>be me, ugly 19 y/o girl>start job at a propane company >be polite to older coworker, prob retarded >bake poundcake and bring in for all my coworkers to try>he says something weird about paying for my cake>laugh it off bc im not gonna be a bitch to a coworker >hold basic conversation w/him, be nice, etc.>turn 20>notice all his weird behavior 100x>watching me though doors, staring at me when I make coffee, goes into office when he hasn’t seen me, waiting in office for me to get back from wherever, waiting for me to check him out on register, purposely waiting behind door or walking infront of me to hold door open, etcIdk if I should report him to hr or if I’m being dramatic, everyone calls him “weirdo _____” and brush off his behavior to his weirdness. I’m the only girl who he does this to, like he genuinely dgaf about my other female coworkers
>>34330656Post tits
deadass? I have nothing to live for atp, it’s not like my coworkers or anyone irl will find this post
>>34330656He thinks he has a chance. Just anonymously report say "x is being overly friendly with y who clearly doesn't want to be familiar" and they will have a word with him
Tell him you're not interestedOnly report himif he's harassing you, not just cause his vibes are off
>>34330735Do it do it do it do it
>>34330656>propane company >>34330748That. Just tell the person they are being really awkward and that you are just here to work.Going to hr because he is just an oddball is a generally shit move.
>>34331003Why not lose some weight, your tits have potential. NTA, but now I can answer your question: If hes been a weirdo for so long without anything ever happening, its not likely that you are the first. He probably just thinks he has a chance because you're being nice to him.
>>34331019First part valid, I’m working on it mainly because I’m tired of being a virgin and plan on going clubbing in SK with my friend. Second, that’s probably true, a coworker set him up on a date with a girl once and she called him an “octopus” because he was all over her the second they left the restaurant
He has a crush on you but is too pussy to approach. Trust me, I'm just like him. Don't report him to HR, just ignore him and turn him down if when he asks you out.
>>34331003 damn I missed it
>>34331089rq b4 i disappear off 4chan
>>34331104Hot damn
>>34331104>Brown with thot nailsI'm gonna COOOOOM
>>34331104feels nice to come into the thread at the right time
>>34330656Communicate to him that what he does makes you uncomfortable. If it doesn't get better then report it.
>>34331104Would pound your cake
Women biggest problem is that men are interested in them... what a life
>>34331144thnx 4 the new discord user + “thot” nails before the charms broke off <\3
>>34331414Holy chit my nail fetish is activating so hard rn
>>34331339sadgeg>>34330656wow you are really nice OP. baking cake for your coworkers...what a cutie.that being said, ye he weird because he thinks he has chances with you, you are new and young/fresh meat at the place. also beauty is in the eye of the observer, maybe to him, you arent ugly but weirdly erotic/beautiful?do what >>34331230 said. be polite and do tell him objectively and calmly, without letting emotions rule your words. he might try some weird stuff again, but you should just shake your head in dissapointment, he prolly will get it then/ if he harrasses you then go to HR
>>34330656>>34331104No timestamp but who can be sure so fuggit yeah I'll give you some adviceFirst, don't take what he's doing too personally, he's probably a mid-functioning sperg who never got a taste of a real relationship and doesn't know how to act around women. But you do need to let him down gently and let him know that you are not interested in him (or any other coworker, even if that's a lie). Don't report him or anything like that.In the meantime look for a better paying job or a guy to take care of you and pump you with babies. You can probably score an established six figure earner in his 30s if you're not a bitch and not fat (even if you think you're "ugly")
>>34331104It’s sad seeing people not caring about their bodies here, and the same people who are supporting it would be complaining about it later.
>>34330656>>34330748>>34330837>>34331080>>34331339>>34335121>>34335330Honestly, I've seen these kinds of men ignore rejections and decide to push it further.As in, she says "sorry i'm not interested" or whatever and in return he decides to start touching her (poking, purposely standing in her way, attempting to hug, etc.) when he wasn't before the rejection. He then starts trying to figure out where she goes outside of work without her noticing. It's covert and creepy, and they have enough self-awareness to know they're gonna get in trouble if they aren't sneaky.This one is a bit hard to discern because it could be innocuous, or a situation like I described above which is unfortunately much more common than people think. I would keep tabs on his behavior or hard quit your job if you can afford it. HR and managers love to downplay scenarios like this.
>>34335533>Honestly, I've seen these kinds of men ignore rejections and decide to push it further.>Honestly, I've swum in the ocean and have been attacked by sharksShut the fuck up you actual worthless maggot of a human being, you soulless nub of ugly flesh.
>>34335372Females are generally not welcome on this website, that has been the predominate culture since its inception.(Spoiler the following does not apply to OP, you followed the rules sweaty thx)Say you want to come here, ask your questions immediately framed as a female from the first line of your post, then you don't expect backlash for grabbing attention with that? No, fuck you, you show your tits. Humiliate yourself. Guys have been sexually harassed at work too, why can't this be told from the perspective of a twinkish guy let's say? No matter what hiroshimoot, Kadokawa, or Good Smile, all of whom are going to die one day in the next decade or so, say, you don't have more rights than the men of 4chan who built this culture. Tits are the access code for anyone claiming to be a woman,
>>34330656Remember, giving single men attention will make them fall in love with you. Be careful with this in the future.
>>34335679As misogynist as I am, this is 100% correct. Do not give affection to men unless you want their attention. Courteous, but cold and curt, that's how you talk to men in your professional environment unless you want them to fall in love with you as so many attention whores do.
>>34331104It's the only time that I see a femanon deliver op the post tits or btfo but nobody helps her. Sadge
>>34335679Not true. there's plenty of women who gave me attention that i haven't fallen in love with.
Can I get your experiences of having breaks from your partner in a relationship?I don't mean the "let's fuck other people" kind of break, but my current relationship is so rocky, we're both unhappy around each other and I'm considering just taking a weekend/week away so we can have some space from each other.5 year relationship, ups and downs but there's genuine anger towards each other now and the close proximity is making it worse. Up until now it has been the loveliest experience of my life and she's a great soul, but fuck me, we're at a shitty situation.anyway, if you've been in a similar situation or done something like this I'd like to hear how it worked out.
>>34335727I'm saying generally. You're the exception. If a not obese woman gives me attention and affection, i am probably crushing on her hard quite soon.
>>34330656> if I should report him to hr or if I’m being dramatic, everyone calls him “weirdo _____”You solved the problem by yourself, and anons gave you more paths of action:>tell him with a cold stare how much of a creep he is>be mean with him everytime he start being weird>quit your job and look for anotherAt best he is sperg "with good intentions" at worst a potential stalker if you don't stop it by now. I don't know, if it bothers you so much and you haven't done anything, i could only imagine as follows:>it's because the guy is such a weird that you don't know how he might react>you don't want to ruin the work vibe by escalating the situation>maybe, who knows, you like the attention and adoration he offers you, even if it's unsolicited and from a weirdo.>>34331104nice tits darling>>34335717there's plenty of help, but it seems she doesn't want to act
>>34330656No man will ever love you fucking ugly bitch.
>>34330656Casually mention your BF.Pretend to be calling your BF near him.You dont need to be a jerk and report him.END OF THREAD
