But I'm really not. How do I prevent this shit from happening? And why does it happen? I just add "haha" or sometimes come up with something funny, that I wouldn't be able to come up with IRL because I'm a slow thinker and too shy for that shit.I also have a hard time being "pushy" and showing myself as affectionate and sexual. Well, I kinda am not too affectionate (something I have to work on), but it's even worse when I'm just meeting a woman, even if I have talked to her for a long time on apps.
>>34328752Anyone?
make your question more clearpeople think you're funny because they like you, not the other way around
>>34329328Well,put that way, the problem is that they like the "texting" version of me more than the "real-life" one.
>>34329942so practice real life morethink about jokes you're going to make ahead of timefunny stories, puns, memes, knock knock jokes, etcpersonally, I have a few good punchlines to end a rant withtexting is like 2d compared to irl 3d
>>34328752>also have a hard time being "pushy" and showing myself as affectionate and sexualEven in texts? I'm a chudded loser and i can do this easily, at least while texting.
>>34330965no, in texts I can show myself as affectionate, though sexual depends on the girl.irl, though... I don't know how to deal with rejection and stuff. the only times I've got any results were mostly because the girls really wanted me to fuck them.
>>34329942if you're able to be 'funny' in texts then you'll be able to be funny irlI was apparently funny in work messages then but awkward in person but then started working in the office and slowly people found me funny in personjust keep doing in-person interactions to lvl up your social normalfag skills
>>34333828>if you're able to be 'funny' in texts then you'll be able to be funny irlI'm a slow thinker, kinda reclusive, and I've been kinda isolated for a couple of years (and before that I was a NEET too)but yeah, I used to work in the office and apparently my coworkers found some of my comments funny. only problem with that is that I work in a highly technical field and those comments were nerdyI guess I need more social interaction AND some confidence. I've been looking for a good psychologist... so far every single one I've talked to has been borderline useless and a waste of money, IMO. or maybe I'm too stubborn. or both.
