How can I get a girlfriend without having to build up the courage to approach and talk to a woman? I would preferably like to just spawn in mid-relationship
>>34333846Be extremely attractive. That's about it.
>>34333877What if I’m extremely mid but 6ft?
Start with a smile, only if she smiles towards you first. A small joke to ease into a conversation. See if she's interested in talking more based on her reaction (is it a forced laugh, or a genuine one). Let her take the lead and try to be interested in what she's galking about. Eventually, the rest will fall into place. Never seem desperate. Don't even bring up relationships and status as part of the convo in the first few weeks. Often the best relationship starts out as a friendship/acquaintance. All this while you learn more about each other. If your interests don't align or if she's taken, no problem, rinse and repeat the steps until you find someone.That said, do be careful. Always have your phone on you to record if she accuses you of anything. Best to also keep away from social media, hers especially (you never know).Look for obvious red flags (does she want to date you for money, is she asking you for dinner at expensive places, does she want gifts, wear too many piercings/tattoos/short dyed hair/aggressive liberal behavior, etc).First and foremost: keep yourself safe, before jumping into a relationship that could be a trap. I've found that it's often better to be alone than to risk it with someone you like, only to ignore the obvious red flags and screwing your life up just cause you wanted someone.Oh and always work out, build muscle, and learn handyman traits like repairs around the home, etc. Good luck.
>>34333846The only alternative to talking to them in person is dating apps.