>be me, 28m>recently led on and heartbroken by the only girl I've ever managed to truly love in my life>A few months later, some girl contacted me online and we hit it off>we talked and spent time together, I'm liking her vibe and would like to know her more>she's been quite distant in the last week or so, however>I voiced her my concern and she said she's just busy and starting from yesterday she was going to be more around in order to spend time together>tfw today she didn't show up, sent her a message and she didn't even acknowledge it, she's always on that Do not disturb mode.I'm not saying I'm liking her yet, but I feel a lot of potential, I'd really like to know her more and spend more time together but I'm not really sure how to convey that in a more decisive manner without sounding too desperate.Last year I've been led on and my trust was betrayed; there's baggage, I'm quite traumatised and it's hard, I've been feeling so dull. I don't want to mess this up honestly, I just want a chance to know her better, it's so rare for me to take a romantic interest, but her vibe, I'm liking it. What to do fellow autistic loners?
>>34331556Doesn't sound like you can do much. You already set something up and reached out afterward. If she doesn't respond, or if she flakes again without giving a good reason, just cut your losses and move on.Sorry, OP.
>>34331648I don't know how to do it properly, Until last year I wasn't even sure I could fall in love with real foids, then that girl happened and shook all my convictions and showed me a depth of emotions I didn't know existed, mostly new pits of sorrow in the end.With this other girl, I don't know what I feel like, but she has a good vibe, in some way reminds me of the former, I'm not saying I'll end up liking her romantically but I'd like to have the chance to find out. She was around for a week or so, we chatted, she said she wants to be there for me, but then she seems like she says one thing and does another.Maybe I should just move on but I suck at doing that, scarcity mindset and all. I truly feel like it's so rare for me to click with someone to such a degree. Maybe I'm destined to be alone forever and what happened last year with the other girl was just a system glitch. Maybe I'm not made to experience the joys of love and building a life together.
>>34331556sorry bro, she's on the carousel. move on.women these days juggle men for different purposes. you are likely the one ''who listens'' but only when she needs it.
>>34331556she's fucking some other dude on the side, 100%
