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Here's a pure translation of a text exchange between me and my 6 years gf :

Her: Which vacuum did your parents buy? My dad is looking for one.
>Me: I have no idea. (I was at work)
Her: Yeah great Anon, I figured you had no idea...
>Me: ha, you want me to ask them ?
Her: No kidding.
>Me: eh oh. (In frog it means "calm down, but softer)
Her: I mean, if you don't know, yes I want you to ask?
Her: Come on.
Her: I ask you something and you just tell me you don't know, like seriously make an effort.
>Me: But why are you being so aggressive, it's crazy.
Her: I’m not being aggressive, I just think you're taking the piss.
Her: Like if you asked me what model of window cleaner my parents have, I'm not going to answer "I don't know."
Her: I'm going to go ask them.
Her: I'm not just going to say "I don't know" and move on to something else.
Her: To me, that's taking the piss.

I feel like I'm constantly walking on a mine field anons, is it normal ? I understand that sometimes I'm being retarded but man this happens only with her, like most people like me and thinks I'm a chill guy otherwise
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>>34329954
Your first mistake is to expect women to be reasonable. Always treat women as children.
Some times they can be prone to fits of rage if things don't happen as they expect. This is specially true when they are on their period.
There's also the situation when the relationship is deteriorating, instead of opening talking to you, they will become more selfish and turn everything into a reason to fight.
I don't know which case is yours, but you should have the knowledge to determine the situation in which you find yourself.
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>>34329969
idk man I feel like she's just super aggressive all the time and rages on me very often so I don't know what to do, I took the nice guy way and said nothing at first but now it's starting to weigh on me. The problem is that she followed me to go live in another country so now I would feel bad to dump her
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>>34329954
Sounds like she's on the rag. I wouldn't worry about it.
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>>34329988
>she followed me to go live in another country so she could continue being a bitch to me so I would feel bad to dump her
that was her choice - she did it to herself.
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>>34330011
>>34329969
looking at the few replies it seems like it's normal for the gf to be a cunt. At least that makes me feel better I guess
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>>34329954
>Wanting people to be sympathetic when you post a picrel like that.
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>>34330065
There's normal being a cunt and abnormal, incurable being a cunt (bpd). The text messages reminded me of my bpd ex, so that's one possible reason she acts like this. Obviously you haven't given a lot to go on, but maybe something to consider if her behaviour seems totally mysterious and inconsistent to you
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>>34329954
>But why are you being so aggressive, it's crazy.
T'es soupe au lait
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>>34330624
It's hard to tell I've been living in fear of saying something wrong for a long time now, again I'm not saying I don't do/ say retarded stuff, but I've never started any arguments or anything over the course of our relationship, on the other hand every 3 weeks she complains about me and find a reason to argue.
>>34330178
Nah man I just want to know if this is normal, I kinda hoped that having a relationship would be fulfilling and nice
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>>34329969
It was clearly a type of shit test.
OP, you should've been firmer and asserted yourself. Something like
"I already told you I don't know so shut up or ask them yourself."
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>>34329954
Nah, you’re a piece of shit. Everyone who uses phrases like “I don’t know” are lazy garbage without enough respect for themselves to have any for others.
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>>34331629
She's testing boundaries, especially if you never called her out on her bs.

>I kinda hoped that having a relationship would be fulfilling and nice
it could be if you know your and her place in it. As it stands now you're her bitch and she's bored slapping you around.
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>>34334362
Ok but I don't know, like literally no idea. I'm just assuming the question isn't important and can wait for when I call my parents
>>34330626
Possible, j'ai du google cette expression c'est la première fois de ma vie que je la rencontre



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