How do you deal with a woman who is always for the opposite of what you think/say?Me:>I'm against conscription because it needlessly sends young men into active battle zones against their will, while being largely unmotivated to do soHer:>Oh no that's totally wrong, military service is great for discipline and learning about norms and values in today's societyIf I said the 180 opposite, she would've gone>Oh come on, you cannot force men to enlist for military service, that's just modern slavery.Sick and tired of this bullshit. How do I escape this?
also is there a term for this other than something generic like "toxic"?
contrariansometimes it's good to have your ideas rebuttal'd, but all the time is annoyingyou can accept that thats how her mind works, and pick and choose if you'll engage frivolous debate, or say whatever and move onor you can sir her down and explain to her that contradicting everything you say is a huge drag "stop playing devil's advocate