I’m 25, in relationship with my current girlfriend for almost 4 years. The thing is I feel like I do not like her as much as I did before. Back then she was taking care of her self, outgoing and stuff. Now she mostly lays in bed on her phone, she does not help me with house chores unless I specifically ask her to. The only thing she does sometimes is cook delicious food. She also gained some weight, I guess because she does not take care of herself. She never goes to doctors (not once in 4 years) despite having problems with her teeth rotting out. She does not have a job but is studying in last year so it’s okay. She also is very child-like, always asks my opinion on every small thing - like what should I eat today? like how the hell am I supposed to know?? Why can’t she just make herself breakfast like I do without asking dumb questions?I’m at the point where I don’t know if I want this relationship anymore, but also I’m afraid of loneliness and hurting her feelings.Any advice is appreciated.
>>34329821Have you ever tried talking to her and asking her to take care of herself?I know this shit is basic, but maybe she's regarded.
>>34329828I haveShe always finds out excuses to it.Like why should I get out of bed - what will I do?Regarding the teeth - I’m scared of doctors.She is a grown ass woman…
>>34329821>She also is very child-like, always asks my opinion on every small thing - like what should I eat today? like how the hell am I supposed to know?? Why can’t she just make herself breakfast like I do without asking dumb questions?She's trying to communicate with you. This story shows you're ignoring her and minding your own business. Talk to her you fucking faggot. Sit her down and talk to her. You are also at fault for this. Sounds like you are a passive faggot who ignores the issues until they pile up in the 4th year. Because of that she has also let herself go. Sounds like you haven't kept her in line at all. You just shrugged your shoulders when she did something you didnt like and that kept going.
>>34329837Maybe having a serious conversation with her, explaining that the relationship is at risk because of her inadequate behavior.Maybe this could help. If it doesn't, at least you gave it a try.>>34329846Why are you so mad?
Dump herTell her ur sick of hard-carrying her heavy hole ass and ur backs bout to break 1v9ing this unwinnable FF@25 uninstall over before it began FF at loading screen
