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I always say I'm going to change but never do. Deep within me I feel as if I have so much potential but honestly what if I'm just delusional. After all I've said it a million times that I'd make some drastic change in my life for the better, but never do.

It's like my words mean nothing, not even to myself.

What sets me apart from the rest of people who just do things, while I give up almost instantly? Do I just not care as profoundly as you guys? Do I like foresight? Do I just not understand what's at stake? What the fuck is wrong with me... I envy those people who suddenly hear the right words, and its like they open their eyes and are illuminated. What's funny is that I asked a person I knew how he got his masters, he simply said that he liked cool stuff and needed money. Just like that straight forward and no bullshit. I too like nice stuff, but I don't do anything.

Why WHY WHYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY
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>>34329424
I suspect that I'm a self absorbed dumb loser that likes his own misery more than being happy. It's a hard pill to swallow and makes me want to kms
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Clearly you have the introspection to know what the problem is and how to fix it. There’s never going to be a “right moment” where you figure it all out. The words I’m typing are ultimately meaningless for improving your life. The only thing that will change your situation will be YOUR ACTIONS. Not daydreaming, not ruminating, not wishing- just acting.

In one week you will have either progressed towards your goals or you’ll have done nothing. Time will pass either way.
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>>34329424
make the small change, '2 minutes' or whatever small unit
'for want of a horseshoe the kingdom was lost'
in your case it would be gained
'kaizen'
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>foresight
>what's at stake
>Suddenly hear the right words, and its like they open their eyes and are illuminated
>Actions

I'm sorry.
You said what I needed to hear.
I just really needed to hear you say it.

Thank you and I love you. Good night
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>>34329424
>I have so much potential
Potential in what? Exactly. Just vague bullshit you don't have any particular potential/talent/configuration that sets you apart from the commoner

>how he got his masters, he simply said that he liked cool stuff and needed money
If that's the sort of shit that's impressive to you then I'm afraid I've got news

Ur dumb

Jk but like fr stop sucking off edufraud shit and go do something actual with ur puny little measly mole life
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>>34331485
Projecting because of your own low self-esteem. You don't know whoever the other person is, you were just saying that to make yourself feel better about your own failures
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>>34332549
Projecting what mate? This poster said ohhhh muh potential but pinpointed exactly nothing in regards to what he has potential in

And I can tell a lot about a person by what they idolize
>I envy those people who suddenly hear the right words, and its like they open their eyes
>how he got his masters, he simply said that he liked cool stuff and needed money.
>I too like nice stuff, but I don't do anything.
OP needs to get kicked out and become homeless so he actually "needed money" for once in his life like the masters guy
Notice how he completely ignores the "money" component and utility side of things and only cares about the ooh nice stuff cool and shiny useless badges and "prestige" of getting useless certificates from muh intellectual fraud institution

The one actually projecting low self esteem is YOU lmao
You project random schizo shit in every thread I see you in. Go cry to your muh maria, fag
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You are feeling in the gaps with your own negative assumptions. That is called projecting. You're not taking the post as is and instead using your own negative assumptions to interpret the the post In a certain way that is not true.

All those things you just mentioned in this post to me are projections from yourself, issues you're dealing with or are conscious about in some judgmental way in relation to yourself.
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>>34333312
You can be attractive and still have anxiety, depression
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>>34333294
No they're not, they're valid critiques against the structures baked into our systems/society

>You're not taking the post as is and instead using your own negative assumptions to interpret the the post In a certain way that is not true.
Newsflash 99% of posts on /adv/ are vagueposting and it's up to you to use some braincells to fill in the gaps. At least I don't fill them in with schizo-posting about some random literal who Maria completely irrelevant shit and actually fill them in with high probability scenarios I've seen play out a billion times

>your own negative assumptions.
If OP wants some more positive assumptions made about himself then he should stop being a gigantic retard for one (you too)
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>>34334520
Kk chill your tits bro



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