almost a year ago one of my friends began acting a little weird. she began texting me less and less, and on occasions would post on insta about a certain person that was ''copying her." since we were friends i tried not to think too much of it and ignored it, i didnt think she was referring to me. however, after some point her stories and notes were getting a little too specific. any time i made a story, shed post too with something negative to say right after (she never mentioned anyone in specific but it was pretty obvious it was about me). she also stopped texting me as often, was more dry and at times it almost looked like she wanted to disagree with me on everything? (even if we were saying the same thing). in general she was much more distanti tried to reach out to her friends multiple times to ask what was wrong, but i later found out a lot of them had blocked me on insta with no explanation (when we originally followed eachother and talked). when i told herthat i needed to talk with her, shed either ignore my messages or find any reason to avoid talking with me (she couldnt go out, she couldnt call me). in general even when i asked if there was something going on in regards to one of her notes she never mentioned anything (only that some people had been REALLY pissing her off, but she never expanded upon that). after a few months she unfollowed me and removed me from her followers on both of our private accounts.also for context, i dont know what she meant by me copying her. we had similiar interests abefore meeting. the only thing that comes to mind is that ive gotten into some books and bands she LITERALLY recommened me herself, but i really hope its not because of thatwhen we first began talking she seemed really nice and i liked talking to her. a lot of my friends have had bad expiriences with her too im not sure how to feel. i know shes made it clear she doesnt want to talk about it but i really want to resolve this - do you have any advice??
>>34337295It sounds like she wanted to get rid of you from the start.You might want to fix things or put an end to it, but she doesn't see it the same way.The best thing would be to just walk away; don't get bogged down in it....Although this character is curious. Did your other friends have bad experiences?
>>34337295>do you have any adviceYeah you met a bitch and are now seeking her approval cause you want people to like you. The solution is to stop relying on others for validation and move on. Recognize that some people are POS and don't deserve you.
>>34337563thank uu so much for the reply!! truth be told it does affect me a lot when i think about it, but youre right, ill try to move on :)>did your other friends have bad experiences?yeah one of my friends used to date her, but she started ghosting him out of nowhere and said theyd broken up without notifying him (while flirting with another guy from her class). i had to be the one to tell her to clear things up with himalso while they were dating she was weird towards him too. she only spoke about her issues and he had to comfort her but she never let him talk about his. also after she got a new boyfriend and they broke up too, she ran baclk to my friend to meet up at their school trip. probably to make her other ex jealous(?)in general other people i know dont like her for similiar reasons
>>34337818Seriously, you could get hurt, get away as soon as possible.I'm starting to see patterns. Even if she want to talk to you again, don't trust her. It's an incredibly red flag.>>34337610what this guy said
In my case it was not my fault whatsoever, basting things she's going through and then some random ass hat came out and started lying about me and impersonating me until we lost each other. Things have only gotten worse for her
