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>did well at school
>no girls ever attracted to me
>made fun of by women as a loser beta
>went to university
>no girls ever attracted to me
>girls didn't acknowledge my existence
>got part time jobs in summers
>no girls ever attracted to me
>got a full time job
>no women ever attracted to me
>moved to a big city
>no women ever attracted to me
>made online dating profiles
>no matches
>just went outside
>no women ever attracted to me
>regularly gone to gym for over 10 years and have squatted over 4 plate
>no women ever attracted to me
>now in my 30s
>no women ever attracted to me
>go on multiple holidays abroad
>no women ever attracted to me

Ok. Now what?

I am treated like total subhuman disposable shit that people want to get away from as soon as possible by everyone of every gender in every context and am too ugly to ever have any social life or get a girlfriend, or even get a date, or be taken seriously at work.
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>>34344110
I dunno buy a thai of philippina or something.
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Have you tried being friendly and genuine with people in your life?
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this is /fit/ man do you really think people here can give decent dating advice
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Yeah idk what my problem is either.
On paper, I seem decently attractive (tall, in decent shape, not ugly, sociable, financially responsible) but I've never had a girlfriend and I'm 27.

even if you want to say
>you're probably uglier than you think
>you're more awkward than you think
none of that matters anyway because I know plenty of out of shape, short, broke ugly retards who still fuck and date. I've even seen those weird autists at anime conventions who dress up in cosplay get more pussy than me.

i'm becoming a borderline schizo where i think god just wants me to be celibate my whole life
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>>34344114
do you ask women out? not trying to be disingenuous here
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>>34344115
not really, but that's only because there just aren't really many women in my life who I could ask out

also a big part of it is the simple fact that a solid 70% of women who I begin to develop a crush on all eventually reveal that they have a boyfriend. my standards aren't even high, it's just ridiculous that literally every woman i'm even mildly attracted to always has a boyfriend
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>>34344110
>I am treated like total subhuman disposable shit that people want to get away from as soon as possible by everyone of every gender in every context
Are you a dysgenic loser freak?

be honest
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>>34344110
>Ok. Now what?

Now you post the same thread again and the ladies are sure to come running
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I can see self-deletion in your future. All that independence and self-love noise isn't realistic, it's delusional. If you have no one, you are no one. Get ready to write everything off and die.
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>>34344114
Yes, ugly people do date. But they date equally ugly people. You're probably also ugly/weird, with the only difference being you *think* you're good-looking and thus deserve a good-looking girlfriend. The truth is, good-looking people start dating very earlier and with not much effort. If that wasn't the case for you, then you have your answer.

You better slowly accept that fact now. I know it's comforting to think you're attractive and that it's just a matter of time until a 10/10 single girl asks you out. You've been telling that to yourself since high school, but you're now getting older and believe me, it's gonna hit you like a truck when you ACTUALLY REALIZE "oh shit, that's it... there's no more hope" when you start losing your teeth/hair and your metabolism shifts into lower gear.

It's all fun and games thinking love is "right around the corner" until truth hits you. So be mentally ready.
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>>34344110
lol bro moved to a big city expecting to find women and friends
You sound like a dickhead, Anon. Have you tried not being a dickhead? I see plenty of fuckable girls with cro-mag looking dudes because they have a genuinely likable personality.
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>>34344171
>not really, but that's only because there just aren't really many women in my life who I could ask out
if you don't ask women out, how do you know none have ever been attracted to you? that doesn't make sense
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>>34344110
So you never tried to flirt or ask women out and expect a hot girl to magically fall in your lap ? Talk to new women. That will be a huge start. Problem is, you're probably socially retarded, you'll have a lot of catching up to do. Dont give up. WAGMI.
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>>34344110
>Now what?
Nothing. People like us are like ghost to women. We basically don't exist to them more than "the nice guy" or their friend at maximum. We don't have the face, we don't have the social skills, we don't have nothing. It's useless. Maybe one day a miracle will happen and you will marry a good girl, but that's unlikely.

It never began for people like us.
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>>34344110
Me too OP. I've been told I'm attractive. Men want a piece of my ass. No one ever stays. I want a spouse. Approaching 30, hopeless. Only good as a disposable side piece.



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