I believe I lack whatever it is that attracts women to men. I am a male but I don't believe I commonly find that women are attracted to me. At least not openly. I have been told by friends that some woman may like me but its usually a woman that is already taken(which is weird to me.) What is it about women who are already in relationships liking me? I want nothing to do with that. Anyway, what am I missing? Whatever spark men are supposed to have that attracts single women to them, I seem to lack it. I don't think my personality is bad but I am a very internal person. I think about nearly everything I do and say. I also think I have anxiety issues that I am unsure how to work out. All these things I believe prevent me from actually being able to show my personality. My biggest issue is that I don't like to lead situations or dates. Mostly because I am a fucking autistic and I can't trust my own judgment. I can tolerate very strange things but I am nearly intolerant to certain mundane things. Like most people are okay with big crowded events and traffic. I hate all of those things. I hate large congregations of people in one spot. My first thought in situations like that is "Well, what happens when the event is over? Everyone is going to leave at once and its shit."Anyway, what can I do? I think a sticking factor is just that I can't get my foot in the door with any woman. I believe if there was a situation like someone putting me and a woman in the same room and said "talk". I could do that well. Its just getting to that point is very hard for me. I will see women in real life whom I do want to talk to but my first thought is always "It would be retarded to just walk up and start yapping." There is no correct way it seems? What can I do?
>>34337797Simple. It's that hint of dangerousness and unpredictability (most people who are considered "fun" are to at least some degree socially unpredictable, such as making crude jokes in slightly inappropriate moments or just being a spontaneous person in general, etc.) that makes a man seem like a man to a woman.Autism unironically makes men act like women in most cases.
>>34337809>Autism unironically makes men act like women in most cases.women, famously laser focused on logical argumentation
>>34337809I see what you mean I guess. I wouldn't say I am not dangerous. Its just I don't normally make crass jokes or whatever in those situations because I never get the desire to make the joke in the first place. I understand that "being bold" is a part of all this but what confuses me is being bold for the sake of being bold. It never made sense to me.
>>34337797No woman will ever love you, 90% of women out there do not love their man, they don't know how to love anyway; they only tolerate him as long as he provides.Learn to be stoic and get by without their fake and subpar love therefore about 90% of women should be invisible to you. Rise up above your biological programming.Take care of your health anons and find distractions to help pass the time, that's all most people do anyway, the difference is they do it with somebody so time spent together flows differently. It's merely an illusion though
