I wouldn't consider myself especially big or intimidating. I'm sort of fat but not scary. I'm currently 5'11 and weigh 230 pounds. I live in America so by my country's standards I'm actually kind of skinny relatively speaking. But anyway it's like everywhere I go women are immediately wary of me. Like I'll be walking down the street, a woman passes by seems initially fine, but once she gets within like 10 feet of me she'll make a scared face, start stepping back slowly while looking at me, start clutching her purse, till I eventually pass by her and ignore her. And it happens all the fucking time. One especially egregious example was this woman who was walking her dog, it was a rather big dog too, and as soon as I walk by her she starts to step back slowly, widening her eyes, and clutches her dog, and even her dog seemed like it was like "calm the fuck down lady." At first I thought it was maybe just in my head but I was out with a friend and he was like "yeah that lady was scared shitless of you." And for me it's just like what the fuck? I don't even give a shit about these random women and yet they're so scared of me? What the hell is so wrong with me that they're so scared of me?
>>34334894>I'm currently 5'11 and weigh 230 pounds.>I'm skinnyyou're obesewomen hate fatties
>>34334898By America standards that's normal though. Like one of my best friends is a chunky who is 6'3 and weighs around 535 pounds (he himself said so) and is proud of the fact. Worthy of note though he is pretty physically active so he's insanely strong. He's not too fast but in terms of raw physical strength he is a truly powerful animal.
>>34334894stop trying to understand female logic
>>34334930>By America standards that's normal thoughnormal IS obese
>>34334894If you're getting these types of reactions as often as it sounds like you are then something has to be wrong. Especially if these are completely random women who know nothing about you. It's most likely something do to with your appearance, general vibe, the way you look at people, your smell, the way you dress, or something similar. If you're not White or Asian then unfortunately it could perhaps be due to your race because some women assume that all Black or Hispanic men are violent and out to get them or rob them or something.
>>34334968I suppose you are right but I'm just curious.>>34334976True. Though what the fuck am I look at here? Lol.>>34335150Hmm I suppose you are right. That would make a lot of sense. For starters though, no, I'm not black or hispanic, i'm white. I think my appearance is pretty average. Just an average white guy with brown hair. I've never been told by anyone that I smell. I usually just wear a t-shirt and jeans or t-shirt and shorts. For the way I look at people...maybe. Sometimes I either don't make eye contact at all or hold eye contact for too long. As for general vibes, I guess? I mean in school I was always the weird kid no one liked. Not sure how that carried over to my adult life but yeah.
>>34334894>women are immediately wary of meYour president is a rapist. American women fear all men now.
>>34334968stop trying to understand male logic
>>34335254That unfortunately makes a lot of sense. Sad how just one man can ruin things for millions of other men.
>>34334894you're fat/thread
>>34334894Listen to jon zherka. He has talked about this a lot. The only real task you have when with a woman is lowering her anxiety. If you can do that, everything else will happen naturally.It's state of play, it's you asking for her number while pretending to tie your shoe or sitting down (you're lower than her).
>>343352541 out of every 3 american women in their 20s is obese right now. Let that sink in.
>>34334894>I'm currently 5'11 and weigh 230 poundsThat's fat.
>>34334898>>34335150>>34335998>>34336174>t.victim sized fagsOp is certainly a big boy. However, if you look in anyway capable of overpowering a woman than they will be on edge/scared if they are alone walking by you. They are afraid of being raped/murdered(in no particular order) so they are spooked. I am 6'3 and 240, young women always look spooked when I walk by them at night on the street, in my apartment complex, in my parking garage, or if im out running. Its kind of a fact of life you gotta get used to because there is nothing you can do, they are afraid of you soley based on your stature. This only happens when they are alone, if they are with friends or out at a bar they aren't spooked if you are a big guy. IMO its not bad to scare girls based soley off your appearence because that means you are imposing and maybe a girl in a different situation will see that as a sign you can protect them.
>>34336040That's especially troubling considering your 20s is usually supposed to be the prime of your adult life. If they're this overweight in their 20s then they'll probably be at minimum double that weight by their 30s or 40s. No wonder so many guys are sick of America and wanna move elsewhere.
>>34334894Act like you're gay...I'm serious. From my experience women are scared of all men except for flamboyant gay men. Not sure why but yeah.
>>34336941>Not sure why but yeah.i mean it's really not that hard to figure out. it's because they perceive openly gay men as far less of a threat because why would they rape someone of the sex they're not even attracted to? also because gay men are far more willing to just be friends with them rather than hoping that one day they could be more than friends
>>34334976okay so i thought this was ai generated but turns out it's a three legged dog with one of the front legs amputated and it's turned around licking its back to scratch it
do you have a shaved head or something? my bf told me that when he had a shaved head he looked exactly like gg allin, and together with his style/the clothes he wears, people were constantly intimidated by him.he's a bit chubby too but looks strong, i think on some guys some chubbiness can make them look "bigger", in the intimidating way. so it could also be that combined with a male "resting bitch face".