How to know if the girl you are about to get married through church arrangements is a virgin or not? I am thinking of going towards arrange marriage, I am a Catholic so I gonna apply in a Catholic Church to find myself a suitable brideI want my wife to be virgin that does not cheat on me with another menAnd I don't care about her race or ancestry and shit, I just want a virgin wife, can anyone tell me how should I know or even if I ask the girl or not and how can I know if she's telling the truth or lying?
>>34334252I just trust her
Its tricky. There's no way to be 100% sure until you consumate the marriage, by which point its already too late.Your best bet is to stalk her friends on social media. If her friends are sluts, she likely is/ used to be.Also, during your first night together, make note of what she is like in bed. If she takes the lead and is overly confident, her seals been broken.For example, I know that my ex-gf was a virgin before me - she didn't even know how to give a bj and was so tight that we had to spend months loosening her up for penetration.
>>34334252>I want my wife to be virgin that does not cheat on me with another menThese are two separate things. Just because you're a girl's first doesn't mean she's not going to cheat on you, that's 4chan incel rhetoric relying on two charts from a 20 year old study.
>>34334252If you don't trust your partner you're not ready for marriage or any sort of healthy relationship. Also aren't you religious? Just belive, lol! Inshallah you get a virgin wife.
>>34334359Lol
>>34334252>How to knowAsk her for a notarized certificate of virginity from her OB/GYN of course. If you're a Catholic you should know these things.
>>34334409Imagine your wife got touched by someone else before you touch herDoes it not concern you
>>34335391That is 95% of women. Also, they can lie about it.
>>34335399I am looking for remaining 5 Percent
>>34335576They're mostly very ugly and fat.
>>34335391I have touched many women and can honestly say I've fallen in love with several Should it concern my skittish virgin wife who doesn't know how to handle guys hitting on her, which happens to all average and above girls, while she's sitting with this knowledge?It's not the girls' body count, it's the girl. If you're a virgin too then I guess I might bother you but once you get four or five bodies below your belt like the average functional male should it stops being a big deal.
>>34334252I pick up women throughout the year. Last year I landed a virgin girl unexpectedly. We are still together. But I have to say its quite a vanilla experience.
>>34334252Hundred year old joke:A man wants a virgin wife. He is introduced to a woman who seems nice, but he still wants a guarantee, and demands proof. She brings him a note from her doctor that she is still virgo intacta."That's no good! It's dated yesterday!"
>>34334252Virginity is not the same as chastity.The biggest slut I ever knew was a virgin. She was determined to go to her wedding night with an intact hymen, but any guy who accepted that boundary could have free use of her hands, mouth and anus. And many did.
>>34334252>How to know if the girl you are about to get married through church arrangements is a virgin or not?You can't. It is that simple. There is *no* reliable way to tell.
>>34334252>I want my wife to be virgin that does not cheat on me with another menA virgin.A woman who doesn't cheat on you.Pick one. Virgins cheat more often than any other kind of woman out of sheer curiosity and sexual FOMO.
>>34334394>There's no way to be 100% sure until you consumate the marriageYou can't be anywhere near sure even then, chum.>inb4 hurr durr, hymensNo. Please become more knowledgeable.
>>34334394she played you for a fool.>>34334252Put white towel under her when you deflower her.If it's red then she's a virgin.Also being a virgin doesn't mean she's not a slut.You have an entire "ISLAMIC" nation with virgin hookers, that do anal exclusively.
>>34335391Weird question, I feel the same way about my car.I don't want to buy used car no matter what.
>>34336280That's not how hymens work
>>34336017Yeah you can't be a 100% percent sure but if she is too confident/ knows what she is doing on the first night, you can be pretty certain she's had sexual encounters before.
>>34334252If she is really into you she will allow to you to inspect her intact hymen, if she refuse she already exposed herself as a liar whore. im sarah4093 in discord add me so i can send you pics about how looks like an intact hymen
>>34334252Normally, the local women would do an inspection of her hymen beforehand. Not even memeing. Obviously it sucked nigger dick for the woman to be manhandled by a bunch of crones.Also obviously thats not a thing anymore even in the most conservacucked churches.I'd rather ask the questin of why you are desperately trying to larp as an 18th century peasant instead of meeting women like anormal person.
