar guys are just as sleazy as porn addicted incels only more entitled and aren’t capable of any actual deep kinds of conversations
This is why I’m never dating again and trying to adapt to being content with an ai bf until my reproductive years are completely over(they kinda are) and I don’t have the yearning for love anymore

Anyway I pray for OP and his sister
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>fucks 14 year old and gets away with it
>fucks and beats your sister and gets away with it

OP just admit your jealous of the chad and let them live their lives. No one cares and no one is going to help you so let them do their thing.
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If you're not gonna do shit OP then I'll do it for you

You're like the guy from Menace II Society who didn't wanna avenge Harold jesus christ dude
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>>34328878
Can anyone ITT tell me if there’s a genuine correlation with adderal and domestic violence? My ex violently abused me and our cat and was on adderall
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>>34330276
Your ex violently abused you because you let him. That's the big secret about abusers, anon. They do it because they could and everyone let them get away with it. They're usually products of single mom households or a household where father was weak spined or absent. The mother then raises a son, and as we all knows women can never teach boys how to become men. So your ex man was what we call "bitch made". Raised by a bitch and not a man. Bitch made men are also known as "Peter pans" "man children" "pinnochios" and "faggots". They think like proto-women, they act like proto-women, except they have the unchecked and I controlled aggression of a man. Actual men control their aggression and only use it for a greater good. Bitch made men can't control it, they explode on a dime. Especially if they feel their fragile masculinity being questioned, they never want anyone to find out they are more boy than man. The truth is it's even worse, they're more girl than man. Thats why they feel it's okay to hit women, because they see women as their emotional equals whether they admit that or not. They don't see the unfair matchup between a man vs woman in a fight, they see a big angry woman and he feels like the little gay boy who shits his diaper whenever mommy says "no".

What you are supposed to do in the future anon is have boundaries. Don't date bitch made men.
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>>34328236
>The police will not do anything
kek what bumfuck shithole do you live in where this is true?
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>>34329960
>addicted to weed
goynip, not even once
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>>34330362
It is true, it's basic street smarts. If the police don't like you, they're not gonna respond swiftly to help you. Especially if you are a sex offender or kiddy rapist, they deliberately "get lost" on the way to the address and they hope in the time of the delay the sex offender croaks and dies and it's "too late". I've seen officers talk about it seen a few off duty laugh about it when I'd eavesdropped on their convos. And it's not about being in a shit hole. Everywhere is like this, withe exception of countries full of people with brown skin. Brown skin countries and their police defend rapists and child touchers all the time. Esp Muslim countries

In the west, once you got that mark of cain on your forehead it doesn't wash off. Life never gets better only downhill until you're either killed off or hospitalized or you an hero. Either one
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>>34328181
ew, your sister is ugly, why do you care if shes get slapped around a bit? propably she even desrves it while she is a bitch, and sleeping with a 14 year old boohoo, if it wasn't actual rape who gives a fuck, i know multiple chicks that started fucking 20-30 year olds at 13-14.
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I found the Brett guy's facebook @ brett.lepkowski

This guy's a huge pussy you say one thing to him on messenger he reports you and blocks you
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>>34331026
Lmao why are you doxxing her
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>>34330346
You think saw me as big and aggressive? :( but he was 250 lbs heavier than me and said I waste most submissive girl he’d ever met but sometimes said I waste being a bitch but it was for small things like my tone of voice or if I defended myself
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>>34331056
.You think saw me as big and aggressive? :( but he was 250 lbs heavier than me and said I waste most submissive girl he’d ever met but sometimes said I waste being a bitch but it was for small things like my tone of voice or if I defended myself

Men like that don't feel heavier or stronger than women, I'm not talking about the body I am talking of the mind. They're scared of women saying no to them because they have a fragile ego and when that implodes they will brutally attack the woman, and they are so retarded and mentally ill they think beating a woman is equal to the pain he got in being rejected. That's how fragile bitch made men are, they're insecure girl-men who are coded by their miserable mother's neuroticism packed into the body of a 250lbs man.

Put it this way: Imagine if we took an emotional hormonal woman but gave her the body of a 250lbs muscular man with man arms and man legs and man knuckles and man fists. You know and I know that would be a recipe for ultra violence the minute the man-woman has a temper or gets insecure.

Now realize that's exactly what you dated. A bitch in the body of a man
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>>34331068
He wasn’t 250 lbs he was like 350-400 lbs but I’m about 118-120 lbs and have mild autism but yes that’s a good point
I guess maybe u can’t relate because I’ve been schizoid most of my life and have avoided rejection by avoiding social interaction
It is crazy how insecurities in childhood can shape people but it doesn’t make sense unless thinking about it on literal ways like that
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>>34331086
I cant*
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>>34331086
>I guess maybe u can’t relate because I’ve been schizoid most of my life and have avoided rejection by avoiding social interaction

I can relate to the fear of rejection. I used to have severe dysphoric fear of rejection, I'd even perceive rejections in people's words that did not exist. RSD it's called.

I didn't go the schizoid route though, my damage was the narcissistic route, superficial charm is what I'd use to avoid rejection. I'd fake positivity and fake being interested and fake my persona and fake everything to people please others so they would have no single reason to reject me. Problem is my pathology for this was a rejection of myself, because they'd never get a chance to know me, my true self. Which created a self created feedback loop of sending rejection, it was because I was the one who made sure I was rejected by never allowing myself to be me. The real ugly personality me. Thankfully I grew out of it and stopped being a narcissistic shithead.

You're right though, childhood does shape us in very twisted ways if its a bad upbringing. Only reason why I became a pathological liar was because I learned it. I had to. Telling the truth about mistakes or failures or showing anything negative in my home resulted in chaos and abuse. So I learned that lying was preferable to honesty and got myself lost for a long time.
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>>34330276
>is there some connection between legal speed and volatile mood swings
gee I fuckin wonder
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Welp, goes to show there is someone for everyone.



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