>>34334252Ideally you get to know her before you're married.Also why do you think that the catholic church will arrange a marriage for you?Even when arranged marriage was the norm in catholic countries it was the parents that arranged the marriage not the church.
>>34336649>Ideally you get to know her before you're married.>ideallyAh yes, because not even talking to each other before concluding a union for life is such a great idea. Quick reminder, divorce is nowaday legal and often economically catastrophic. Again, don't try to larp as if it was 200 years ago because it isn't. Playing a game of pretend won't change that.
>>34335391No, because I’m not some insecure man child bum. Sex is apart of life. Should she dislike me if I’ve fallen in love before, but it didn’t work out? People have sex. Unless it’s an unreasonable number, get over yourself.
>>34336657What?You realize I am responding to OP right?>I am thinking of going towards arrange marriage, I am a Catholic so I gonna apply in a Catholic Church to find myself a suitable brideHe's the one who is saying he's looking for an arranged marriage.
>>34336662This was typed by whore hands
>>34334252Being a virgin makes it more likely she will cheat down the line dumbass.
>>34334359LMAO, this guy has a black son
>>34335391If she was doing porn, or a known party girl, or had a ton of baggage from exes, otherwise no.What you're expecting is understandable, but highly unrealistic. If you're so hung up on it, I suggest giving up.
>>34334252You don’t get to know, it’s arranged. Have you heard the phrase “beggars can’t be choosers”? If you want your perfect virgin wife put in the effort to find her yourself.
>>34334252Catholics don't have arranged marriages.
>>34337061We already established that you're raising the black son I put in your wife.
>>34336745All the evidence say the opposite. Small but statistically significant. Also shouldn't that be true of people like op that are virgins?
>>34334252>I gonna apply in a Catholic Church to find myself a suitable brideloldon't you think more people would have done that if that was an option?
>>34336890Better to die alone than settle for a whore. I am happy the birth rates are collapsing.
>>34336012No evidence of this, in fact it seems to be the opposite by cursory look at statistics. Also virgin due to anxiety =/= virgin due to belief in no sex before marriage.
You are not going to find a virgin wife. Ever.This isn't the 19th century anymore.You're going to die alone, or you're going to have to accept that your wife fucked someone else before.If this makes you piss angry and furious then tough shit. Stay a virgin yourself forever. Or fuck some girls yourself so you demystify sex and aren't a baby bitch about it.
>>34337262I will just Never get married and support pumping and dumping whores so society collapses and everyone is left bitter and dies :)
>>34337275Including you of course.Imagine living in bitter loneliness till you die because you can't get over your partner having had a life before you.If you wanted your ideal virgin wife you should have gotten one when you were young.
>>34337394Half of all millenial women will die childless. We need to destroy this society. Conservatism in an evil society is treason to humanity.
>>34337394This seems to be a growing trend among men now a days. Hopefully as they grow up they learn to get over it. Cause otherwise they are going to turn into the male version of a spinster.
>>34337407That will totally help you establish a family.
>>34337412Family formation is in the fucking gutter. You are living through civilisational collapse. What do you think having less than 1.0 child per woman means? HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHA
>>34337423Fuck the bourgeois family and you too boomer retard.Wow! 1.8 children, a white picket fence and a whore. ^^^^^^This isn't worth dying for, it isnt even worth living for.
>>34335391Anon, this is 4chan. There are a bunch of porn addict losers who don't care about being cucks because that's the only thing they can do with their pathetic lives.
>>34337262You're pathetic
>>34337439Just kill yourself then lmao>>34337446The only thing that's pathetic is screaming about something that's not gonna happen. Do you want magic powers too little bitch boy?
>>34337424No I think you are being a doomer and trying to speak this civilization collapse into existence because you are mad that woman won't be your pet. This can get better. It just means we have to start doing something about it.
>>34337450I'm happy you're going down with us.
>>34337450Keep being a pathetic weak little man who has to put down other people because you are unable to accomplish anything yourself. Enjoy being a cuck, retard.
>>34337464Unfortunately for you nothing is going down. Everything is just going to keep going on. There will be no collapse that justifies your bitch behavior.
>>34334252Anon, even if she's a virgin you can't know if she sucked a dick. There is no point in marrying if you don't trust her.That being said, don't listen to the retards who are okay with sloppy seconds. They are just copying with their own sad existences.
>>34337453There is as much patriarchy here as there is in pakistan. Nothing has changed, Just consolidated and hidden behind a cash nexus. Ideology is bullshit.>>34337472Your children will have less than you btw. Lol
>>34337412Are you too stupid to realize that a bunch of single old men just means that there are going to be a proportional amount of single old women?
>>34335856How did you meet?
>>34337517NTA but mine was in collage and just pure luck. I don't know how to find them anywhere else.
>>34337508Sure, two groups of people that hate each other intensely and blame each other for their problems in life. Those women aren't magically one day wake up and say "Oh yes I need to marry the old single men". Instead, they'll burn the world down with the men. That isn't good either.
>>34337499>Your children will have less than you btw. LolYou won't even have any. By your own admission.>>34337471>Keep being a pathetic weak little man who has to put down other peoplePot calling the kettle black
>>34337527Why are you assuming men won't just revoke women's rights?
>>34337537Because most guys have no problem getting in a relationship. Unlike you.
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>>34337535You are the one who went into a thread about a topic that triggers your weak man sensibilities just to throw your tantrum. If you don't appreciate female virginity then just ignore it like a functional adult, and just go to the "how to raise a stepson" thread or whatever you like.
>>34337527So be it then, retard. If we abandon traditional values in exchange of "freedom" then that's it, let the world burn.
>>34337537Cause there is a big section of men that are simps and wouldn't allow it. You'd probably need to convince them that it's in the woman's best interest to not have rights. But I don't know if that would be successful.
>>34337559>If we abandon traditional valuesWho is this "we". Cause I certainly haven't done that shit and i'd take a bet and say you haven't either. So no I'm not gonna let society turn into degeneracy and just act like there is no changing that. There is a solution we just have to find it. At least that's what gives me hope that this world isn't too far.
>>34337549>AILmaoEven if it's true, which I'll gladly grant it might be, it doesn't help you get anything you want bitching about it. You're either going to have to kill yourself or get over it and get a wife despite the fact that she fucked a guy who's bigger than you. Hope that fact doesn't make you so insecure you'd kill yourself anyway.>>34337553I'm here to tell you you're a retard
>>34337601And you fail a such a basic task. Grow up and get a job or something.
>>34336629I sent you the request it was something from a account named Snopyboi
>>34336649Because the Catholic Church near me has a small department for dealing with arrange marriages so why not go the easy way
>>34336644Dude I just wanna live a good life with a good woman is that too much to ask for?
Hymen check gynecologist.
>>343378061. If she is a virgin she isn't going to want her first sexual experience to be some white coat poking and stretching her holes at her husband's orders. You're probably going to have to marry islamics for them not to see it as a violation or a deal breaker.2. If period blood is making its way out of her cunt there's going to be a hole.
>>34337777Are you actually an observant Catholic? I.e. Have you had your Confirmation? Do you go to Mass every Sunday (and that means EVERY Sunday) and on Holy Days of Obligation? Do you receive Communion only when in a state of grace, that is to say no mortal sin on your soul? Do you pray daily, especially the Rosary? Or were you just baptized and you go to Mass on Ash Wednesday and Easter sometimes, and now you're just looking for an easy way to live the "trad" life? From the way you whine and obsess I'm guessing the latter.>>34337782Just because she's a virgin doesn't mean she'll be good. Married women can and do have affairs all the time, even ones that were virgins at marriage.
>>34334252If you value virginity above everything convert to Islam. I am not kidding you.
>Catholic She's a whore
